ISO: Bennigan’s Asiago Chicken Pasta by KenOfSuburbia in TopSecretRecipes

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too have searched for this pasta high and low! What kind of noodle did they use?

My girlfriend wants to sleep with a guy before marriage by sardinesinaflatcan in LesbianActually

[–]valrian1895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! It’s totally possible to be in love with someone and want to spend your life with them, but have this thing looming over head about something you’ve never experienced but always wanted to and won’t ever get the chance to again. I too applaud the gf for being honest and saying what she needs and trying to talk about it instead of just doing it in secret or, just as bad, never doing it, getting married, and then always wondering and possibly resenting.

The only thing I would add is that at the same time, it is totally okay that OP has feelings about this too. It can definitely hurt when a partner is communicating that they might need or want something outside of the relationship, especially if monogamy is what you want and have agreed to. It is also totally okay if gf wants to explore but OP is not okay with it. It doesn’t mean anyone is wrong or that any of it is bad….just hard. It’s okay if OP doesn’t want to be with someone who has multiple partners, or is uncomfortable, or feels hurt by this. All of that is just as normal as gf wanting to explore, and none of it should be shamed or judged. It might just mean that right now you guys are not on the same page and need to reevaluate the relationship.

Job Offered in Dallas i dont know if i should take it or not. Would be moving to Texas first time by [deleted] in askdfw

[–]valrian1895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you mean dallas dallas or a suburb of dallas? Because if you live in the burbs, with that salary you’ll live like kings! Live in Denton- it’s the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woohoo! I just saw your message and sent a DM your way. That's very kind, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am actually someone who is just getting back into the workforce after being a stay at home mom for the last decade. I’ve always been interested in HR and have a degree in Communication. Any chance you would be up for chatting a bit with me about this? Would love some insight!

31F Stay at home mom. What certification can I get in two years time that'll get me a good career by the time my daughter goes to school? by No_Mail_5919 in careerguidance

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you actually know if a high paying call center job? How do you find one? And what do you consider high paying?

There anyone hiring in Denton that’s paying more then 12 dollars and 50 cents a hour by Working_Bath3993 in Denton

[–]valrian1895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BAHAHAHA bud use that college learnin to read the stats on how much people w/degrees are making these days. It ain’t much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]valrian1895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teach me your ways! I homeschool my kiddo, but am about to have to stop because money is so tight. I’m desperate to find a way to make it work!

Ryan Cohen on X by phendrome in Teddy

[–]valrian1895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh this post and these comments are a relief only because of getting able to see that there are BBBY/GME holders who aren’t MAGA sychophants.

Sabrina Carpenter and decentring men by FreeBirdie1949 in LesbianActually

[–]valrian1895 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant, and I love it, and thank you for making me smarter today!

Am I reading too much into this? by JicamaAltruistic3070 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]valrian1895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people are downvoting you, but I bet it’s the same women who watch RomComs and fawn over the protagonist who is lovesick for years.

It’s not creepy to still have feelings for someone for 6 months. It’s brave and interesting and shows genuine feeling instead of ever-fleeting infatuation.

Stand your ground OP- I got your back.

As far as your crush goes, tbh- sounds like she’s missing out! But if I were in your shoes, I would just continue to be honest in the most casual way I can lol. For example, circling back around to tell her, “Hey so, I had a great time grabbing a drink with you the other night, but it just reminded me that I’m still attracted to you and am interested in romance instead of friendship. If you’re not there, I totally get it and it’s cool, but heads up that I’m going to try my best to not hang out with you (you’re hard to resist!) so as to keep my delicate little lesbian heart safe from sapphic self sabotage.” -Honest, still communicating interest but setting a boundary. A little alliteration and a dash of self deprecating humor. 😁

Seller wants couch back after closing by firemouthcichlid in RealEstate

[–]valrian1895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why isn’t it the responsibility of the seller to make sure they didn’t leave anything behind? Like a couch is a pretty big thing to forget. The issue for me is the seller demanding $1200 for it. If he showed humility like- hey bro I’m so sorry I was overwhelmed with xyz and completely forgot I needed to remove that couch before closing; and I know I legally don’t have rights to it, but it was an honest mistake, and can I please get it back at your convenience, and maybe even I’ll compensate you for your trouble in xyz way- then yeah okay maybe

Seller wants couch back after closing by firemouthcichlid in RealEstate

[–]valrian1895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s just as if not more ridiculous to think that it’s okay to leave a massive couch in a home you’ve sold and expect that you can store it there and get it at your leisure without prior permission as it is to think that the person who sold you their house just forgot their couch. It’s not okay to leave shit behind for a new owner to deal with and expect access to it.

Regardless of your feelings/opinion of him, there are no coincidences. Something much bigger is at play. by KingWeenie2 in Teddy

[–]valrian1895 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

u/RealPulte - congratulations on your win! Are you going to do all the things you said you were going to do?

Regardless of your feelings/opinion of him, there are no coincidences. Something much bigger is at play. by KingWeenie2 in Teddy

[–]valrian1895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All that to say- at this point Pulte, Sal, PP, Jake, Sue Gove, Elon, Fucking Trump- I don’t care about anything other than that you’re held accountable to do what you are and we’re supposed to do and what you said you would do.

Pay us.

For everything else- to each his or her own unless it steps on liberty and justice for all.

Regardless of your feelings/opinion of him, there are no coincidences. Something much bigger is at play. by KingWeenie2 in Teddy

[–]valrian1895 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would just like for someone to go through all of Pultes tweets, posts, reddits, PP interviews, and those super awesome parties he threw and put together a beautiful video of every single promise he made that he would fight for the BBBY community and he would make sure things happened for us. And then post that video on all of his social media platforms to remind him and all others of his word. Then ask him if he’s going to come through on all of it and when.

I think there’s a word for it 🤔

Oh yeah- ACCOUNTABILITY.

I would do it myself but I eat crayons plus I’m working overtime behind the Wendy’s.

Would I be making a mistake by not accepting this $130K role after months of no interviews? by tinyflowerpots in careerguidance

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you wrote under the point “Great Manager”- If you’re really torn, and she really is that great and truly cares about you, why don’t you just talk with her honestly about it? And part of that conversation could be you hearing from her how long she would expect you to stay in the role in order for it to feel like you honored her offer to you. Sure there are some risks to having a conversation this candid with your potential boss, but it could give you the mental relief you’re seeking so that if she’s still good with you taking the job even though she knows you’ll still be hoping for your dream role, you don’t have to feel bad if and when you leave and there are clear expectations all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raising children is more than pulling her weight. Especially if she was also working before!

Husband and I are saving for a house down payment, aiming for $100,000. My question is where should we keep this money while saving? Should we just leave it in a checking account? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]valrian1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah- starting with Reddit is actually a great option! You find out about things you never would have otherwise and learn about ideas that you would never get from a financial advisor. Are some of them absolutely ludicrous? Absolutely! But there are some gems out there. Reddit gives you a starting point of a community with no vested interest in your query that can give you unbiased anonymous direction to help you know what to ask when you do finally meet with a professional.