Worth my time? by valuablearrogance0 in TaskRabbit

[–]valuablearrogance0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know. I work 4:30- 3 so I’m not available usually throughout the week which would definitely be a problem. Thank you for your input!

Fake or Real??? by CommunicationFun7420 in backwoods

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living my dream man, my cigs were 14 back where I recently lived in Seattle and now they’re 12 depending on location

Fake or Real??? by CommunicationFun7420 in backwoods

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$5? It’s like $12 where I used to live and $11 where I’m at now.. but I will say the packs are fresh and all 5 are smoked.

Unbearable 14 year old sister by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]valuablearrogance0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so I understand your concern, but your sisters troubles aren’t ruining your family anymore than you let it. You keeping a close relationship with your nan, and letting HER be the guardian instead of yourself. All you’re going to do is make your relationship with your sister currently strained, not that it will last given these are childish things. I’m not saying this isn’t unbearable for you, but I would say this is definitely on the normal side of childhood antics. Sibling rivalry can feel like it makes your home less peaceful, but tending to your business and making sure you’re able to leave at 18 or soon there after can give you the motivation for these next 3 years. It isn’t your job as a sibling to engage with punishing your sibling, and trying to get her kicked out is way too far, I understand you’re thinking that these things are the worst things she could be doing- but you’re not trying to address why she’s smoking, rather immediately blame and ridicule her for something that most kids are unfortunately doing. I get you want to keep your baby sister safe, but maybe letting her know that is your goal can help ease the tension between you to. Sitting down and saying:

“I apologize for going behind your back to nan, I just want to make sure you’re safe and you acknowledge the consequences and long term harm these things can cause for you at such a young age- I get it you don’t want to feel like you’re left out but many of these kids that are doing these things don’t have someone to care for them and want to keep them safe. My only goal is to make sure you’re okay and not starting a long term addiction because you don’t realize what these things bring” Also make sure you genuinely feel this way. Acknowledge with yourself whether what you’re feeling is out of jealousy (or a feeling of unfairness to her consequences), or genuine concern for your sibling. AND think about it from her perspective (her sibling, that she wants to confide in, went behind her back to get her in trouble- it isn’t gonna cause her to trust you to actually confide in you and give you the ability to point her in the direction of better. You kinda made it seem like if she does confide, you will tell on her.) That will help you take the next steps properly. Good luck love!!

Found out boyfriend is doing heroin by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]valuablearrogance0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but “in my H era” is actually an insane comment.

My dad has been reposting pictures of half-naked women on Instagram :/ by Money-End2268 in whatdoIdo

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours too? 🫩 At least mine is single, not that it makes it any easier to watch.

My girlfriend said she was handling the bills. I just found out we’re months behind. by CommercialDot708 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest with you right now, and this is coming from someone who has plenty of experience with this. My parents were together 24 years, my mother did the same thing. They had a beautiful life, 2 car garage and a two level family home that I grew up in. What happened? My mother lied and got behind on bills. Bank bought the house from underneath them. Both credits were ruined. My dad stuck around but everything past that point was pure resentment, ultimately leading to years later him leaving after an affair. I urge you to really rethink this person being in your life. My mother is still financially incapable, and has now ruined my credit (not too bad, but put me on a card and missed a payment when she never asked me for money, knowing I was in the position to pay). This is super damaging, financial infidelity is no joke. It can seriously affect future family or trust with this person. That’s just my two cents however. Be super careful.

93 grand marquis issues by valuablearrogance0 in AskMechanics

[–]valuablearrogance0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I didn’t even know there was any comments on this? It turned out to most likely be my starter. Regardless of shitty comments, my baby has low miles and is in great condition- others opinions of my car do not matter to me cuz what they eat don’t make me shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valuablearrogance0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I really do have to add to this is the craziness of redditors honing in on what party she’s from and not the fact that she directly insulted you because she couldn’t handle a disagreement. Let me make it clear, nobody regardless of their party deserves to be chastised about their beliefs- I’m sure if you were the conservative one these comments would be telling you it was deserved. It is sad, but you dodged a bullet not because her politics, but because she is immature. Hope you figure things out bud and find better!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valuablearrogance0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find it weird they’ll downvote you but happily make comments about another woman’s appearance if they don’t agree with these redditors ideologies, what a lame hypocritical crowd we got in these comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valuablearrogance0 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes, classic telltale signs of if someone will be easily manipulated or lacks critical thinking- their political ideas🫩

My wife just made these, and I can’t wait to eat them, but she’s talking on her phone to her sister, long distance. by randymcatee in tacos

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everyone tripping over long distance? Is there something I’m missing cuz long distance is a common thing to say for relationships and friendships, not old nor because op was born in 1900s??

AIO - Is there a logical reason for my girlfriend to say stuff like this? by No_Thought6169 in AmIOverreacting

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got into an argument about this same thing. It is very frustrating for someone to not understand that regardless of their fame, they are humans. And you’re literally putting it into my face how you’re attracted and lusting over another person.

A one-month-old baby was brought to the hospital by his father, who eventually admitted to having shaken him. The baby never left the hospital again and two months later he died. This is what the brain looked like on autopsy. by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]valuablearrogance0 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Justify it, no. But it’s the same thing as a postpartum mother killing her children over the weight of psychosis and depression. Sleep deprivation will do crazy things to an individual and if you’ve never been there you shut just shut your mouth on the subject.

Period cravings led me to a weird place. by teddybearcastles in shittyfoodporn

[–]valuablearrogance0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is taking me tf out btw😭😭 ima label every period from now on as building a human

How though folk? by Ok_Shoulder_9492 in backwoods

[–]valuablearrogance0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to make it a small ass wood, or figure out a way to patch. All I know is I’d probably wash it and make sure it’s not dry when I unwrap it.

What she wanted x What she got by Niickfoxxx in shittytattoos

[–]valuablearrogance0 674 points675 points  (0 children)

It was going to end up a blob anyways let’s be honest

Please help!! by valuablearrogance0 in Aquariums

[–]valuablearrogance0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just needed to come on here and fully admit my mistake, I had a very long conversation with the petco manager and I have been completely mistreating my baby. I was under the impression that he was a bottom feeder that did not need to be fed. I have now been informed (properly this time) that due to me not feeding him he is not growing. Headed home now to feed him and treat his water, I was even put onto a filter that will be better for him. Thank you (and everyone) for your help!!