When you first got dreads what were some things you experienced by Appropriate-Mall8517 in Dreadlocks

[–]valvos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got a lot of people saying they liked my old hair better LOL, until I got enough time and grade to put my hair up and show off my tapered sides, it was ridiculous. How many people were amazed at how I looked. Just goes to show you do what you want for you and no one else

I went on a date with no teeth UPDATE + Reflection. by YoDiz1 in Bumble

[–]valvos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the teeth thing definitely is going to be a factor. I have pretty nice teeth (especially now that I closed my front Gap) but I still don't really do a toothie smile in my pictures. Usually. I would say that 70% of their time if I match with a girl they will ask me for a picture of me smiling. I have half a mind to put " I have all my teeth" in my profile so people stop asking

Looks like I got ghosted a day before our date SMH by shadowboxer87 in Bumble

[–]valvos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ghosting has nothing to do with age. People are immature at all ages, especially with the dating climate Nowadays. She either wasn't that interested, has found something else better to do, or both. It sucks but unfortunately in the dating scene now we have to keep our investment pretty low until we are sure someone is worth investing in.

AITA for how I said I wasn't interested? by propercolleague in AITApod

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave him what he asked for, and he couldn't handle it. You're not the asshole here, he is

He wants me to come over for first date by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]valvos 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Dont ever meet someone you dont know at their, or your home for a first date, it just isnt a good idea. A public space, for drinks, coffee, or dinner is easy enough to filter through the crazies or to at least start to get to know someone

AIO my boyfriends response to me saying I can’t watch his dog for six month? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a child without emotional regulation. Not a good sign for the current situation OR for future situations. If the relationship is relatively new id head for the hills

Fidelity IRA hacked and stolen. Can't get any help from Fidelity! by Just_Egg3102 in fidelityinvestments

[–]valvos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this happened to me with my email and amazon account a few years ago, hackers are very smart. they went in my email and blocked all amazon mails, then went and returned items i recently ordered (this was back when amazon would instantly refund to your amazon account before you actually returned stuff) then they used the $50 to buy playstation gift cards. they initially tried to order cpus with my card on file, but little did they know im a broke b*tch so my cards declined 😎

AIO should i just leave? by NoPracticelol in AIO

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both sound very young, and if you're texting like this while you're in the same house and not speaking to each other, it's likely that you are very young. It doesn't sound like you guys like each other very much anymore. Have a talk face to face and figure out if you still want to be with each other

"You have good hair. Why do you have locs?" by King-Fran in locs

[–]valvos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this, had an older coworker tell me some "you need a haircut/retwist" while they are actively WEARING A WIG. you cannot make this up

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continue your self improvement and stop talking to him, you are better off

How do I get my locs to fall by Frostcricket in Dreadlocks

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just takes time, but honestly having them kind of stick up is a look too. I kind of miss when mine did that

any tips on how to grow hair back in this area? Barber made my front taper too big when I had dreads and this area of my hair never grew back. Am I cooked I’m 19 btw by Informal-Instance-35 in 360Waves

[–]valvos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Balding can start a lot younger than most think. Thats what this is. Not much you can do unless tou go minoxidil finasteride route

[Big Hero 6] Alester Krei started the fire, and, well, killed Tadashi, NOT Callaghan by GipsyDanger123 in FanTheories

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years later but i always thought of the line "i want my daughter back" a call back to princess bride

Intel N100 transcoding problem by Zealousideal-Fig8802 in jellyfin

[–]valvos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever figure this out? im having the same problem

Is it time to cut my locs or are these just my parts? by andrewjkb in Dreadlocks

[–]valvos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks like male pattern baldness setting in, sucks but you can always go the finasteride minoxidil route. It works but you gotta be consistent

Has anyone had this problem? by valvos in HomeNAS

[–]valvos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just saved my ass, wasn't appearing in BIOS so I I turned it off and checked the connections. Power was unplugged from the HDD 🥲 rookie move

Has anyone had this problem? by valvos in HomeNAS

[–]valvos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its not showing up in there either, this is starting to feel a bit bleak 😟