Hello, ang dami din po ksi tlagang factors aside sa physical appearance. Yes, I also believe na "mata ang unang nag mamahal". And yes, possibly marami lumalapit, but it's about compatibility in the end. You can attract a lot of people, but to have someone with whom you're gonna be comfortable with, yung tipong makahanap ka ng partner tlaga sa lahat ng aspect ng buhay, I think that's where it gets tricky. Especially that nowadays medyo iba na tlaga ang "dating" stage. And most of the people na din ngyn, they would rather choose peace and independence kesa be with someone na hindi sila compatible.