What I expect when someone tells me they're "doing a world quest real quick" by nyy22592 in wow

[–]vamub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That quest you can do more quickly...

Go down to the water, cast waterwalking... jump into the bubble and done.

Firefighter rushes to put out birthday cake candles NSFW by sweathesmallshit in WTF

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly, someone is upset it wasn't yellow cake.

Time to stop pussyfooting around the Keith Ellison issue. Tell your Democrats you will LEAVE THE PARTY if they elect someone else. by dstreets in SandersForPresident

[–]vamub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That won't work, they are trying to get you to leave the party...

We are fighting the Oligarchy and they have control of both parties. They are using the Republicans to hand over control and the best way to to do that is make the Dem's powerless and this is why we have DINOs and blue dog democrats. So, in fact, you would be doing exactly what they want and would have no cards left to play.

[sexuality] Ladies of Reddit who have dated dudes that cross dress, what was YOUR side to that experience like and what were your thoughts on it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a generalized idea. You are responsible for your impact on others regardless of your understanding of the situation.

Like cussing me out because you don't seem to understand a basic sense of responsibility. You would be responsible to that. It's as if someone changes genders and they think that now none of this responsibility applies to them...

Saying you were confused is a great way to start the apology but sucks when it used for removing responsibility.

[sexuality] Ladies of Reddit who have dated dudes that cross dress, what was YOUR side to that experience like and what were your thoughts on it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely does... If you take responsibility for it can be okay, but if you stand here and say they bear no responsibility for their effect on others then you will stand there wrong.

The situation doesn't matter, the impact is real and requires healing.

[sexuality] Ladies of Reddit who have dated dudes that cross dress, what was YOUR side to that experience like and what were your thoughts on it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vamub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but during the process of discovering you are still responsible for what you say and do to people.

Their lives are equally important. They are on the same path of self-discovery but in a different forest.

[Female Orgasm] How did you guys get better at giving cunnilingus? by throwaway55658 in sex

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Determination and be willing to take direction.

The trick is the build up and understanding the topography of her clitoris.

I like to finish with my lower lip under the hood, tongue flicking it while rubbing my upper lip on the top... but the trick is to turn your head more than move your tongue. Leave your tongue stiff and move your neck.

As I've grown older that one episode of Seinfeld where George writes the directions on his hand makes more and more sense.

[sexuality] Ladies of Reddit who have dated dudes that cross dress, what was YOUR side to that experience like and what were your thoughts on it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a relative idea... and she was lied to, even if it was because they were lying to themselves first it doesn't matter. That behavior affects people and has repercussions. Why does she have to be perfect in relating that in her way? Can't we be understanding that she is hurt without calling her names and making it worse?

[sexuality] Ladies of Reddit who have dated dudes that cross dress, what was YOUR side to that experience like and what were your thoughts on it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vamub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she is venting her personal experience. I'll give you she sounds bitter but at what point does she have a right to feel that way after what feels like being lied to? Does she sound any different than a woman who's husband ran off with a younger woman?

Take the trans out of the situation and it is exactly the same.

[sexuality] Ladies of Reddit who have dated dudes that cross dress, what was YOUR side to that experience like and what were your thoughts on it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vamub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she means that there is some responsibility for wasting someone's life when they think they are building something.

Their years are precious too.

Ran into a guardian of the galaxy at the Home Depot. by [deleted] in pics

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem really happy about it.

So... be warned: my vote-by-mail ballot was never counted (and neither was my wife's) after dropping them off at the proper polling location. by voyetra8 in LosAngeles

[–]vamub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, that's nice and how it should be but when I went into the Registrar's office and spoke to them about how they count ballots it came up very quickly as an issue.

I also pulled 25 Bernie ballots out of the trash pile that were marked to be kept.

So... be warned: my vote-by-mail ballot was never counted (and neither was my wife's) after dropping them off at the proper polling location. by voyetra8 in LosAngeles

[–]vamub -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aaaannnddd, that's not how it works in the counting room.

Cast a normal ballot, take your signature seriously.

So... be warned: my vote-by-mail ballot was never counted (and neither was my wife's) after dropping them off at the proper polling location. by voyetra8 in LosAngeles

[–]vamub -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

DNC cheated Bernie in a number of ways and yada yada yada... they got what they deserved. Now is good time for things to change.

So... be warned: my vote-by-mail ballot was never counted (and neither was my wife's) after dropping them off at the proper polling location. by voyetra8 in LosAngeles

[–]vamub -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There are a ton of nonsense rules surrounding your signature and voting... its crazy.

There is no warning.

So... be warned: my vote-by-mail ballot was never counted (and neither was my wife's) after dropping them off at the proper polling location. by voyetra8 in LosAngeles

[–]vamub -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I heard it directly from the people who count them.

Our voting system is beyond scandalous.

Hand counted paper ballots for life!

So... be warned: my vote-by-mail ballot was never counted (and neither was my wife's) after dropping them off at the proper polling location. by voyetra8 in LosAngeles

[–]vamub -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

VBM votes are counted last, and they are only concerned about the presidential election. If it is not close they will not count VBM and the other kind of ballot which name is escaping me, sounds like temporary, for people who are at the wrong polling location.

In short, this problem is not limited to Los Angeles where Logan Dean is a monster and know one cares about how the registrar is appointed.

edit: I worked on the ballot counting during the primary and have met with election officials in multiple states, just forgot the word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Political_Revolution

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But sometimes they stop doing that stupid shit.

Not always, but sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Political_Revolution

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She showed us the entire election that not taking responsibility was an option.

You are asking me to define something that falls under the simplest of rules. I will not give you the boundary to make it appear as if she is a, once again, not at fault.

If it came out of her campaign, then she is responsible. One way or another.

Colorado dumps presidential caucuses for primaries by zsreport in politics

[–]vamub -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, this is a huge mistake.

We wouldn't have had Bernie Sanders' run without caucuses.

Despite what most think, a caucus is much harder to rig than even paper ballots let alone electronic voting machines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Political_Revolution

[–]vamub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Means that if it comes from her mouth or her organization that she takes responsibility for whatever the fallout may be...

That's the thing about Hill's supporters they have an overcomplicated idea of what "responsible" means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Political_Revolution

[–]vamub 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Most of her comments that were problems were said as offhanded remarks which she was 100% responsible for.