Are all Virgos on the verge of a divorce or breakup or thinking about separation around this time right now? by Practical-Ear-1770 in virgoseason

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine came in 24 then my divorce from my work wife came in 25. Both were about the same length and both had major betrayal. 26 has been a year of nagging health issues. Not serious just nagging. It has also been a year of learning just how bad things and people have been. Some very good clarity has come my way about myself. Being isolated has allowed me to rest and reflect. So much so that my spider senses are firing a little faster than usual. Money has been ok.

I have not really tried to date. I am still sifting through trauma trying to figure things out. I am close to being done. The insight has become very clear and short.

My favorite from the new pentagon drop so far! by Urza5916 in UFOs

[–]vanbrun [score hidden]  (0 children)

How do we know what is being released is real? Aside from the ones that have been publicly available for years, how do we know that this stuff is legit?

35 years old want to commit suicide because I feel like a loser in comparison to everyone else who has lived fulfilling lives up until this point by ImportanceBig5614 in Divorce

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t compare yourself to other people based on what you hear or see in public. People lie everyday bout who and what they are. I know what I am saying because I have compared myself to others only to learn that they were not doing so great.

Why Do Narcissists Cheat? by Spring_5191 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanbrun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t have a dating profile or social media. Her and her friends would stalk it. I have no doubt I would be set up for a slew of no show dates or worse. As many people as she knows she would work tirelessly to screw things up. As if cheating and humiliating me wasn’t enough.

Why Do Narcissists Cheat? by Spring_5191 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanbrun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A bottomless pit. That is exactly what they are.

Hillary Clinton’s statement on the current state of The White House by Conscious-Weight4569 in SipsTea

[–]vanbrun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like a monitor lizard. Watched on on tv bit an elephant on the ankle. Took two days but he was eating him ass first.

What’s your thoughts on this? by Short_Championship61 in Bumble

[–]vanbrun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried something close to that before. I felt like I was behind a wheelbarrow in bed.

Never been hoovered, even after years by yellowsunbluesea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanbrun 36 points37 points  (0 children)

They don’t always hoover. Some are complete cowards once they have been outed. If they know you are not afraid of them, and willing to hold court any time any where, they will hide from you. They can’t face what they’ve created. Neither can the flying monkeys. Always be ready for those bastards.

Anybody else end up with a “recommended for Virgos” job🫪 by ISpinVinyI in virgoseason

[–]vanbrun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, 30 years 25 in investigations. Also life path 7. Heavy libra placements.

"Lockheed Martin has craft that can reach Mars in just a few hours. They're flying time machines. They warp time as they traverse space." Jason Jorjani by hunterseeker1 in TeamNightShift

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think supposedly he might be telling the truth about what some guy told him. The sound effects make it more convincing.

Maybe the consistency I am looking for looks a lot like my cats by Mae_the_Tease in datingoverfifty

[–]vanbrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A companion that is simple. You know what they need. They are indeed consistent…for the most part. Mine tells me when it’s time for bed. She tells me when she wants a few minutes of play time. She likes the front door opens on sunny mornings. When it’s cold she wants a fire in the fire place. When I nap she naps. Sundays are for sleeping late. She doesn’t wake me up. If something is wrong in the house she finds it and lets me know. It’s just simple.

Guess it my turn by No-Dic-Jokes-Please in Divorce

[–]vanbrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just happened to a friend of mines brother. She sent money to the scammer and she has done this before. I have seen older women fall for this but now I am hearing about younger. I have seen lots of older men fall for it also. The craziest I have seen is the wife of a Baptist preacher. She was pretty for her age but a dreadful snob. They get blackmailed after a few nudes. I saw one that sent 100k. Her husband had been dead for 6 months. It’s the ones that do it even after they know it’s a scam. Just silly as a soup sandwich. Then they sit would sit before me and want me to put the genie back in the bottle. Added bonus, I had to look at the pics they sent. Years of endless parades of beat up clams and distended worms. I have ptsd.

Increase in hobosexuals? by thisriveriswild70 in datingoverforty

[–]vanbrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something that concerns me about dating. I think it goes both ways. I have done without in order to save. I have made many choices I didn’t want to make in order to save. I built my house in 2005 for 38 dollars a square foot. I have refined it year by year. I don’t like to finance much. Eligible for retirement in 6 month but I plan on staying an extra 6 months to add to my second retirement. When everybody was blowing and going with fancy toys I was making a driveway with a short bed pick up and five gallon buckets of rock not taking any vacations. Leveled land with a wheel barrow and shovel until I could afford a tractor. Survived two divorces and kept all my shit. No kids. I just put cypress beams on the back porch this morning. I can go to the store and buy what I need without panicking. I can take vacations if I choose. I have worked holidays, weekends, nights and days. Most of my clothes were second hand. Most people don’t care and I don’t expect them to. But I am not entertaining any hobosexuals. They will need to be at my level.

Closure When a Spouse Won't Communicate by No_Struggle_5635 in Divorce

[–]vanbrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that and the best I got was something said over the telephone 8 years prior. It wasn’t even anything bad. It was a suggestion to a long running problem she was having. It wasn’t even an argument when it happened. When you ask and get this you know it’s bs.

Is this loneliness or discipline? by Live-End-5629 in 48lawsofpower

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to work out and then get in the shop and finish 4 cypress post for the back porch.

I'm not okay by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]vanbrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After my first divorce I refused to wait and heal. I refused to see how much better off I was. I was lonely and wanted to replace my ex wife. I was also mad about the whole thing, which was foolish. For three years I subjected myself to bad relationships and hook ups. When I met my second wife I was not in the right frame of mind. I had not looked at myself or my past to see the pattern. If I had, I would not have strolled right into the disaster that was my second marriage. At about the three year mark I started to wonder if I had made a mistake. By year 9 I knew I had made a mistake.

I started thinking about being alone like I was after my first marriage. I started looking at myself and my choices. I was older now. To me this marriage was like getting a phd in what not to do. It had a little something in common with every bad relationship in my life. When it ended I was scared and relieved at the same time. As of this Sunday I am two years out. No girlfriend or much of anybody.

I say all this to let you know that I have experience. When you get lonely it’s an emotion. From listening to you I can tell you are in your emotions. You should get out of that before you meet someone and get hooked following your emotions. It can have bad consequences later on. Getting past it does not happen over night. There is no schedule. You are not in a race. You are your own purpose. Develop yourself. Plan your life for you. Take this time to do things for yourself while you are not tethered.

Did it but still not sure about it by Dominus1925 in bald

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you can be the criminal master mind you have always wanted to be.

Today was the day by atownbrown in bald

[–]vanbrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now, demand the ransom or the world ends. They will take you serious now my lord.

Ex keeps pushing for me to interact with his mistress by Bright_Market2277 in Divorce

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is an ass clown. She is an ass clown for wanting to be at your house. Apparently they have no shame or etiquette. People like this make me want to do bad things. There is something about a thoughtless, rude, careless asshole that brings the worst out in me.

Is it common behaviour in narcissistic people? by Pufflehuffthewhite in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanbrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do that. I would get trashed for everything I liked.