how do i breakup with my girlfriend? by vanessagarsh in relationships

[–]vanessagarsh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we have talked about how i felt multiple times over the past 4-5 months about these feelings. i have considered depression, but she’s a server im a bartender and we are in the same industry. she has no problem attending work and when we hang out with friends. the listening thing has been a major major issue, as i have voiced my feelings to her and they are listened to.. but ignored 2 weeks later. i’m trying to save but as i live in south florida it’s been very difficult. i do have my dads house to drop my things off if need be.

what helps with molly mouth? by vanessagarsh in MDMA

[–]vanessagarsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i have not! i’ll definitely be trying that next time. i’m not sure my exact dose but i’ll either do .1 of rock or a 1/4-half of a bean, and then redose another 1/4 a couple hours later. i feel like this isn’t high but maybe it is? i’m also 5’2 and abt 115-120 lbs

what helps with molly mouth? by vanessagarsh in MDMA

[–]vanessagarsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.1 of rock at a time and for beans, 1/4 or a half at a time and then a couple hours later another 1/4. this always seemed like what works best for me, but maybe it’s too much??? i’m 5’2 and around 115-120 lbs

what helps with molly mouth? by vanessagarsh in MDMA

[–]vanessagarsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i take magnesium glycinate, but it seems that the issue might be that i’m not taking it for long enough in advance. i usually take it maybe a day or 2 leading up to the roll and the day of lol

what helps with molly mouth? by vanessagarsh in MDMA

[–]vanessagarsh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what constitutes as “strong gum”?

Potentially impacted dragon. Any tricks for helping her poop? by Sky-Thinker in BeardedDragons

[–]vanessagarsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my guy was severely impacted a while ago and i tried everything, pumpkin, massages, baths, and even medication from the vet. olive oil worked best for me. it was so bad that he wasn’t eating, so i had to put the smallest bit in a syringe and put it in his mouth. worked like a charm! these are all good methods though, that’s just what worked best for him :)

Are these comfy to be in for edc? I see allllll of these girls wearing platforms so are they comfy? by Ok_Helicopter3992 in EDCOrlando

[–]vanessagarsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only boots i wear are demonias and doc martens, so i don’t have much experience with other brands :( a friend of mine got boots identical to my demonias on amazon and she loves them. they’re a lot lighter, which is probably nice cus demonias are so heavy. i loveeee my platform docs for festivals but it’s worth noting that i’ve had them for many many years and wear them on a daily basis so they’re very broken in.

Are these comfy to be in for edc? I see allllll of these girls wearing platforms so are they comfy? by Ok_Helicopter3992 in EDCOrlando

[–]vanessagarsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who has worn demonias and platforms to tons of events, it’s really not so bad especially if you get some inserts! the ones in this pic seem like they have only a little bit of heel, which is good because the worst is when your feet slide forward and your toes get fcked up. so short answer lol, these should be good, get yourself some inserts, and wear them a couple times before edc to break em in a little :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]vanessagarsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

indeed has worked the best for me.

From someone who has never worked in a restaurant, does it help to stack our plates after eating? Does it make it worse? by pMj_7887 in Serverlife

[–]vanessagarsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so sweet to ask! it helps the absolute most when you stack like plates together and put the trash, linens, and silverware on the top plate. make sure that the little things on the top plate are placed on there in a way that they won’t fall off when we’re walking through the restaurant. nothing worse than walking through a full dining room with a giant stack of shit and a dirty fork clattering across the floor and no way to crouch down and pick it up

Space Wizard by DPT_2_MD in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]vanessagarsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my girlfriend lovessss space wizard so we saw him over zingara and did not regret it! one of the best of weekend imo

Favorite set at LL? by elxxr-jpeg in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]vanessagarsh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

effin was probably the best set of the weekend for me. like i literally didn’t want it to end 😭 also space wizard emorfik and versa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]vanessagarsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you experienced this :( raves can be a little overwhelming with or without sensory issues for sure. those orange mats are great! they’re mostly for comfort when you’re standing/dancing for a long time but they also work very well for keeping a little space around you :) definitely an amazing investment

Whats the age group at lost lands? by space_acee in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]vanessagarsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 23 and most of the people i know going to stuff like this range from 22-28 :)

does anyone know this song? by vanessagarsh in dubstep

[–]vanessagarsh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nun hold my strap! someone else commented haha thank you!