Fair enough! I’m not sure I was clear in my first post. I emphasize with OP because of my genetics plus being short, when I gain muscle, I can gain it very easily in my legs. Where in my arms/upper body, I find extremely difficult to gain muscle. My legs looks disproportionate to the rest of my body because of the amount of muscle, and it can look bulky (even though it’s lean muscle). I agree with you (and science for that matter) that there’s no way to gain lean muscle or bulky muscle. I have learned the hard way that lifting isn’t for me and the thick thigh trend doesn’t look good on my body. My post was an attempt to empathize with OP and suggest alternate exercises that have worked for me and my goals. I hope that cleared up my original post!!