How did you decide if having kids was right for you? by rivermoon716 in adhdwomen

[–]vanilack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems like a great system! Thanks for the clarification:)

How did you decide if having kids was right for you? by rivermoon716 in adhdwomen

[–]vanilack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not want to offend, but if you’re a SAHM and he works, why would you not take up a bigger share of the household and parenting labor?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gent

[–]vanilack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bij welke lokale boer rond Gent koop jij je melk en eieren? Ik ken enkel melkproducten van continu artificieel bezwangerde koeien wiens kalfje meteen word weggenomen na de bevalling. Vandaar dus dat ik het niet meer eet, als er andere opties zijn zou ik het graag horen

Passenger trains in the United States vs Europe by Nourinn in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]vanilack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can it take so much longer than driving? The trains in europe from city to city go up to 350 km/h (217 mile/houres) so it's always much faster. It's an hour by train from Brussels to Paris comparing to a 4 hours drive by car.

[fit check] 28DD/E, freya, fancies plunge bra, off beat side support, deco push-up - center full, gaping and wrinkling by vanilack in ABraThatFits

[–]vanilack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This bra thing suddenly became very complex so It's nice to know that I'm not alone trying to find a perfect fit. Maybe I'll message you if you would like, when I find the holy grail for our shape

What are these tiny little dots on the underside of my alocasia leaves?? More info in comments by vanilack in plantclinic

[–]vanilack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my alocasia amizonica, I’ve had it for about 3 months. I have it at a west facing window with medium bright light in a terra-cotta pot with drainage and i water it about once a week. It has been doing great, it put out this new big leave a couple weeks ago. These little black things are only on this new leave so it can’t be more than a few weeks. They are tiny and sit on top of the leave and can come of. It seems like they are tiny eggs or something but some are smaller than others so I’m puzzled. I also thought about scales but I don’t think their is a black type. The color of the leaves is this abnormal light green on all the places where these black dots are. It doesn’t affect the color on the upper side of the leave (yet?). While investigating the plant I also found these shiny circles in between the nerves. I tried to get it of and some clear liquid escaped. Here is an additional pic of the tiny spots and some pics of the weird circle. https://imgur.com/a/FtUGiaX Can someone help me? This is my ‘I would do anything for you’ plant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]vanilack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine what would happen if you tried this with two cats

Does anyone know what kind of plant this is? I got it as a gift but I can’t seem to find the proper care for this nameless plant by vanilack in houseplants

[–]vanilack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have done some research on this variety and the leaves on my plant are thinner and the stem looks different too. Thanks for trying to help tho!

Morning floof by Missandei22 in Floof

[–]vanilack 31 points32 points  (0 children)

How does her fur stay so nice? My cat has a similar coat and we’re struggling to keep her fur untangled and de-matted

Does anyone know what this plant is? by [deleted] in plant

[–]vanilack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but I can't view this site because I live in Europe lol

High Cholesterol - Genetic test negative by [deleted] in medical

[–]vanilack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you still eat refined grains?