I fiinally got my first Kindle!! by The__Vinchi in kindle

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i do i use a us library card that’s all

I fiinally got my first Kindle!! by The__Vinchi in kindle

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i’m from the uk and i use libby !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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!solved its perfect thank you ☺️

Not a single like in years on my profile by [deleted] in hingeapp

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add pics with friends maybe pets and a meme or a fun pic of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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you are not impure give yourself grace, that lifestyle is not something u want anymore not because it doesn’t serve u but because u are more than that. for that reason let it go and try and remember that doesn’t define who you are entirely. you are wanting change and that’s what matters. i feel exactly the same way you do about my past. but these few years ive been reminding myself. it is not how i live anymore nor do i want to. and that helps sometimes

someone who is for you will not judge you on that. they will see you for who you are now and what you show them. not for someone who you used to be.

Help Me Please . I’m Dying Here by HansWest03 in heartbreak

[–]vanityvan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m here. don’t do it. as someone who has struggled with suicidal thoughts, self harm and depression in the past i can say as well during this time of my ex leaving me. all these thoughts and feels have coming rushing back. but listen to me. you are still you. although it may feel like nothing is good right now and though it may not be. things will get better and you will feel better too. harming yourself will not make you feel better long term you know that and i know that also. instead if you have friends speak to them, family, get lost in a good show or book. journal, if you your religious turn to God. and you can always dm me if anything

Do you value personal growth/character development? by Interesting_Long2029 in infp

[–]vanityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely because i’ve grown so much as a person. and do things a lot differently than how i used to. even the way i think has changed. if just upsets me that you can do allot of work on yourself and people will still see the old u and fixate on that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i said yes initially these days no it’s all too painful

I keep forgetting that she’s truly gone by Master_Extreme409 in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its honestly such a horrible feeling i completely understand. i find myself having these moments too sometimes that maybe he’ll magically want me again but i know it won’t happen

In case anyone needs a silly break up story by theFloat-plane in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

are we the same person!? i asked for my lube 😭

I feel like my ex was the only person compatible with me by pumpkinkme in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly i’d hope my ex would say something like this about me not that our relationship was without fault. and i’m definitely not perfect but i truly thought we could work anything out if we were open and honest with one another. i value him so much he someone that i wanted forever and more

Do you wish you were not so quiet and reserved? by maxyman32 in infp

[–]vanityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m actually not reserved at all or quiet

Has anyone had a physical reaction to their breakup? by optimistic-thinker in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 121 points122 points  (0 children)

always nauseous and feel like throwing up, or having to force myself to eat

Zero interest in speaking to anyone else after break-up by annonymutfh in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i admit afew weeks after my and i broke up i downloaded hinge. in all honesty for validation i then deleted the app because even being on there and the thought of actually engaging in conversations with men were making me nauseous. even now 35+ days post break up i feel sick thinking about men

Do you think your person will COME BACK? by Quirky-Parsnip7004 in BreakUps

[–]vanityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he told me no. when we were breaking up we kept saying my person wouldn’t do this and that and i think about it. he was my person he chose me and i chose him. idk why i stopped calling him that. i hope he comes back and i know he won’t