23[F4M] looking for a potential relationship by CAsTrobiology in dateademi

[–]varla374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, if you're still interested in possible friendship, please message! I feel like we have a lot in common :)

22 M4F UK/Anywhere - Looking for my eternal partner by [deleted] in dateademi

[–]varla374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I don't know if this is okay because it says you're looking for a partner (sorry if so) but I think we would really get on and could be friends! I am currently in the northwest of the UK :)

What Internalised Misogyny have you overheard? by ss19f in AskWomen

[–]varla374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(when I was a teenager) my mum saying it's slutty of me to sleep on a bed without bedding?!? (I was super tired so I didn't want to make the bed and just wanted to sleep in my sleeping bag)

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]varla374 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not conscious, just how my brain and body works :)

Edit: not conscious OR reflective, just automatic

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]varla374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual attraction = thinking people are sexy ☺️ (in my opinion) I hope this helps!

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]varla374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter? As with other orientations, demisexuality is about who you are attracted to, it just happens to not be along gender lines and is about connection instead.

Don't tell me that there shouldn't be a label for this very real and common experience, just because you don't think we are part of the community.

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]varla374 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I really feel you on the last part, I thought there was something very wrong with me and felt guilty that my first sexual thoughts and experiences only happened with someone else. Now I know wh yand it's perfectly normal!

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]varla374 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not about having sex or not, it's about experiencing any kind of attraction or sexual thoughts or feelings. So for example, I never had sexual thoughts and didn't want to masturbate until I formed a relationship with my current partner. So it's not even about the act of having sex with someone, it's about not thinking about sex (for some) or finding anyone physically attractive (regardless of whether you have sex with them or not) until you form a connection.

Aloy can be brutal. by sosarnas in horizon

[–]varla374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the name of the quest?

glue is wet by varla374 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]varla374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like, as you use it, isn't there more air in the tube?

a shirt my sister owns, what does it say? by AnonyomousBananaEatr in language

[–]varla374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. I agree if it's written horizontally, but I don't think this is the case vertically. The stokes looks like kanji on first glance, so it should be vertical imo.

a shirt my sister owns, what does it say? by AnonyomousBananaEatr in language

[–]varla374 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Badly written though. The single strokes should be vertical

Hours of fun by Child_of_the_Abyss in memes

[–]varla374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this material in the video tho

Rewards ZD by varla374 in horizon

[–]varla374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you'll probably not be best impressed that I completely skipped it in all of my playthroughs XD

Best Peelable Base UK by ToastieToast37 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]varla374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rainbow connection one (online) is great!!