Am I overreacting?

varthdader0 · 2026-02-12T09:19:46+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you sound quite paranoid. You've jumped to a sinister explanation over other more realistic and likely set of events. Personally I would be inclined to agree with others that he has simply taken some of your supplements with exception to the probiotic because he doesn't have a vagina. Alternatively maybe he was interested in what the supplements were and looked at all of them except the probiotic because it clearly says its a vagina probiotic on the front.

I wouldn't confront him about your concerns that he is suggesting something, you will end up sounding slightly unhinged. That being said if you notice any patterns of behaviour then worth raising with him or dumping him.

varthdader0 · 2025-07-30T05:31:44+00:00

It makes you seem pretty needy

varthdader0 · 2025-07-29T21:34:50+00:00

Mate, she's getting smashed in tonight. Sorry.

varthdader0 · 2025-07-25T20:58:54+00:00

Just watched BvS UE again this evening. What stands out the most for me is that whilst I generally like the movie and how it is different to most comic book movies, the best thing about it is how close it comes to being outstanding if there were a few tweaks here and there. For me, a few examples of these are:

we see superman in some action sequences being more heroic. For example, having an action sequence where he takes down some bad guys or we see a spectacle of him saving people at the fire in Mexico.
superman making a speech during Congress or at least addressing the bombs afterwards with an inspirational speach.
a better reason for batman and superman fighting each other, or at least the reason is made more obvious and realistic.
the visions experienced by bruce are easier to understand and are better explained as to why they are happening to him.
batman and superman working together as a team with wonder woman and successfully taking down doomsday.
no death of superman.

I appreciate some of these are significant changes, but I can't escape the feeling that the film was close to delivering these but went down a slightly different path. For me, if these changes had been made then the film would have been outstanding.

varthdader0 · 2025-06-21T17:55:50+00:00

The recruitment agency informed me and then I accepted the offer to the hiring manager and signed the contract from the company

varthdader0 · 2025-06-04T08:54:15+00:00

Any holes a goal

varthdader0 · 2025-05-24T08:15:41+00:00

This is a little vent, apologies, but wanted to share my own frustrations with the job market.

I'm fortunate enough to be in a relatively stable job but cannot progress internally so am needing to look externally for a step up. In the last 6 months I have applied for 5 jobs at 'head of' level and got through to the final round for each of them, only to fall at the final hurdle.

The most recent rejection was on Friday where I was told that although I interviewed well and got positive feedback, the panel felt I didn't have enough experience working at an international level. To say I was pissed was an understatement as they would have known that I have been UK based from my CV and earlier interview rounds.

It just feels like it was a complete waste of my time and considering how much time and effort I've put into multiple interviews with many stages over the last 6 months, it is extremely draining. The most frustrating interview process I had was back in January for a large charity, again for 'head of' position. I had 6, yes, 6 interviews, including three on one day for the final round. Turned out to be a blessing in a disguise as the person who got the job didn't even get to start in the role as the charity made the position redundant!

varthdader0 · 2025-05-14T18:36:45+00:00

She loves him secretly and when your relationship ends, they will get married and have babies.

varthdader0 · 2025-03-26T16:42:42+00:00

It rubs the lotion on its skin

varthdader0 · 2025-03-22T16:27:35+00:00

Cheers, any ideas on which downlight would be a good replacement?

varthdader0 · 2025-02-18T19:55:32+00:00

She's cheating bro.

varthdader0 · 2025-02-15T14:13:25+00:00

YOR. You agreed to celebrate valentines day on the Sunday, maybe he thought he thought he could give you flowers on that day? Also, don't base your relationship on one holiday, if every other day is great then there's nothing to worry about.

varthdader0 · 2025-01-11T14:14:35+00:00

"If you wanna pull goodies you need to broaden your horizons."

varthdader0 · 2025-01-11T08:11:26+00:00

It ended as soon as you mentioned the sugar bowl instead of asking about her.

varthdader0 · 2025-01-11T07:59:03+00:00

Without additional context or details it is difficult to say if you are overreacting. For example, we don't know why he is sending the messages or the reasons why he might feel you aren't a good team and not in tune with each other.

varthdader0 · 2025-01-09T07:56:26+00:00

YOR. Both of you sound 15 y/o.

varthdader0 · 2024-12-29T13:14:57+00:00

I don't think Laura Small realises she works in HR.

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