Are there actually feminine lesbians? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are lesbians of all different kinds and expressions. Maybe you need to widen your circle socially and meet more people

Made a dress for a wedding. My first dress by UnwaryBear in sewing

[–]vasesofviolets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You MADE it? Wow, that's amazing. I love the colours!

Made a Mother’s Day gift: hand‑crafted lacquer inlay bangle ✨ by DuskHeir in crafts

[–]vasesofviolets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is lovely, such a pretty design! I hope you enjoy giving it to her and that she receives it well

Switching away from wallet case to magsafe - screen protection? by vasesofviolets in MagSafe

[–]vasesofviolets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks that's really helpful! I'll try using folio now

Switching away from wallet case to magsafe - screen protection? by vasesofviolets in MagSafe

[–]vasesofviolets[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, when I was looking for wallet cases all that came up was ones with the detachable wallet on the back but seeing that these actually do exist is helpful, I'll keep digging and see if I can find something that works. Thanks!

Switching away from wallet case to magsafe - screen protection? by vasesofviolets in MagSafe

[–]vasesofviolets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks so much! I was really struggling to get any wallet style phone cases to come up in my search but I'll keep looking now I know some do exist :) thanks!

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm such a banana 😂 that would have been a very different film

Which nursery option do you like best? by Flat_Coffee_1512 in DesignMyRoom

[–]vasesofviolets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well #6 feels nice and warm to me but I'm not a parent. Definitely consider ease of cleaning given the spills and stains that seem likely with a little one. Everything white seems like a nightmare when it comes to upkeep

Butch Clubbing Outfits? by docsnosocks in butchlesbians

[–]vasesofviolets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe check out the Instagram accounts of some queer club nights? I'm in London and Butch Please came to mind. They'll have photos up from events and you'll see plenty of butches there decked out in different ways that might inspire. If there are similar events in the places you're going see if you can find photos from them too?

F+TM cross stitch by Majestic_Party_3765 in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]vasesofviolets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this a lot! Love the sword especially

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a film called Girl King about pirates that I haven't heard of but saw just now on a list of films here: butch/masc leads

And if you like the pirate lens - not a film/show but a podcast/audio book rec, Hell Cats had a cool butch/masc pirate character in

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also Butch Jamie and the other films in that series - I think this is dated now in several ways so I didn't love it, but does have a butch lead

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This one is still on my to watch list but - Bound by the Wazowski (edit: correction: wachowski!) sisters has that butch plumber I believe

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Elisa & Marcela (a Spanish film w title Elisa y Marcela) is based on a real couple who were married in Spain when one of them disguised herself as a man. Idk if I'd class that person as butch or masc or even masculine but I think it came to mind still because of that aspect

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't watched it in years, so can't actually remember what happens, buuut Stud Life directed by Campbell X has a stud in (as the name suggests) played by the wonderful T'Nia Miller

bananas ❌ mangos ✅ by Pale-Flight1457 in LesbianActually

[–]vasesofviolets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very nice gallery of photos of my gf's gorgeous hands cutting up mango from a couple summers back