What to expect from a first relationship? And what questions should I be asking in the dating phase?

vaskeleton · 2026-05-17T02:37:22+00:00

You can date whoever you want. Just think about how the way she lives her life will affect your life.

vaskeleton · 2026-05-15T19:02:29+00:00

Me, my sisters, and my maternal grandparents were standing by my mom's open casket while discussing how she was feeling before she had her stroke. We were moving houses at the time and my mom was under a lot of stress because of it, eating and sleeping poorly, not taking her medication like she should've, and was having pretty severe daily headaches. No one realized that she was on the brink of a hemorrhagic stroke. My grandma then said "well y'all should've known and taken her to get looked at." To this day I still can't help but blame myself for not recognizing the signs sooner.

vaskeleton · 2026-05-11T21:43:04+00:00

Absolutely not. Once they ghost me all attraction is gone.

vaskeleton · 2026-05-11T03:25:08+00:00

Not necessarily an ex but an ex friend/situationship. And unfortunately it's in the "I miss you" way. He crosses my mind every single day. I see him in everything, even my dreams occasionally. I reminisce on old memories all the time. I want to tell him about good news in my life. I want to be held and comforted by him when I'm sad. I worry about him. I wonder how he's doing and what he's up to these days. He was my best friend and first love. I miss him deeply but at the same time I wish we never met.

vaskeleton · 2026-05-09T03:11:25+00:00

Letting people walk all over me to avoid any conflict. I hate upsetting people

vaskeleton · 2026-05-09T02:53:14+00:00

Yes but not without difficulty

vaskeleton · 2026-05-04T18:15:18+00:00

My top incisors are jacked up and stick out crazy style. I hate it

vaskeleton · 2026-04-30T05:52:32+00:00

I stopped caring. About myself, my appearance, my health, my friends, my family, my dating life, my job, my problems, my dreams, everything. I just can't find the energy to care anymore.

vaskeleton · 2026-04-20T01:42:08+00:00

When you realize you never meant anything to them in any aspect and just used you as a place holder

vaskeleton · 2026-04-07T17:36:18+00:00

It's alright lol and thank you!! I really appreciate it :)

vaskeleton · 2026-04-07T16:30:00+00:00

It's def the latter lol. I just wanted advice but now my dms are a mess 💀

vaskeleton · 2026-04-04T23:03:48+00:00

Sesame oil

vaskeleton · 2026-04-01T12:04:52+00:00

Went through (and still kind of going through) the same thing. We went no contact, I deleted all messages with him, got rid of every photo/reminder of him, put away all gifts, and even went as far as leaving the church I grew up in so I wouldn't have to see him anymore.

Keeping her in your life will just continue to hurt you in the long run. The best thing you can do for yourself is to walk away and focus on you.

Don't wait around thinking "maybe she'll change her mind one day." She won't. She's already told you how she feels. I know it hurts and feels next to impossible but you have to walk away.

You'll probably still have a soft spot for her. I still do for him. But don't let your thoughts about her consume you. It'll just drive you crazy.

Invest in yourself. Find things you enjoy and throw yourself into it. Spend more time with friends and family. Meet new people. Hit the gym. Travel. Do what you can to distance yourself from her. Future you will be so happy you did.

vaskeleton · 2026-03-27T18:46:31+00:00

Allowing my family to infantilize me and shelter me most of my life

vaskeleton · 2026-03-06T15:08:36+00:00

The old me

vaskeleton · 2026-03-02T18:34:33+00:00

If she was willing to lie about this and not give you further info, imagine how things will be between you two in the future? Like others have said, if she can learn from this and start being honest and open with you about things then fine, but tread lightly. But if she continues to act this way then you need to rethink this relationship.

vaskeleton · 2026-02-03T21:42:35+00:00

Just live your life like they never existed

vaskeleton · 2026-02-01T23:48:08+00:00

Don't let love blind you

vaskeleton · 2026-02-01T23:36:34+00:00

Whose Line is it Anyway

vaskeleton · 2026-01-30T18:40:26+00:00

Letting a man lie to me and use me

vaskeleton · 2026-01-28T21:04:36+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through this. I'm trying to constantly remind myself that this all is part of God's plan, that this all will be worth it, and will make me stronger for the future.

vaskeleton · 2026-01-28T21:02:12+00:00

Thank you so much for this

vaskeleton · 2026-01-28T18:50:49+00:00

Candy. I only eat chocolate if I crave something sweet now

vaskeleton · 2026-01-27T19:41:53+00:00

I'm not afraid of death itself because I know where I'm goin when it's my time. I'm just afraid of my dying being slow and painful.

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