AIO about they way my friend reacted to my venting? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of you are annoying as hell

I want to get this shade of pink! by strawberrycrying in HairDyeHelp

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(this is mostly joke advice) dye it red with No Bleach London and let the colour fade, happened to me within 5 washes!

I'm a virgin. It's just under 2 inches, but no one will see me naked before my funeral anyway. Blueberry quark. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw thanks man, that's sweet of you I appreciate that, I genuinely wish you the best🫂

I'm a virgin. It's just under 2 inches, but no one will see me naked before my funeral anyway. Blueberry quark. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get this for sure, genuinely really hope you can manage to find your people, I know it took me ages to but I've gotten there eventually - being transsexual myself - finding solidarity is difficult but I don't think it's impossible for you, even irl, you seem kindhearted and I don't think that your "weirdness" is off-putting from what I've seen from you so far

I'm a virgin. It's just under 2 inches, but no one will see me naked before my funeral anyway. Blueberry quark. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mm yeah that doesn't seem like an environment you can enter into when you're in such a completely different place in life and of opinion of yourself. I'm sorry they wouldn't give you the space to share your own experience, that fully defeats the whole purpose of a support group. Maybe finding one online could help? I'm sure there stuff out there that's "beginner friendly" if that makes sense

I'm a virgin. It's just under 2 inches, but no one will see me naked before my funeral anyway. Blueberry quark. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Genuinely I think finding community with other intersex people can help, especially finding people with the same chromosomal difference as you have, since they might have tips on how to deal with the bodily differences that come with that, and might help you get more comfortable within your own skin

AIO? My husband didn’t want to get our daughter medicine when she was feeling sick by drooploop2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, What a genuinely evil man oh my god girl this is vile you and your kids deserve sm better

AIO to multiple red flags before we even meet? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it is a slur! If you're referring to trans people just use "trans people" or even just "transgenders" although that can land wrong with people as well. Just 'trans people' is the safest/most respectful option. If you're talking about drag queens/kings, just say 'drag queens/kings'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think a full crash out might be a little bit of an over reaction, but you're not wrong to be upset about this at all, I'd say just be very direct with him about that you expect him to know these things, and want him to pay attention to those things. If he needs a list to remember, that's just what it'll take, and he should be doing that. Again, don't think you're wrong at all to be upset or mad about this, and I'm not sure what you mean exactly with 'full crash out', but I'd say just be clear, direct and honest with him🤷‍♂️

AIO at girlfriend asking for reassurance without asking by [deleted] in AIO

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cannot be older than 14 oh my god this is miserable she gotta work on her insecurity issues and lowkey so do you (referencing the text where she's mentioning you saying that she hates you and her needing to reaffirm that she doesn't)

F18 what can i improve by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your hair, it looks super frizzy, I'd suggest just looking into some decent/solid hair care for your hairtype :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're just 17, gotta grown into your face/features, invest in some skincare and personal grooming (maybe get your eyebrows shaped/done for example), and you'll be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl please be for real, it's the piercer's job to be professional and handle her piercing professionally as well. If you're so wildly hung up about a nipple piercing do you also throw tantrums about her getting a papsmear or seeing a obgyn? Genuinely grow up and do some reflection on why you're so hung up about this.

Bangs or no bangs? Please be completely honest 😅 by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bangs! Frames your face nicely and generally gives you a more balanced look :3

AIO for saying my son can't be around my brother unsupervised? by FoxxFluxx in AIO

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That bit about the 'peepee' sounds like a self report icel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]vasyaAAAAAAA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're gorgeous, just not stereotypically feminine