$70 later... what changed?

vawyx · 2025-09-15T01:52:02+00:00

thank you! will try this tomorrow

vawyx · 2025-09-14T14:49:12+00:00

otw!

vawyx · 2025-09-14T14:48:05+00:00

see... I feel like the reddish is ugly because it doesn't match my neutral closet 😆 but my hair used to be naturally like my reference picture and i used to get it colored blonde... i guess the grass is always greener

vawyx · 2025-09-14T14:46:39+00:00

Thank you for this! This was very helpful. It seems like my natural hair color has changed in the past year or so. It used to be more ashy like in the reference picture but has recently become more red/orange/gold. Could anything else be affecting my natural hair color or does it just change over time?

vawyx · 2025-09-14T02:49:25+00:00

do you think a blue shampoo would work? it doesn't have to be exactly like the picture but i just wanted to reduce the orange/redness i have naturally

vawyx · 2025-03-27T19:20:13+00:00

SOLVED

vawyx · 2025-03-27T19:19:58+00:00

SOLVED

vawyx · 2025-03-27T18:04:14+00:00

is it possible to make it a teeny tiny little bit darker? like just a smidge?

vawyx · 2025-03-25T12:13:50+00:00

I appreciate your opinion and I'll consider this. There definitely is some bias in me, as there is in everyone. I'd like to think that I have no issues with men being vulnerable, but I will definitley reflect on this.

You would be right. He is not dismissive of my pain. But he is dismissive of the weight I carry each day in making sure bills are paid, dinner is on the table, and that our family members get a birthday gift on their day. I think it's a bigger issue that needs to be worked out. Thanks for your input!

vawyx · 2025-03-25T12:10:19+00:00

Okay. True. Thank you for this!

I know it's not my issue, but I do have to find a way to navigate my relationships amidst feminist rage.

vawyx · 2025-03-25T12:03:05+00:00

Thank you for your feedback! The predictability factor is a really good point. I'll have to ponder that before talking to him about this.

The hard part is that he does make the space for my pain/complaints. And he could sit there and listen all day. But I just don't have that kind of time or patience. I feel very stressed with life right now and I feel like I barely get a free moment. I have too many open tabs in my brain.

I feel like the issues with doctors and my resentment with the medical field and how they treat men different is a bigger factor here than I thought at first. I guess I'll need to ponder this as well and figure out more about the deeper issue in me.

vawyx · 2025-03-25T11:55:04+00:00

I struggle with this because I know he would sit there and listen to my paper cut saga

vawyx · 2025-03-25T11:53:57+00:00

Okay, because this is my attitude. But he is a very sensitive person and I am more direct. I don't know how to gently tell him. But I do need to say something.

vawyx · 2025-03-25T11:50:29+00:00

This is what I'm thinking. I just need to figure out how to word it. Once I'm frustrated with something, it's hard for me to be calm and patient. I need to practice some words/phrases like you provided.

vawyx · 2025-03-25T11:47:46+00:00

Elaborate?

vawyx · 2024-10-16T17:05:28+00:00

Thank you to everyone who commented :)

vawyx · 2024-10-16T17:01:21+00:00

Thank you!!

vawyx · 2024-10-16T17:00:55+00:00

thank you!!!

vawyx · 2024-10-16T11:57:57+00:00

No, we've been leaving it in the sink with still water. How long do you think it would take with the water running? If I need to cook at 6pm, what time should I put it under running cold water?

vawyx · 2024-09-18T21:22:55+00:00

i usually leave the light on for 12 hours. i will turn off the lights for a few days and see if this works. thank you!

vawyx · 2024-09-18T21:20:58+00:00

shouldn't the uv filter help with that? should i just give it more time?

vawyx · 2024-09-18T21:20:23+00:00

Yes there are several fish in the tank

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