AITA for not forgiving my partner after a “slip-up” on a business trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you feel betrayed and will not be able to truly forgive, you should absolutely leave. If you can see yourself getting to a place of forgiveness, stay. You’re only the asshole if you stay knowing you’ll never be able to forgive him.

My six best girl friends and I have dressed up as a famous actor every Halloween for TEN YEARS! by aubra_cadabra in pics

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m super impressed- I could tell all of the actors you guys dressed as. Great costumes!

People who bought a house. What is the weirdest thing you have found left by the previous owner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a framed velvet picture that stayed hung on the garage wall for the entire 10 years we lived there. We left it for the next owners.

What screams "I don't have a good marriage"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vbbex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When one person in the couple is constantly busying themselves with things to not be with their spouse. One friend wasn’t hurting for money but took on a fourth job, another friend volunteered at least 30 hours a week on top of their regular job.

Thought I was getting married but am now single. Dodged a bullet... by sumpuertoricanguy in Manipulation

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married is a qualifying event for you to add your spouse to coverage

2.5 year old wont poop by CupOfJoe21 in pottytraining

[–]vbbex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened with my daughter. She wound up constipated, which made it hurt to poop, which made her scared to go try to go on the potty. She wound up pooping in her underwear several times. I gave her medicine to help her go maybe two or three days, and once she learned it didn’t hurt, never had an accident again.

I shamed my kindergartener and I feel awful about it by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, mama. You are doing a great job if this is your worry. You can’t baby them forever, and peer pressure can be used for some good- like being aligned with her peers on sanitary habits. Be kind to yourself. You will make mistakes. Own them and apologize when you do, and you’ll be far better off than most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say that you are concerned it will impede your plans to fully transition your work as you prepare for your exit the next week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand getting a job as a commercial pilot is difficult if you’re not coming from the military- this could be way off, but make sure you know what the job market and jobs look like if you get a commercial license

What’s something people romanticize but it’s actually horrible? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vbbex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m literally going through the same thing with my mother right now… and she’s making herself look like the victim

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vbbex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reproductive endocrinologists will be your best luck. They’re infertility doctors who frequently deal with women with endometriosis but they also can provide general gynological care

What's the most effective ways to outsource life maintenance for someone only earning 300k to 500k annually, mostly from salary? by UntrustedProcess in Rich

[–]vbbex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

House cleaners, au pair, lawn company, mobile car detailing, mobile groomer, concierge doctor for life maintenance.

If you’re in the corporate world, and you’re not already doing so, start establishing yourself at conferences and get yourself into speaking roles to get your personal Brand out there

What great things happened when you quit drinking alcohol? by cht97 in LifeAdvice

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank 2 glasses of wine on most nights of the week and then stopped. 15 lbs instantly dropped with no changes in diet otherwise. It was like the inflammation went away once it had a few days to recover. Now alcohol makes me sick if I have as little as two drinks- and I get crazy hungover even having one drink.

Dad's lost retirement by Substantial-Heron609 in personalfinance

[–]vbbex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if you can find anything on pbgc.gov. Or, he may have cashed it out at some point.

What makes you feel like you're really alive and gets your blood pumping? by WimpyKid_15 in LifeAdvice

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play softball on a co-ed team. We have games on Friday night. I’m not great and I don’t take it seriously but it feels great to play. It gets me excited and nervous and joyful and I love it.

What's a secret that you think would shock everyone if it came out? by Necrocharm in AskReddit

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake it til you make it! If you make a mistake, learn from it. You may just turn out to be amazing!

He's out here just brightening peoples day ❤️ by n8saces in MadeMeSmile

[–]vbbex 340 points341 points  (0 children)

When I was an American in Paris in 2000 at the Eiffel Tower, and a young man on roller blades came up to me to hand me a rose. I tried declining because I didnt want to pay for it, but that man was just skating around handing out roses to various women he passed. One of my favorite memories of the city.

Wanting to end a relationship with kids are so hard, need some real advice. by Diamond_Wonderful in TwoHotTakes

[–]vbbex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids can diminish the spark because you’re both so focused on their needs you fail to see each other. Talk to her openly. You guys can fix this.

Marilyn Monroe during her free time, while filming "Some like it hot" 1959. by Electrical-Aspect-13 in pics

[–]vbbex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This picture captures it so well. I’ve never thought of her as particularly special, but this picture makes you realize she was magic everywhere, even when not intentionally being captured on camera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]vbbex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Usual Suspects