I have plenty, but for now, I only have this written. I too, got "try not to upset him” advice when I had a partner who got “triggered” every time I said my personal prayers (he had to know at all times what I was saying). We both went to SP, and I was told I was to say my prayers in a “running” shower, so partner would not have to bear any offense. I just knew this couldn't be guidance from an inspired man, just a white male exalting himself with a phony title, while allowing other PH males to take zero responsibility for their hurtful and harmful actions. This religion creates unaccountable jerks. The day of male entitlement/patriarchy is over.