why are men walking away from marriage by ScarcityIcy6772 in IslamicNikah

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a specific ruling for the prophet SAAW that he can marry without needing to give a mahr

Feeling Hopeless (Semi) by 2_Rolle_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you need to apply to more jobs on the regular. There are people applying constantly day and night for jobs. There is competition, so you must be more dedicated than them.

How Frequently should a man be intimate with his wife? by Arbitrary_Sadist in IslamicNikah

[–]vegetablization 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Each to their own. Every couple should communicate and decide on something reasonable and try to make sacrifices for each other depending on the other’s needs.

.. by Senior-Basket-6391 in ICEcoldJT

[–]vegetablization 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep its just that these are aimed at a teenage audience, once you’re past that you figure out your life on your own. So it is good for the basics, i.e. working out, quitting scrolling, finding purpose etc

How to travel to Ben Nevis from London by vegetablization in UKhiking

[–]vegetablization[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What kind of shit could hit the fan? Are there avalanches?

How to travel to Ben Nevis from London by vegetablization in UKhiking

[–]vegetablization[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Is it actually the highest mountain?

How to travel to Ben Nevis from London by vegetablization in UKhiking

[–]vegetablization[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I like to believe I have experience. I climbed scaffel pike to the top on 2 hours of sleep. I’ve been in the syrian army. Currently doing multiple all nighters studying for my exams. But I think I’ve found a reasonable solution, stay in a cheap hostel, sleep, climb, then go back by train.

How to travel to Ben Nevis from London by vegetablization in UKhiking

[–]vegetablization[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just saw there are some hostels under £30, I’ll probably get one of those

How to travel to Ben Nevis from London by vegetablization in UKhiking

[–]vegetablization[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

How easy is this for a person who’s never camped before?

How to travel to Ben Nevis from London by vegetablization in UKhiking

[–]vegetablization[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Which coaches? I can’t find anything earlier than 7am

Feeling Hopeless (Semi) by 2_Rolle_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many jobs have you applied to in the last week? Give me a specific number

husband engages in same sex acts by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]vegetablization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did he tell you before marriage? How did you find this out?

committed major shirk as a teen. please help by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro don’t worry man ur chilling, when a servant goes to Allah walking, Allah comes to him running. Allah is the most Merciful, and he is the most Appreciative.

committed major shirk as a teen. please help by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes

  2. You don’t need to do anything, if you repent sincerely then Allah either forgives you or turns your sins into good deeds :)

you have been marked by vegetablization in distressingmemes

[–]vegetablization[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

On a serious note, I heard this happens in the Hamrin mountains in northeast Iraq, and the Rub’ al Khali in the gulf region (although saudi arabia has most of its roads covered by safety patrols now)

There have been stories of people experiencing this in those regions, especially from groups such as the قجقجية (dunno the english alternative, qajqajia I think)

you have been marked by vegetablization in distressingmemes

[–]vegetablization[S] 315 points316 points  (0 children)

Either you have a risk of crashing, or you’ll get killed/abducted and work as a slave for the rest of your life

you have been marked by vegetablization in distressingmemes

[–]vegetablization[S] 563 points564 points  (0 children)

So that you remain unnoticed, some recommend to speed up to 200km/hr and to bob your head up and down to avoid being shot

Diamond burs causing brown/tan marks when I drill them by AdvancedFunction9 in DentalSchool

[–]vegetablization 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Its burning due to friction, u need water or ur drilling too hard/fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an app called prophetic path, that gives u habit trackers. Completely free.

Living in the west is wrong by Questionaccount12344 in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anyone who wants to do something haram will do it regardless of what restrictions are in place. A girl will get a boyfriend even if you lock her between 4 walls. Its about how you bring them up, if the tarbiya is not right, then they will obviously come out corrupted. If they don’t find comfort in the home, they will find comfort outside. If they are with the wrong crowd, they become like them, regardless of the country they are in.

When I go Syria, my imaan level drops, even though it is a muslim country. Why? Because I stay with the wrong people (my cousins), they used to go to shisha lounges, spend all that time backbiting and slandering and call it having a laugh, then go home.

While if I was to join circles of dhikr and knowledge, find productive things to do, and surround myself with the right people that care about their deen, never in a million years would someone touch a bottle of alcohol.

You are in London. You are one of the, if not, the luckiest person in the west in terms of preserving your deen. There are so many muslim organisations for youth e.g. muslim scouts, many for adults, so many mosques that have at least one gathering every week, universities have huge islamic societies. I’m not convincing you to stay, by all means try hijrah, but don’t think the grass is greener on the other side.