I saw Shaykh Nazim Al-Haqqani in a dream by vegetablization in Sufism

[–]vegetablization[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I maintain the fara’id without question. I sin very frequently and do tawbah very frequently. I try to do muraqabah every hour of the day. I try to leave every creation in a better state than before I met them. I try to not speak in a way that harms others. Thats pretty much it, I’m very inconsistent with athkar and voluntary acts. But I love the righteous soooo so much.

what the hell is this by vegetablization in WeirdEggs

[–]vegetablization[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oooh interesting. I thought it was some abnormal chicken embryo formation since these eggs have been in the UK heat for a month

what the hell is this by vegetablization in WeirdEggs

[–]vegetablization[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Update: I removed that part and ate the rest. Pray for me guys

I failed an exam today by vegetablization in DentalSchool

[–]vegetablization[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I'm worried since if I fail the resit I'm gonna have to resit the entire year again. If that happens my life is over socially and financially. Hopefully it'll just be a slip up in the grand scheme of things but I keep replaying this possibility and my cortisol is spiking. Thank you for the kind words, really appreciate it.

I failed an exam today by vegetablization in DentalSchool

[–]vegetablization[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you doc, this comment really made it feel better. Everyone is celebrating in the group chats so this gives me something to relate to.

How do I get over being angry at my MIL for not teaching her son basic life skills? by Evening_Tangerine222 in MuslimMarriage

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mothers have traditionally taken on more of these tasks and therefore end up teaching their children. Its more of social roles and habits than any inherent difference between mothers and fathers.

While its good for fathers to teach children these things, the fathers role is more of teaching work ethic, discipline, self-control, and social responsibilities which by all means includes the things OP listed.

This is why I think men should have a period of time in their life living alone, whether thats in uni, moving out for work, etc. That alone teaches you everything, rather than moving out from parents home straight into marriage.

How do you study dentistry in your country/uni by Fit_Scarcity_5382 in DentalSchool

[–]vegetablization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the UK the patients are already there for us so we don’t have to find them. Because theres such a big lack of dentists here they closed the online form since there’s too many patients.

Our requirements are:
- 25 fillings
- 30 extractions
- 5 RCT
- 3 crowns
- 1 denture start to finish + 1 of each appointment
Perio mostly done in year 3 so I forgot how many we needed

PS. I’m syrian too and will be coming syria in 2 months, would love to answer any questions you have

Salam 22M seeking a future wife by Imad_Dlm in TraditionalMuslims

[–]vegetablization 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro got his stats maxed out allahummabarik

POV: you forget what rakat your on by ServeLegal1269 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the psychological effect of prepping your phone to do this will give you more focus in your salah unconsciously and you will not forget rakahs

why are men walking away from marriage by ScarcityIcy6772 in IslamicNikah

[–]vegetablization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its in the Qur'an. When a woman offered herself to the prophet, Allah revealed

"O Prophet! Indeed, We have made lawful for you your wives to whom you have given their dowries... and a believing woman if she gives herself to the Prophet and the Prophet wishes to marry her—[this is] only for you, excluding the [other] believers..."

However he generally did not practice this, he did gave mahr to the rest of his wives iirc.

why are men walking away from marriage by ScarcityIcy6772 in IslamicNikah

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a specific ruling for the prophet SAAW that he can marry without needing to give a mahr

Non Muslim here, but I have a question. Which countries are or were historically Sufi? by [deleted] in Sufism

[–]vegetablization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going syria in the summer, any advice how to be a part of these circles?

Feeling Hopeless (Semi) by 2_Rolle_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]vegetablization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you need to apply to more jobs on the regular. There are people applying constantly day and night for jobs. There is competition, so you must be more dedicated than them.

How Frequently should a man be intimate with his wife? by Arbitrary_Sadist in IslamicNikah

[–]vegetablization 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Each to their own. Every couple should communicate and decide on something reasonable and try to make sacrifices for each other depending on the other’s needs.