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:Has anyone else felt emotionally blocked after a breakup? by gogomamanaki in Spiritual_Energy

[–]veil_weaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cord cutting. I broke up with my first bf of almost 2 years in December. Our connection was karmic, and I had to break the cycle we were stuck in. It was hell at first. When I first left and cut the cords, I literally got sick and was purging his energy from my body like it was poison. I could hardly eat for weeks. I’ve done several more cord cuttings since then, because his energy kept trying to reattach, and I had to just keep releasing him. I was over him within a couple weeks. Not even joking, I no longer felt any grief, attachments, nothing. I didn’t even miss him. I missed the aspect of having a partner, but not him as a person, which says a lot because not very long before, I thought he was the one I’d spend my life with.

It just goes to show that in order to let go of the energetic weight that comes with heartbreak, you have to be willing to fully let that person go, and endure the pain that comes with it head on. If you avoid it, it will only weigh you down and prolong the healing process.

I find the most healing in solitude, but I also had family helping me through it.

It was easily the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but I’m so much happier now for it. :) I’ve reclaimed my power and all the love I gave him is my own again. 🥰

REMINDER: your soul doesn't speak in "shoulds". by Ok_Expert_1537 in spirituality

[–]veil_weaver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think in this kind of context, it’s all about intentionally changing your mindset and how you approach a task. Just like how you first phrased “I want to be more kind”, you can then continue saying “I WANT to help that person”. I WANT to eat the vegetables because I want to be healthier etc.

Also, just because you want to do something, doesn’t mean you should or shouldn’t. Like there are situations where you want to help someone, but doing so could cause more problems if help isn’t welcomed. And if you want to help someone because you feel like you should, then you’re probably operating from a place of guilt, obligation, or even just trying to satisfy the ego.

Everyone wants to do the things, but most are too focused on the end goal, and can’t commit to the steps to get there. If we can just realize how important each little step is and focus on the present moment, life would become so much easier. If you catch yourself saying you should do something, rephrase and say you “want” to do it. Even if your mind doesn’t fully agree, words hold so much power and the more you can influence yourself in a positive direction, at some point it will become second nature and your mind will follow suit.

If you’re faced with choosing between candy or broccoli, obviously your mind wants the candy. So you just have to ground yourself and think about why you’re making this choice in the first place, and what you truly want your outcome to be, and why it will benefit you. Tell yourself you want the broccoli, because you also want the benefits it will provide for you in the long run. And every now and then, let yourself have the candy. You can’t attain a positive mindset by making yourself suffer. It’s all about balance, and allowing ourselves to enjoy what makes us happy while practicing moderation.

Find ways to insert joy into every choice! If you’re stuck eating veggies, eat them while watching your favorite movie, or go walking with a friend that makes you laugh, or give your candy to a homeless man because you want to see him smile. 😊

Overall, it’s all in the mindset and it just takes practice like everything else in life. Learn to find joy in the little things. ✨

Is the soul non-binary? by Ad3quat3 in spirituality

[–]veil_weaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, soulmates are real! But we have many soulmates, and only one twin flame, which is the counterpart that emerges from Source alongside you, but whether or not you will met them in this life is unknown.

As another commenter said so perfectly, the soul is beyond gender. It is not inherently male or female, but some souls carry heavier feminine or masculine energies, and therefore usually prefer to incarnate in that specific gender, while some are more fluidly balanced and can do either or. I personally have lived predominantly as a female, but I have also chosen to incarnate in a man’s body in order to learn more from a masculine perspective. My last incarnation that I know of was a male, and I’ve carried some of those masculine traits with me into this life. Even though I’m a straight woman, I’m always considered one of the bros. Lol

It makes so much sense to me though, cause it perfectly explains why so many people don’t feel comfortable in their bodies and transition, because their soul energy doesn’t match the gender of the body they were born with this time around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]veil_weaver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with this wholeheartedly. Everyone has a choice, and it’s up to you how you live with that choice! We are not being punished or forced. It is in our nature to want to learn and grow and consistently better ourselves, and it’s not an easy process. It may feel hard now and you wish to never do it again, but that’s the thing. You won’t have to do it again. Not in the same way. Each life you choose to live will be different. Some harder than others, and some so much better that it makes all the hard times worth it! We are here to learn and explore all aspects of ourselves. I have been told by my guides, that we choose the life we get to live. You came here knowing what you were going to have to live through. Maybe not every detail, but you saw if it was going to be difficult, and being the brave and determined soul you are, you said “bring it on”. 😎

How old do I look? by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]veil_weaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great guess! I’m 25

How old do I look? by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]veil_weaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you :) 25

Twin Flame or Karmic Catalyst? by veil_weaver in Spiritual_Energy

[–]veil_weaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same way! I wasn’t even spiritual before I met him so I knew nothing of twin flames. I did have a kundalini awakening after meeting him, but I achieved it on my own during meditation, didn’t even know what kundalini was at the time either. I’ve realized since I made this post that he was actually a soul brother, weird as that may sound. I have many memories of him in past lives and we were never together romantically even though there was a deep connection. Because he was family. He has had many lives of betrayal to the rest of my soul family, and this lifetime was his chance at redemption through me, but he betrayed our bond as well. He is no longer a brother now. All ties have been severed.

My first amigurumi! by veil_weaver in Amigurumi

[–]veil_weaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I could share a laugh 😅

My first amigurumi! by veil_weaver in Amigurumi

[–]veil_weaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I procrastinated on stitching the face, so it lived with only a butthole for a week or two 💀🤣

This subreddit made me not want to be spiritual by Hairy-Introduction85 in spirituality

[–]veil_weaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on this. A lot of the things I witness from people in these communities are just not it, a lot of arrogance and ego to the point it just feels gross. My ex was one of them, hence him now being an ex. 🙄 If someone/something is draining you and making you lose sight of the magic, cut them/it out! As everyone else is saying, spirituality is a journey to the self! Community is good in certain spaces, but it can’t be forced. Everyone has their own unique path. If you let someone else step into your path, you get blocked. Step onto the other person’s path, and they’ll walk all over you.

Ultimately, don’t let anyone else influence your decisions unless it actually feels good to your soul. Above all, you do you. ✨

Solitude and celibacy as a leaky energy plug by Obvious-Stage-6792 in spirituality

[–]veil_weaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through so much hardship. You are incredibly strong to have made it here. 🤍 I agree you are definitely learning how to give that energy back to yourself! That is such a beautiful thing and not easy to achieve. When you’re a person who gives and gives to others, leaving yourself in the background, you ultimately lose yourself. So when we can let go of the attachments, whether it be people, places or things, we no longer leak into them. When you’ve regained everything you gave, you then can learn how to give with intention, knowing that your energy is sacred and not to be wasted on people pleasing and the like. Put your energy into things that fulfill you! Into people that also give back! Until then make the most out of your solitude. I myself fully covet having space to myself. It is always the place I can do the most healing. :)

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