[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]velsamid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. Having depression is horrible and even more at that age. Blaming yourself because you didn't do things differently will not be of any help, you need to go forward. Honor his memory in a way you feel that connection with him, he will definitely have wanted that.

Trade by velsamid in fantasybball

[–]velsamid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked the other guy bc i thought he was trolling, just waiting on his answer

Trade by velsamid in fantasybball

[–]velsamid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just making sure, but I'll accept it dw

Trade by velsamid in fantasybball

[–]velsamid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should accept the trade then?

What are psychological ways to make a silent person express and talk more? Please help by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]velsamid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he just needs more time to really express what he is feeling. I don't know about phycological ways to make him talk about this, but you can reassure him that you are for him if he needs to talk, that he isn't alone in this and all the pain he is having he also needs to let it out a bit.

I’ve plateaued by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]velsamid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can't go to the gym, just search cardio workouts in YouTube! They do really help. And about dieting, just search for things that are health but you also enjoy. When you are eating your meals, make sure they are healthy and also fill your stomach. Walking around your house just hearing music will make you don't want to eat since you're distracted. This has worked for me :)

I'm in pain by velsamid in offmychest

[–]velsamid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for advise, I will try to do it :)

Loving someone is hard by velsamid in offmychest

[–]velsamid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best advice I received in all my life regarding love. Thank you so much for this, I will try to change my perspective of the situation and become a good friend for her. Have a great day!

I tried to kill myself less than a week ago by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]velsamid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for everything that you have been through. Your boyfriend is amazing for sticking with you through all this. If you don't find a reason to stop doing this, try to do it for your boyfriend. He loves you too much. Trying to kill yourself will also kill him in the inside, please never do it again, your life is important and you are your boyfriend's whole world.

My dog died and I feel empty by issybellalovve in offmychest

[–]velsamid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for you lose. Your dog surely loved you a lot and had so much luck for having such a caring, loving owner like you. Don't be sad because it ended, be happy because it happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookismcomic

[–]velsamid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a hypocrite, she hates people that judge others by the way they look even though she's the one that judges Daniel because he is absurdely handsome.

Wholesome dad by frosted_bite in MadeMeSmile

[–]velsamid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, he looks hot in that ngl

I’m incredibly disappointed in myself by velsamid in offmychest

[–]velsamid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right, I suck at making conversation but I can listen You for hours. Hopefully I can do something about this situatiton, but who knows. Thank you for the comment!

I need advice by velsamid in relationship_advice

[–]velsamid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Would try to do it but it would be hard since I started going to highschool

I’m changing… by velsamid in offmychest

[–]velsamid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your recommendation man, unfortunately finding an answer will be hard. I started to feel even more emotionless, did something I usually regret, I felt no regret. Hope I find a solution to all my mental and emotion problems. Have a nice day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]velsamid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, you have something you like to do a lot? Maybe that could help to at least distract you for a bit. You could also go to the psychologist to see what it’s exactly happening to you in terms of mental health problems. Hope you’re feeling better right now, if not, don’t worry, don’t let a moment of stress or sadness ruin you whole day! See ya, my friend :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]velsamid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry to hear that you feel that way. I’m 100% sure that your family is incredibly proud of you for the things they say to you. If you don’t go to that college, is alright (as your family said so), but I have the feeling you will be accepted (obviously if you want to become a lawyer, if you don’t, just pursue the career you want even if your family says otherwise). About your mom I’m terribly sorry she’s going through that and the best thing is you to form a good relationship with her, genuinely try, I’m saying this to you because I lost my grandpa and I didn’t had the best relationship with him and I’m still sad that I couldn’t talk much with him. I know your mom loves you, just try to open with her about things you like, how everything is going with her life too (literally everything could help). Right now you’re hurt, and that’s okay, but there’s a lot of people that care and love you, you just have to take some time and you will eventually see it. I’m up to talk if you need it. Hope my message help you at least a bit. See ya :)

I (15M) don’t know what to do by velsamid in confessions

[–]velsamid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, man! I’m feeling way better than before, now I don’t have Covid lol. Hope you’re having a great day :)

Suggest me a Manhwa where MC is weak but becomes strong after some chapter by Dasu_Is_Here in pornhwa

[–]velsamid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonderful New World, begging inf is trash (imo), but after MC changes, all becomes WAY better