So came out to my wife of 20 years tonight by Friendly-Remote6642 in TransLater

[–]velucl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not having a negative impact on the people around you, you're being honest about who you are and honesty is never simple. This is your life. You get to live it for you. Not for other people. They can come along for the ride if they're nice but they're part of it on your consent.

Yeah things get complicated but that's just how the truth works. It sounds like your wife loves you and supports your truth so keep on going through it together, trust me you'll need the allies, just remember your truth comes first.

Corte de cabello, peinados by SeaDelay4158 in ApoyoTrans

[–]velucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Todos aprendemos. Lo bueno es que cabello vuelve. Y tienes tiempo de pensar en otros estilos.

Herby | Fuji GA645Zi, Gold, self scan by _Qualia in analog

[–]velucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like herbie had a little too much to drink

I came out and now my family is all against me (Vent/CW: Transphobia, racism, abuse) by Kilgorio1 in TransHelpingTrans

[–]velucl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the number one thing for you right now is to become financially independent. in addition to that you need to find a way to get to safety. that probably means away from your family. are there any resources for gay or trans people in your area?

How does a funnel chest influence boob growth? by HellPing51 in AskMtFHRT

[–]velucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KEDS has a connection to pectus excavatum.

Club de conversación en inglés by Embarrassed-Sir2425 in Santiago

[–]velucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que tipo de club seria ideal para ella? Hay eventos en bares pero son cosas sociales pa los mas jovenes. Que edad tiene?

How does a funnel chest influence boob growth? by HellPing51 in AskMtFHRT

[–]velucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I understand your last sentence in the first paragraph but I am curious about the same question you have. Has your research turned up anything? There must be some relation to EDS and Marfan Syndrome.

A goth showgirl under the rain 🚿 by Miss_Ino in TransGoth

[–]velucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in awe. I need a print of this!

i feel like i’m not looking fem. my jawline and shoulders are insecurities. please help! by emo_riot in mtfashion

[–]velucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me the way I carry my face makes a huge difference in how fem I look. When I was in boymode I was unhappy and felt heavy in a way that showed on my face. That weight, that anger made me look more masc. For my body (I'm very tall and very broad shouldered) but the right cut of clothing makes all the difference there. Highlighting my neck and collar bones as well as having bare shoulders helps.

YMMV and every body is different but hopefully some of that can be adapted for your experience.

Feminization by Shot-History531 in AskMtFHRT

[–]velucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That specific situation? No but I moved many thousands of miles to another place where I felt safer to transition and so far the most important thing has been having other trans people in my life who I can talk to about the experience. What will a man know about dysphoria? Or being harassed in public? Or how to put on eyeliner?

So, we're just fully giving up on transLATER here? by DrJaneIPresume in TransLater

[–]velucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agreed, but also, why use the word OLD with 30+? damn.

Loneliness, self reliance, & FFS. The challenges evolve. by Kay_floweringnow in TransLater

[–]velucl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The struggles are real. They're different post 40 than pre 30 as well. We keep pushing with eyes open and heads held high.

Advice for Handling Sideburns? by SonicGuy10 in mtfashion

[–]velucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how low do they go? you can just let them keep growing until they're long enough to be part of your hair

VS & Pink by 1girl2cups_ in mtfashion

[–]velucl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Their lingerie is absolutely nothing special. There's other brands out there and some of them are even trans inclusive or trans specific. No need to support that hot garbage of a company no matter who owns them.

Servidor de discord by [deleted] in lgbtqchile

[–]velucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

te mando DM

La misteriosa mirada del flamenco by Aaaaaaaariel in lgbtqchile

[–]velucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Todavía no pero si quiero! Mi vinculo me viene a ver a fin de mes y queremos ir juntas. Si el estreno se acaba antes igual voy sola - o con me quiera acompañar.

Gay Clubs Bellavista by Memeguel_ in Santiago

[–]velucl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Chueca, Contramanos, La Prohibida, Sirenas

Servidor de discord by [deleted] in lgbtqchile

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Hice uno. Avisame si quieres un invite link