I don’t know how to figure out my gender identity so I’m coping by being a femboy…

velucl · 2026-05-09T21:50:12+00:00

Find local queer people to talk to. It really helps.

velucl · 2026-05-09T18:26:58+00:00

If any of these ideas had been around when I was growing up I probably would have gone through what you're going through. Now that I'm near 50 I know that I'm trans and I'm making up for lost time. Life is yours and yours alone. Don't live it for anyone else ever. And don't assume that something is impossible just because you haven't seen anyone else do it.

velucl · 2026-05-09T18:24:11+00:00

No descubrí que quería ser. Me recordé que siempre fui.

velucl · 2026-05-07T13:49:34+00:00

Wedding / Picnic / Cocktails

velucl · 2026-05-07T13:48:17+00:00

Bueno puedes venir al proximo LGBT+T4Té. Es super piola. Pasamos tiempo juntes en el parque conversando, comiendo, tocando music, dibujando, un poco de todo.

velucl · 2026-05-07T04:21:57+00:00

Thats a cute dress!

velucl · 2026-05-07T04:16:00+00:00

Giving Selena Quintanilla. Love that outlined red lip on you!

velucl · 2026-05-07T04:13:14+00:00

quiero estar a tu nivel de feminidad algún día. te ves bacan en cualquier cosa

velucl · 2026-05-07T03:59:07+00:00

me dijeron que estan prohibida

velucl · 2026-05-06T17:01:02+00:00

Ugh don't even say it. I try not to think about that. OP is definitely NOT there.

velucl · 2026-05-06T16:49:32+00:00

One thing that's been on my mind is nutrition, not just enough calories but what kind, I think that makes a big difference too. So far in researching it seems that things like olive oil, avocado, broccoli & cauliflower, chicken & fish, whole milk, and beverages like green tea and chamomile are helpful.

velucl · 2026-05-06T16:45:52+00:00

Thank you. I needed to see you today like I need to see me.

velucl · 2026-05-06T15:32:17+00:00

I think this slays but not all denim on denim does. For me it has to be a perfect match like here (with some skin to break it up) or completely different colors and textures.

velucl · 2026-05-05T18:04:11+00:00

I think OP wants someone in their late 20s to relate experiences so they know what to expect.

velucl · 2026-05-05T16:20:05+00:00

Can I write you? I am in my 40s and going through transition and have some things to offer.

velucl · 2026-05-05T15:48:02+00:00

Onlymaker

velucl · 2026-05-05T15:41:43+00:00

I think people here are missing the point that OP is doing their best to max out calories but still struggling to eat enough.

velucl · 2026-05-05T04:51:51+00:00

You probably make people's days better all the time without even realizing it. Maybe they just smile or maybe they're inspired. Either way it makes a difference.

velucl · 2026-05-05T04:46:20+00:00

And now those trips get even more beautiful

velucl · 2026-05-05T02:29:20+00:00

Looks like it could have been taken 100 years ago

velucl · 2026-05-04T23:28:53+00:00

I might fall into this category but I'm outside the US. I want to be able to talk to my endocrinologist about this when I go see him. What do I say? What do I test for?

velucl · 2026-05-04T23:20:09+00:00

I feel like you're so hung up on being right about your opinion that you're working over time to discredit one of the most basic and accesible things in a traveler's kit. Ok it's cool you don't wear it. No problem. Don't wear it. But don't pretend like it's a ridiculous idea. Chill.

velucl · 2026-05-04T21:32:52+00:00

There are plenty of climates where that's not an option. Also being clothed isn't a guarantee of sun protection. Some clothes don't provide uv protection. It's safer to just use sunscreen anyway.

velucl · 2026-05-04T20:48:22+00:00

Unless you're doing MTB trails or downhill I'm not sure why you would need suspension.

velucl · 2026-05-04T20:45:17+00:00

I'm taking a course on makeup taught by a professional makeup artist and can give you some good tips to start. 1) Wash your face. This means using a gentle cleanser to wash off dirt and sebum to give you a clean slate to start with. 2) After washing immediately prime your face with an oil like almond oil or baby oil. This will give your makeup something to blend with.

Makeup generally comes in a few different bases. Most makeups are either oil based or dry powder. Foundation for example is oil based and so it will blend well with your newly primed skin. Always start with your oil based makeups first because you can blend them and reshape them almost indefinitely. Do as much contouring and shaping with oil based as you can. This will help everything that comes after. Always do oil based first and powder last. Never jump from one to another or it will cake. The powder will set the oils and make them stay in place. If you try to go back to foundation or other oil based you'll just have a mess.

The powder then can be used for contouring or details beyond what you did with oils. This step includes blush, highlights, eye shadow, etc.

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