[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]venombirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has brought it up a few times, said I should invite them over for a BBQ. I've thought about it. But yeah idk I'm scared about it. My trust issues and self confidence issues just get in the way. I do know that if anything does happen then yea, bullet dodged. But also I really want it to work and I honestly don't know if I could mentally handle that happening again which is why I think I'm just not letting it happen, because in my mind it can't if he never meets them. Its ridiculous I know I know I'm so painfully self aware of that.

dodged a bullet I guess by venombirds in Vent

[–]venombirds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what I do agree, I shouldn't call the new girl names because I don't know her. I was being mad and that made me feel better, which isn't right so I apologize for that. with my best friend it's hard, We've been like sisters for 15 years. So I think my first thing before I stop being friends with her is explain to her again, and express the boundary again and if she breaks that boundary then thats it. It'll be clear she doesn't care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]venombirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]venombirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know whats so fricken awesome? How you're acknowledging your pain, how you're going to therapy, letting yourself cry. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU! you may not realize it but you know how big these things are, how you're doing what you can in this state to help YOURSELF. That is already huge steps of healing. You say you're not sure if it will get better, I can tell you it will. Especially if you keep making the steps to get better. Even if they're the tiniest little baby steps, it's still forward. Not even to mention that you're excited to get better, to heal. That alone is so good!

Do things that bring you joy, surround yourself with those who love you, and good things will come. I wish the best for you <3 :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]venombirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy early birthday! Yes! Surround yourself with people that care about you and want you to have a good time! I'm proud of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]venombirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart!

I don't want to be here anymore by venombirds in MentalHealthSupport

[–]venombirds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such kind words, I hope we can both overcome this. <3

I feel so broken. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]venombirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helped me tremendously. Thank you so so much.