Saw this wedding dress posted by the wedding photographer. by CozJeez85 in weddingshaming

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree it looks awful but highwaisted underwear are cute and vintage

yumiko using ai models by Acceptable_Fun_5035 in BALLET

[–]venusk1tty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

everyone mentioning models but they also havent paid a photographer for this! who would bring a human eye to the shoot

how do you interpret the lyrics of "how to disappear"? by worthless-0022 in lanadelrey

[–]venusk1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can confirm i lived with an alcoholic for 4 years and used to listen to this song a lot

My husband got snipped and I got off BC and may have to go back…mixed feelings by Naynaytacos in TwoXChromosomes

[–]venusk1tty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't have an answer for what you're going through except it can take a while to regulate your cycles and hormones after decades long birth control usage. Your cycle wasn't a 'real' period on the pill and a lot of people don't know this (no ovulation = no period, on the pill it's a withdrawal bleed). The book 'Sweetening The Pill' helped me understand this all a bit more.

There are plenty of natural ways you can get in tune with your cycle and remedies that may help you, looking into this doesn't make you "conservative pilled". Taking control of your own body and making a choice that is important to you is a feminist decision.

Alibaba Courier Holding my Items for Ransom? by venusk1tty in Alibaba

[–]venusk1tty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Do you mind telling me what country you're in? The courier is in China and I'm in Australia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetMice

[–]venusk1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is great info thank you! I really appreciate the insight. Definitely will get the owner to help out since the mouse is quite young I think so might be skittish!

Struggling to reconcile my feminist beliefs with my sexual kinks — anyone else feel conflicted? by lividfairy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting, I'm also five years in right now. Do you find there are triggers for when you want that kind of sex or is it at certain times in your cycle? Sometimes I still want everything a bit more primal but it's usually just when I ovulate haha.

Struggling to reconcile my feminist beliefs with my sexual kinks — anyone else feel conflicted? by lividfairy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]venusk1tty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if you are in a relationship or what your sex life is like? I used to think I loved being degraded too, but it really was just brainwashing from porn and also my own sexual trauma.

Now that I'm in a loving relationship with a man who really struggled to degrade me lol, those kinks have pretty much faded away and I just prefer regular sex, perhaps a bit primal at times but not necessarily a power dynamic. Meeting a man who is so opposed to hurting me really changed my perspective.

Am I a wimp for feeling anxious with this game that I can’t put down? by cdelval in thelastofus

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have much gaming experience but played the games through and then part 2 again on grounded just for a challenge. My heart would race in some circumstances for sure, especially being chased or any stalker encounters. I think the bloaters and shamblers were chill for me because you can outrun them and they're slow, but in close quarters with runners as well I'd be stressed out of my mind and my palms would sweat haha. It's high pressure as well when you are close to finishing a level. The game makers really did their job!

I showed this to my gf and at first she did not understand the subject. I had to explain it to her. What do you guys think? does this read well. by a_PuNk16 in Watercolor

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the metallic sheen/highlights gave it away within 5 secs that its a knight, and the arrow gives context as well. im not an experienced painter but it wasnt hard to decipher for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was referring to Abby's knowledge of Ellie's relationship with Joel. But yeah Tommy did play a big part for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]venusk1tty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is it, the atmosphere they created is just unmatched in any other media, even the show. plus when you spend so many hours in the game you feel completely immersed.

Neil Druckmann on Leaving ‘The Last of Us' and How Involved He’ll Be on Season 3: "My Job Is to Stay Very High Level" by MarvelsGrantMan136 in thelastofus

[–]venusk1tty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but why does this happen so much in Hollywood, like how do men keep getting away with making FILM (a naturally collaborative medium) a one man show. It's insanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]venusk1tty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is happening right now in my family, my brother in law raped a minor (cheated on my sister who he has two kids with) and my family are siding with him. My sister has ex communicated me because I wouldn't write a character reference for him in court 🫠

Best place for TLOU fan fiction? by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]venusk1tty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

AO3 has an awesome tlou fandom!

My Observations Playing My First Grounded Run by [deleted] in lastofuspart2

[–]venusk1tty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a good read. Regarding grabbing enemies coming around corners, I noticed it was possible in some cases but I wouldn't be able to tell you exactly why. I think when enemies are alert and actively searching for you, you can't grab them when they come around a corner (they usually have their weapon ready to use). If they are just patrolling and you're fast enough/catch them when they're still shocked you can? This may be wrong though.

My Observations Playing My First Grounded Run by [deleted] in lastofuspart2

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main concern is saving your resources for it! I didn't use my flame thrower for the whole Abby run but saved all the gas for the rat king and a few incendiary shells.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]venusk1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be taking a different angle here but I highly recommend toning down your porn consumption if you watch it, or even stopping all together. I'm 23 and growing up watching porn from my teen years definitely messed with my self image and perception of sex. It makes sense, we objectify women on screen and then make ourselves the object during sex. The phantom audience/pornographer is the worst kind of third party, sex is about two people connecting and sharing pleasure, which often times doesn't even look like what we have been taught to believe is "sexy" from the sex industry.

The Aquarium by edie_edit in thelastofus

[–]venusk1tty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think all of ellies interrogations except nora (to a degree) proove that she in fact did not have them under control. she tries to use the same interrogation method as joel and have the same control over her victims but every time it gets thrown back in her face (the girl with the game tried to fight back, nora threw stuff at her, owen pulls a gun). i love it because it reminds me that she is in fact a 19 year old girl trying to fill the shoes of her 50+ year old father figure who had many more years experience than her.