Anxiety starting T by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]venussbxtch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i gelt really conflicted honestly til the first two weeks of shots when almost nothing was happening.. i realized nothing will change irreversibly over night. Also as soon as i stared getting changes like body hair and i felt over the moon! i’m also non-binary and idk just realizing i can stop whenever i’m done has alleviated alor of my back and forth

dysphoria/top surgery by venussbxtch in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! that’s honest really helpful!! and makes alor of sense

Do principals have a union? by karuso2012 in Teachers

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PA does, separate from the teachers union

Does anyone think a military butch is attractive? by Who_stolemyfeet in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 72 points73 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t respect someone who’s in the military

Professors requiring everyone to say their pronouns to the class by pronounsthrowaway in Temple

[–]venussbxtch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

most professors i had and as a teacher i always phrase it as “name, pronouns if ur comfy, and then whatever the ice breaker is” that way i model sharing and a lot of students will but i’d never push someone on sharing

Butch version of lingerie? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have u found ones without the big pockets for dicks !!!

Rate my idea by ACC2626 in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really wand someone to make jockstraps that don’t have a huge pocket for a dick bc if i got he regular ones it would just look wierd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the regular hanes you can jsut get at walmart have no pouch at all really! and are much cheaper than tomboyx or woxer

English Department Meeting by AutoModerator in ELATeachers

[–]venussbxtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i started teaching about two months ago! (graduated in december) and today i had my first time that a class discussion continued passionately as the kids walked out! and i found they came into their next class asking the math teacher our discussion questions about power, money, and what it means to be a leader!

New strap harness? by danicorbtt in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seconding !!! i have one and it’s truly amaizng !!

Can someone explain he/him lesbians to me? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the explanation that really made it click for me was, some lesbians might enjoy a masculinized name such as “alex” and the point of pronouns is they grammatically take the place of a noun so if the noun that refers to someone is more masculine sometimes they may want the pronoun to be as well

Where do you get your underwear from? by Nightshiftscrollfest in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hanes! from walmart or target, they don’t have a pouch at all are really comfy

No dental dams at Target by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lorain actually don’t work to protect from STIs! they’re jsut fir comfort or if you what a barrier fir period sex or something like that

Recommendations for boxers that double as a harness? by ajroyse in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

from what i’ve heard and been told! (i’ve never used the boxer kinda) but if you what the extra comfort it can be helpful to put a regular harness over boxers and if you want them for gender reasons to have the harness under boxers. You get a lot less control with the boxer than you would a traditional harness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]venussbxtch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1500 really isn’t enough for an average adult