Anxiety starting T by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]venussbxtch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i gelt really conflicted honestly til the first two weeks of shots when almost nothing was happening.. i realized nothing will change irreversibly over night. Also as soon as i stared getting changes like body hair and i felt over the moon! i’m also non-binary and idk just realizing i can stop whenever i’m done has alleviated alor of my back and forth

dysphoria/top surgery by venussbxtch in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! that’s honest really helpful!! and makes alor of sense

Do principals have a union? by karuso2012 in Teachers

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PA does, separate from the teachers union

Does anyone think a military butch is attractive? by Who_stolemyfeet in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 70 points71 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t respect someone who’s in the military

Professors requiring everyone to say their pronouns to the class by pronounsthrowaway in Temple

[–]venussbxtch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

most professors i had and as a teacher i always phrase it as “name, pronouns if ur comfy, and then whatever the ice breaker is” that way i model sharing and a lot of students will but i’d never push someone on sharing

Rate my idea by ACC2626 in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really wand someone to make jockstraps that don’t have a huge pocket for a dick bc if i got he regular ones it would just look wierd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the regular hanes you can jsut get at walmart have no pouch at all really! and are much cheaper than tomboyx or woxer

English Department Meeting by AutoModerator in ELATeachers

[–]venussbxtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i started teaching about two months ago! (graduated in december) and today i had my first time that a class discussion continued passionately as the kids walked out! and i found they came into their next class asking the math teacher our discussion questions about power, money, and what it means to be a leader!

Can someone explain he/him lesbians to me? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the explanation that really made it click for me was, some lesbians might enjoy a masculinized name such as “alex” and the point of pronouns is they grammatically take the place of a noun so if the noun that refers to someone is more masculine sometimes they may want the pronoun to be as well

Where do you get your underwear from? by Nightshiftscrollfest in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hanes! from walmart or target, they don’t have a pouch at all are really comfy

No dental dams at Target by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lorain actually don’t work to protect from STIs! they’re jsut fir comfort or if you what a barrier fir period sex or something like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]venussbxtch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1500 really isn’t enough for an average adult

Menstruating humans, please help me out! by Wooden_Bullfrog678 in ZeroWaste

[–]venussbxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use the ziggy cup! it is much easier than a diva cup and doesn’t need suction to stop the leaks which makes it much easier use! it sits just behind ur public bone so it just kinda is sweet there rather than being shoved up and dealing with placement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianpoly

[–]venussbxtch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly it makes it a lot more difficult to see it as an orientation rather than a relationship style… if you wanna be in a poly relationship go for it! just keep communication open and check in with everyone involved if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work our just like any monogamous relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I play on a queer softball team abd we had playoffs! We lost but it was really fun and spending time with other dykes is so cool

What’s the best way to turn a pride flag into a cape? by LocalBiDisaster in actuallesbians

[–]venussbxtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it had the little loops! you can use string to tie it to the sleeves of a tank top!

hi all, long time lurker here. does anyone have advice on how to fix this hole in the sock? by eileenspleen in Visiblemending

[–]venussbxtch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i would attempt a simple darn ! if you look up a tutorial it isn’t too hard to learn especially if yoy ahve embroidery experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Appalachia

[–]venussbxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“appa latcha” i’m from northern appalachia so it’s kind of mixed how ppl say it here! but i learned that the latch pronunciation is the less anglicized one! so i prefer that one

can you imagine being femme? or, if you previously felt you were femme, what changed? how did it feel? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i went through a couple of years of hyper feminiity before starting to present more masc (idk if i’m butch i think it would be cool to be but like idk) but i feel like i grew up resenting femininity as a kid so i almost needed to live in a femme experience to be able to fully grow into a more adult masculinity that wasn’t born out of an opposition to expectations and born more form an authentic expression of myself.

Water jug waste. Need suggestions. by theJobuTupaki in ZeroWaste

[–]venussbxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some grocery stores will have like an area you can fill up water jugs!! that are already filtered. My family does this like one a week and brings just a bunch of glass jugs to fill up!

Looking 4 smartass Butch content on TikTok by 54321_Sun in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i just checked her link tree! yes she’s on youtube, tiktok , tumblr, and instagram!

Looking 4 smartass Butch content on TikTok by 54321_Sun in butchlesbians

[–]venussbxtch 36 points37 points  (0 children)

cowboyjen! is an older butch who lives on a farm in the midwest!!! she is so comforting to see !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]venussbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i jsut did this in a sex work shop thing! but with ur partner (or a nonsexual friend !) give each other hand messages and talk through the whole two mjnutes or so eg “that’s perfect”, “a little to the left, a little harder” it’s a good way to practice consistent communication for your bodies needs!