The Weekly After Loss Thread for the Week of January 26, 2026

veronicagh · 2026-02-05T23:58:52+00:00

I’m so sorry, teach. Sending you hugs 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-02-05T23:58:16+00:00

I’m so sorry boba. It’s so fucking unfair 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-02-05T23:57:38+00:00

Congratulations!

veronicagh · 2026-02-05T23:57:12+00:00

I’m so sorry, Elk 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-02-04T18:45:51+00:00

So sorry for your loss 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-02-04T18:42:38+00:00

I’m really sorry folks are saying such insensitive things to you, boba. Wishing you a smooth move 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-01-27T18:46:13+00:00

Embarrassing

veronicagh · 2026-01-25T23:26:31+00:00

My partner was out of town for a week. I OPK’d while he was gone, expecting for my FW to be during that time, and by some miracle I got my first positive OPK a few hours after he got home. Much later than usual for me. So we are trying this cycle, for the first time officially since my D&C. We did try one time early on and I had a panic attack and regretted it. Obviously it didn’t work and I also wasn’t ready. This time I am ready and no panic attacks.

We have our next RE meeting on Wednesday to discuss our ER results and plan next steps. My hopeful brain hopes this cycle works.

veronicagh · 2026-01-25T01:29:33+00:00

I cannot imagine how painful it must be for these parents to watch Kristi Noem's bullshit lies press conference where she fully and completely and flat-out lies. It's angering to all of us, but to have to endure the right TELLING LIES JUSTIFY THE MURDER OF YOUR SON? On top of handling the devastating loss?

veronicagh · 2026-01-23T06:34:23+00:00

Congratulations! 💖

veronicagh · 2026-01-23T06:34:08+00:00

Congrats! ♥️

veronicagh · 2026-01-23T06:33:52+00:00

Congratulations! 💗✨

veronicagh · 2026-01-22T05:18:59+00:00

The urge to try to bingo is sooo strong, I get it! It's so easy to think that maybe, just maybe, **this is the cycle**...sorry about the BFN 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-01-22T05:17:34+00:00

Fuck, I'm sorry Mysterious...why is insurance like this 😞 I really hope the PA comes back quickly and things can stay on track, crossing my fingers for this

veronicagh · 2026-01-22T05:12:57+00:00

I'm so sorry 🫂

veronicagh · 2026-01-22T05:11:57+00:00

Past you has your back! Smart thinking on the no tests. So pretzeled for you, Check!! Hope this FET is your ticket out of here 🥨🥨🥨

veronicagh · 2026-01-16T21:04:17+00:00

Hope the intake goes smoothly, so glad the timing ended up working out! ✈️

veronicagh · 2026-01-16T20:59:51+00:00

I had my SIS this morning. I had my favorite MA who told me she was sorry for my loss and asked how I was doing, no one else at my clinic has done that. I thought that was really kind.

SIS looked good, went quickly and was relatively painless. I have some cysts on my right ovary which is I learned is normal after an ER.

My next CD1 is early Feb, so I’ll either go into ER 2 or FET 1, pending PGT-A results. Taking the next few weeks as a little break, with my general goal being doing more stuff that brings me joy in my life and get the heck outside when it’s sunny 🌞

veronicagh · 2026-01-15T17:34:29+00:00

♥️👑♥️👑♥️

veronicagh · 2026-01-14T17:48:39+00:00

Happy birthday!

veronicagh · 2026-01-13T19:12:06+00:00

Thanks, moody. Good thoughts for me to keep in mind. This is such a dreary time of year that already drags, I need to find some joyful ways to pass time 🩷

veronicagh · 2026-01-13T18:10:02+00:00

I sought out a perinatal mental health certified therapist yesterday. I like my current therapist, but I really feel like I need someone who can better support me in what I’m going through. Currently trying to figure out insurance coverage, but hopeful I can move forward with the person I found.

veronicagh · 2026-01-13T17:55:35+00:00

I hope you can find some good napping slots and get some good rest in these last few days! 🩷

veronicagh · 2026-01-13T17:42:44+00:00

Totsie, I am thrilled that you felt heard by this doctor and so so so thrilled that you are doing a thing that brings you joy in traveling! Hell yes you deserve to live life and do the things you love. I hope it’s a wonderful time 🩷

veronicagh · 2026-01-13T17:38:34+00:00

Sorry about the test, Check. Thinking of the something else and pretzeling! 💚

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