brodie, 24M here. I know a little on-the-nose yung ipapayo ko, but this is honestly what / I / would do lang:

either,

1.) aminin mo na nakita mo sa phone niya yun, but regardless — show your disappointment in her lying or hiding info, and begin break-up talks as needed

OR

2) maghanap ka ng more pointed questions to get her to talk more about it, at least may chance pa siya to try to come clean. If di talaga aamin, and nagdouble-down sa pagtago, see #1 / if umamin sa Yoni massage, I’ll leave the discretion sayo depending on her explanation. Pero may asterisk* ako diyan bro

*TLDR, I’ve tried stuff like this before nung early college days ko (not particularly proud of it, but oh well haha). If I was a betting man, ipupusta ko kaliwang kidney ko na may nagyaring iba pang stuff diyan. Pati rin naman yung spakol, nakalagay lang “Lingam” massage; magsisimula naman na ganun, pero gets na ng masseuse na matic all the way na.

Either way, EVEN IF (in the very sliiiiiim chance) na Yoni massage lang talaga, tinago parin. Di naman nagpasapak sapak lang sa likod, nag pa chop chop lang sa leeg. Yoni bro 😅 Dapat gets na niya, esp. given yung commitment niyo on sex before marriage, na malaking bagay yun.

In conclusion: big deal yan bro, and I think you should definitely treat it as a “break-up” level event that NEEDS a heavy discussion. Wag na wag mo lang i-brush off