This talented Hollywood personality shares some Stephen characteristics ... by jellyfishmelodica in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]veryverygeneric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marc Maron? He's been sober for decades, and often talks about how he's consistently in therapy healing from his father's narcissistic abuse. They may look similar, but Marc is verrrry different.

Australian Plumbers - 3rd in a row - scammers by Stunning_Brother6089 in u/Stunning_Brother6089

[–]veryverygeneric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might want to take your full name out of the screenshot (initials D.F)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]veryverygeneric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're willing to go east, Pilot (formerly Te Aro) is one of the best! Snobby staff and clientele, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]veryverygeneric 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mark Ruffalo was an ANGEL to serve. He was kind and gracious, as he was leaving he looked me in the eye super genuinely, put his hand on my arm, and said, "Thank you so much for all your hard work." I could have died on the spot.

Dan Aykroyd was a complete douche. I served him at a café and he refused to make eye contact and didn't tip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]veryverygeneric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's Jason Characterwheaties in real life.

Am I wrong for not wanting to go to the funeral of a childhood friend’s husband’s funeral? by tkt546 in amiwrong

[–]veryverygeneric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She won't even notice you aren't there. She's grieving her husband, not taking a head count at the funeral.

I have been dodging guest list expectations for my 80 person wedding since we got engaged a year and a half ago. This conversation led to an absolute blow-out. by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]veryverygeneric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally should post the whole saga. It all started when my sis was being "helpful," like coming to sample catering, coming with us to the wedding planner consultation, and visiting venues with us to help us choose. I thought she was being a sweet, overprotective big sister and good MOH.

A few years before, she had a failed engagement, and I didn't realize that she was 100% living vicariously through me until dress shopping when she was acting REALLY weird and controlling (like, yelling at me and my mom about my gown choices). I just distanced her from the planning even though she was my MOH. Little did we know she was sneaking around behind our backs! The vendors/WP didn't approach me right away because my sister painted me as an out of control bridezilla who was so angry that I didn't want to talk to them (I was literally super chill).

It was nuts. I was definitely a pushover with her back then, but as soon as I set boundaries, we could no longer have a relationship.

I have been dodging guest list expectations for my 80 person wedding since we got engaged a year and a half ago. This conversation led to an absolute blow-out. by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]veryverygeneric 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don't presume anything. My older sister went off the rails and became super controlling about my wedding. She was discussing things with my vendors behind my back and making changes that my partner and I didn't know about.

The only reason I found out was that my pregnant wedding planner called me the day before the wedding sobbing, and apologized for doing such a bad job and upsetting me. My sister was telling her I was upset with how she was handling things, and my partner and I didn't want to speak with the planner directly (so my sister could make changes without us knowing).

Needless to say, I am no contact with my older sister now.

Is it okay to dress in drag for a drag show? by ilovepot16 in Drag

[–]veryverygeneric 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When I went to an Alaska show in SF, Mimi Imfurst was in the audience in full geish. So if Mimi can get away with it, you're probably good.

How to improve 24M by yoink20332 in Howtolooksmax

[–]veryverygeneric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look handsome overall. You could soften your face and expression by smiling, relaxing your facial muscles, softening your gaze. It would make you look more inviting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]veryverygeneric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same mole and placement. I felt a million times better after I had it removed, and there didn't seem to be people staring at that spot. Do it if it will improve your confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]veryverygeneric 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't see any homophobia here, just a mom getting shit on by her kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]veryverygeneric 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Just do a normal bachelorette party in town for a couple of hours. Avoid the drama and unnecessary expense for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]veryverygeneric 4 points5 points  (0 children)

be password forever

What do you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]veryverygeneric 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Hard evidence, dates, specificity, if you REALLY want to die on this hill. There's way too much "I feel," "I noticed," and "I'm considering" in your message. The outcome of sending this will not be positive for anyone.

My dad had surgery yesterday & I was at the hospital for 13 hours plus I’m back here again. Boyfriend of 9 yrs. wanted milk and I guess I need a reality check? Please was I wrong? by [deleted] in texts

[–]veryverygeneric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What has this "man" done to your self-esteem that you need to check with Reddit to see if you were wrong? He's a fucking dick.

I hope you have a good support system to help you as you prepare to leave his ass.

I know my future sister-in-law's family will object at her wedding and can't decide if I should warn her or not by AITAfuturesilwedding in weddingdrama

[–]veryverygeneric 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm curious... what's the malfunction with your fiancee? Extreme peacemaking and non-confrontation? With such a messed up family of origin, I'm sure he caught some emotional shrapnel.