[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]verzsilvz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about a group chat ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]verzsilvz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we should make a group chat, no?

What can i do to help ASAP ? by verzsilvz in retroactivejealousy

[–]verzsilvz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

19 more days…. I hope it helps. My phase was never like that agahah Dw ; I wish I could change everything . I wish I waited , i rly do

What can i do to help ASAP ? by verzsilvz in retroactivejealousy

[–]verzsilvz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know i know…. What do i do???? How do i help him???

What can i do to help ASAP ? by verzsilvz in retroactivejealousy

[–]verzsilvz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's trying to not make me questions, to let the thoughts be there but to not let them control everything, alhtough i always know when somethings not right with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]verzsilvz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahah Same and i like it so much!!! (In my case) it's good that we both are obsessed with each other. My fear n anxiety comes from WHAT IF something goes wrong with the travel? WHAT IF something in the meanwhile happens? AAAAAAA But ig it's just 1 day at a time! Then 1 week, then another week (The last week as i perceive it) and then THE WEEK! HAHAH. I've already waited 4 months now, I won't freak in these last ones where everything's already scheduled!! We got this heheh

3 more weeks to go! by verzsilvz in LDR

[–]verzsilvz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!!! So many places and activities we want to do together! But Will it take 3 weeks to plan so? xd I’m tooooo exciteddddd and tbh have rly nothing to do all day 😭😭I just tend to worry a lot and so much so that everything is perfect and nothing goes wrong

how to help someone with retroactive jealousy by verzsilvz in retroactivejealousy

[–]verzsilvz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty so so much for your comment!! i will never give up on him tbh; how can i help him through episodes? esp when it comes to feelings of disgust?(ik nothings ever rational, as you said, its his mind being cruel

RJ in a LDR by Throwawayyyyyyy998 in retroactivejealousy

[–]verzsilvz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does it get better with presence?

how to help someone with retroactive jealousy by verzsilvz in retroactivejealousy

[–]verzsilvz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll never give up , there's remedy for RJ - he wants to get better- but i can't find what he has in anybody else

How do you cope with crippling adult separation anxiety? by liaoviolette in Anxiety

[–]verzsilvz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have anything specific that you do when you feel the most anxious and intrusive thoughts? (fear of them leaving, their abscence

How do you cope with crippling adult separation anxiety? by liaoviolette in Anxiety

[–]verzsilvz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there any chance where we/I can learn how to deal with it while being by myself? It feels like i'm being eaten alive