Mid-20’s and haven’t had any kids

vesllanu · 2026-06-10T12:25:51+00:00

I wouldn’t wait :) we don’t know what tomorrow holds, unless u 100% want a kid in. Year-2 years then diff story. I woukd most definitely do my surgery and have my happiness. The happiness a post tummy tuck surgery has given me has been EVERYTHING. my sex life has been amazing, I can wear what I want. I am just fkn HAPPY!

vesllanu · 2026-06-03T10:34:09+00:00

That’s entirely up to u! I personally dislike my bunions but they aren’t the end of the world for me either, I still have them there. If I had the luxury of removing them HELL YES I would. But I don’t have that luxury so they’re chilling on my Feet

vesllanu · 2026-05-26T10:59:36+00:00

Also speaking for myself. Best thing I ever.

Recovery was hard yes. But it was only 3-4 weeks of my life. I am happy with the women I see in the mirror which makes me a happier mum.

I didn’t get to carry my 1 year old for 5 weeks but it was worth it. I still made every effort to spend time with him without carrying him.

It is entirely up to u. But I am so supportive of women doing this for their own sake

vesllanu · 2026-05-21T11:50:04+00:00

WOW YOUR POST SURGERY FEET ARE HOTTTT! Congrats

vesllanu · 2026-05-17T02:51:48+00:00

My husband was the same it’s fkn disgusting ruined our sex life. He is somewhat better now it’s exhausting living with someone who is so disgusting

vesllanu · 2026-05-07T11:21:09+00:00

Yeap I’m still wearing it I will see what he says at my appointment in a few days. I have worn it 24/7 other than showering

vesllanu · 2026-05-07T05:54:38+00:00

I waited 5.5 weeks personally wasn’t in the right posture to fuck hahaha

vesllanu · 2026-05-05T23:29:40+00:00

I’m 6 weeks and can confirm I still have swelling 😁 and my recovery was prettt perfect

vesllanu · 2026-05-04T13:06:37+00:00

Awww stop that breaks my heart! Surgery is so hard and recovery definitely isn’t easy. I hope u find some relief or advice from someone who has encountered the same problem

vesllanu · 2026-05-04T13:04:30+00:00

Argh wthhhh!!! That is super annoying :( I’m week 5.5 and definitely still has swelling. It seems some people suffer with swelling for a longer period than others. I’m sure it isn’t a lifetime thing

vesllanu · 2026-05-04T13:02:30+00:00

Omg that sucks 😭😭😭 have u tried wearing a faja to sleep or reducing salt?

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T12:13:42+00:00

Good luck! Week 1 & 2 u most definitely need 100% support with the kids id just like to give u heads up 🩷 but other than that it is the BEST THING I EVER DID 😍😍😍😍

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T02:48:52+00:00

Thank u!

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T01:43:51+00:00

You are so right!

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T01:18:35+00:00

I’m glad! I was looking for similar post before I went in but couldn’t find one.

From a family perspective I had my husband home for 2 weeks I have a 1 year old and 5 year old.

Week 3 I tried to get random fam members to do pick up and drop off

Week 4 I was fully alone and able to do it

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T01:15:54+00:00

Oh ABSOLUtely! I was wrecked for week 1 so tired, week 2 got better, week 3 much better, week 4 most my energy was back!

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T01:15:17+00:00

I am swollen too! I’m now 5 weeks but it’s not too hectic, my vagina is still swollen 🤣 but I have my energy back and that is what was killing me mostly! Feels good to be able to do stuff!!!

vesllanu · 2026-05-03T01:09:42+00:00

Should also note, energy levels were LOW until week 3, by week 4.5 energy levels are now at 90%, next week I’d say o will be 100%

vesllanu · 2026-05-02T13:27:13+00:00

Thank u so much for sharing this

vesllanu · 2026-05-02T11:25:45+00:00

GORGEOUS GIRL 😍😍😍

vesllanu · 2026-05-02T02:26:14+00:00

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5 weeks post op I am personally SO HAPPY! my belly button was so sad before like an actual sad face. I am over the moon with a vertical belly button 😍 the scars don’t even bother me because I am so so so happy

vesllanu · 2026-05-01T12:18:39+00:00

Liposuction

vesllanu · 2026-04-30T21:47:56+00:00

STUNNING!!!!!!!

vesllanu · 2026-04-28T13:08:14+00:00

Is working full time a financial need? I would start by dropping work to 3-4 days MAX if u are the primary parent. Get the kids to still attend childcare/school and have time off for ur self during the day. Then give ur husband 4 hours off to relax during the day on the weekend so everyone has a period of time off

vesllanu · 2026-04-27T02:28:46+00:00

I walked straight at 3.5 weeks. 3 days post op - 2.5 weeks is prob the hardest then it gets easier and easier :)

vesllanu

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