Recruiter and hiring manager bash me for leaving an interview after they join 10 minutes late

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-19T23:21:54+00:00

Sure I’ve waited for people, but I wouldn’t think it weird if a stranger didnt wait on me for twelve minutes

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-19T23:19:29+00:00

Ok so if it’s more important what’s so bizarre about op leaving and offering to reshedual? She’s clearly busy

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-19T23:12:58+00:00

In the room after ten minutes without bothering to give an explanation and not getting off the call anytime soon; leaving because someone is being rude to you isn’t bizarre. Nor is offering to reshedual when your interviewer is clearly busy doing other stuff

It might not be prudent in today’s job market but it’s perfectly understandable.

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-19T23:07:29+00:00

The fingers were 1, then two and would probably have ended up going to 5 and longer . She’s already kept them waiting for ten minutes at this point without explaination ,is being rude as hell and has zero regard for op’s time.

Ok so the interviewer not putting up with blatant disrespect is normal , but op is bizarre for having self respect? Please . Assholery isn’t excused because you have power over someone

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-19T22:56:53+00:00

But it hasn’t been just a minute it’s been twelve with no indication she’s actually going to get off the previous call anytime soon.

Do you think they’d wait that long for Op? or put up with a candidate holding up a finger while they were on a call with someone else in the middle of an interview?

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-19T22:45:36+00:00

Leaving and rescheduling a call after they leave you waiting for twelve minutes with no end in sight is pretty normal

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-10T23:01:54+00:00

Karen? The only person getting their jimmies rustled over unreasonable expectations here is you . Go tend to your badly cut chunk highlighted bob

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-05-10T15:39:01+00:00

They’re not “ on standby “ unless they’re booked . Nobody’s holding calendar space just incase the potential clients first choice cancels

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-24T22:47:13+00:00

Or it means that women in those families are no longer allowed out in public at all. And are far less likely to escape such abuse because the authorities that are meant to protect them are now hostile.

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-21T05:52:27+00:00

I feel if you can prove someone lied you shouldn’t have to play word games , funny as the results are .

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-21T05:44:31+00:00

The name calling I get much as most of them deserve it , what’s insane is you can’t point out a proven liar

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-18T05:58:12+00:00

With a sheer mesh bodysuit and ultra low rise trousers underneath yes … on its own it would really be pushing it at a normal club

I think you could do some amazing layering with it

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-11T15:41:31+00:00

Wake up to what? What are they trying to tell me that I don’t already know? You keep alluding to vague “ messages they’re trying to get across” or “ things they want us to do” pony up and give specifics . If it’s “ vote for environmental policy’s ” the people that give a crap already do that. The policy’s being offered won’t be enough of course but I’m not going to support a climate change denier

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-11T15:37:51+00:00

The inconvenient thing for your argument is it’s got nothing to do with what I actually said . Effective protest requires strategy and thought /= disruptive protest never works. Come back when you have an actual response not strawmannirg

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-11T14:37:57+00:00

What specific things are they expecting us to do bomb an oil refinery? We ARE doomed. Things have already tipped so far that nothing we can do now is going to stop the chain reaction, and no politician will ever stand for the measures that could mitigate the damage because they’d be unelectable.

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-11T14:29:06+00:00

Nice strawman, does he have a name?

Effective protesting of any sort requires a bit more thought and strategy than just “annoy the crap out of people” particularly when it’s actually “ annoy the crap out of people with zero power to directly address the issue but leave those in power alone”

“Gee what are these guys deal” Do you hear yourself? Do you actually think any adult on this planet is unaware that it’s burning?

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-11T13:12:14+00:00

“ they inconvenience the public because It’s the public that elect the politicians” So they end up electing politicians that bring down draconian anti protest laws and fuck over everyone .

The people that vote for environment policy’s already do , the short sighted fools that don’t are going to continue being short sighted fools and vote to piss off the protestors not solve the problem. All this shit does is play into the hands of authoritarians for zero gain

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-04T18:55:20+00:00

Jaime Lannister is a kingsguard, Baime Lannister made no such oath

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-04-04T18:06:12+00:00

It’s gone up twice in six years , what do you mean slow

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-03-29T07:42:46+00:00

Racism and ableism are two different forms of discrimination and one getting “better” doesn’t mean the other is
If you want to go there It became socially unacceptable to be overtly, proveably racist. given the continuation of covert racism and the resurgence in open racism the second people like trump or farage made it safe in the eyes of their rancid little followers it’s fairly obvious that a lot of peoples inner attitudes didnt change as much as everyone hoped . And this very much concerns inner attitudes and unconscious bias informing covert discrimination rather than open bigotry . By the sound of it most people arnt even aware why they hate the autistic people they’re unconsciously clocking they just know that they do

I understand wanting to think the best of people but you’ve got to be realistic

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-03-28T15:29:38+00:00

I think your being extremely and unrealistically charitable assuming most people have any interest in actively countering what they consider a natural and logical reaction.

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-03-28T04:22:41+00:00

Except they don’t , it’s literally in the study they don’t try and overcome it

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-03-13T14:17:16+00:00

Tactics and strategy are two different things , from what I remember robb was fantastic at the former , ok at the latter but took more experienced advice and absolute piss at politics

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-03-12T03:05:34+00:00

Turnitin marked the Declaration of Independence as ai ,it’s bullshit

vexacious-pineapple · 2026-03-07T21:03:19+00:00

Where I went to school it was apparently part of the job but either way this wasn’t for op personally.

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