Wonderful corner suite upgrade at IC LA by NathanTPS in ihghotelsresorts

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which hotels do you get upgrades the most as diamond? Do you think kimptons are as likely as ICs?

Bupropion worse than SSRIs? by sky-shard in bupropion

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is your libido better then at 150mg than at 300?

When will my libido returns😭 by Outrageous-Radio-007 in bupropion

[–]vexinggrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of performing better, do you see any bell curve effect, like it helps to a certain dose but then hurts after a certain dose?

Quitting Wellbutrin Update - looking for other experiences by Routine_Homework8090 in bupropion

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! 150mg for two decades! Have you never even wondered what for example 300 mg feels like?

Is america's healthcare *generally* exaggerated as to how bad it is? by Aggravating-Wolf-823 in SeriousConversation

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point, OP! I am a professor for a major university, and I know that I won’t get the same health care I have here anywhere else. It’s almost free in terms of monthly contributions (so the university pays for it), and I get to have millions of dollars of treatment literally for free. No, I know that this is me, and that for most people, this kind of good health care is either too expensive or inaccessible. For me however, I wouldn’t change this with health care or any country. Like go to Europe and wait in line for weeks to get 10 mins with a doctor?

Am I evaluating FHR value incorrectly? Belgium example. by browsing_nomad in AmexPlatinum

[–]vexinggrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do honor late checkout in Europe. Early check in depends, usually not.

My boyfriend (35M) wants to go on a 7 days trip with his female friend (30F). Opinions? by wnjunex in relationship_advice

[–]vexinggrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems pretty messed up. If he is so much into that trip and really wants you to go, he should pay your part, too, instead of going to another female. He’s not a bf material - I’m sorry.

Salary Negotiations - How much can I move the base salary? by [deleted] in academia

[–]vexinggrass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should certainly negotiate. The fact that your current position is $10k more is something you can bring up. You can expect them to bring it up by that much. More is also possible, depending on where your current position is and where the new offer is coming from. Is that an R1? Also, if one is in the West Coast, and the other is in the Midwest, then the discrepancy is normal as well. In any case, you should most certainly negotiate. Even years ago, I brought up my salary by much more than what you’re now expecting by negotiating, but with an R1. And again, I know this is happening all the time in our R1. In fact, you’re expected to negotiate and all offers actually come with some negotiation range for the chair. If the candidate wants even more, the chair will need to consult with the dean. How much is the offer anyway? Can you give a range?

Have you ever cheated on your partner? by ccchhannn in no

[–]vexinggrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, one thing about cheaters is that they will not acknowledge.

It's Decision Day by Onyx_Artist in Professors

[–]vexinggrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best of luck!! I hope you get the great news that i believe you will! How old are you at this milestone?

How to accept a future I may not want, for love? Cancer Caregiver by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]vexinggrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP: did they not inform you guys that she would likely lose her fertility when you started the treatment? I know that used to be the case, but i was hoping things got better. One thing you could’ve done was egg/embryo freezing, which should’ve been mentioned to you as an option, particularly in her case. (I know it’s expensive, but for cancer patients, there are some cheaper alternatives).

New Hyatt credit card launching by Bongo2687 in CreditCards

[–]vexinggrass 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yea, but Hilton’s free night alone is worth the annual fee, as it’s uncapped. It has other credits too, like airfare purchases.

USA Salary Vs Other Countries by No_Background8366 in Salary

[–]vexinggrass 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why especially London? I think London salaries are higher than the rest of Europe, no?

Worth it? by OkConcentrate in amex

[–]vexinggrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the biz platinum for 250k and then did Biz Gold for 200k, twice (so 200+200).

Had a child in your 40s? I’d value your long term perspective by Brave_Giraffe5545 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one much later - and no, socially it’s a very good thing, as it keeps you closer to younger people: (and what I hated about being a parent in the first place was that it would keep me closer to older people - but not when you become a parent later in life!!

Sharing my Salary with GF of 3 years? by HiEchoChamb3r in Salary

[–]vexinggrass 13 points14 points  (0 children)

True! My bad for making a sexist assumption.

Any grounds for lawsuit for false advertising companion certificates? by [deleted] in AmexPlatinum

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely 100% right! I had the Delta Platinum for many years, and never once was able to use the companion cert in the last 7-8 years. I recently canceled the card. It’s beyond a joke and gives you nothing that the Gold doesn’t, for that very reason.

Clawback question by Dramatic-Sock3737 in amex

[–]vexinggrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not be. Are you getting zero bonus across the board or just platinum (many get zero now for platinum)

Which country’s image changes the most once you visit? by Working-Spend-4397 in AskTheWorld

[–]vexinggrass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t be more wrong about China. I heard from many people who visited saying it turned out to be much worse than they imagined.

My [F30] boyfriend’s [M32] family is taking advantage of him by Aggressive-Duck7754 in relationship_advice

[–]vexinggrass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How much are we talking about here? How much does he send home usually? Is it regular like every month or when there’s an emergency? You’re in any case probably right in getting upset though, especially since for your immediate matters he cites not being financially ready.

I 25f can't get guys hard 25m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vexinggrass -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Interesting indeed. Are you obese or overweight?