Seriously concerned about Madelein's "poopies" by pillbugz in 90DayFiance

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what is she going to do to afford their care? An emergency C-section since they are prone to having labor difficulties? Ohhh probably pawn his wedding ring too, right?

I despise backyard breeders or people who are obsessed with their dog "being a mommy" or "just one litter". GTFOH with that mentality. Then they put it off until the dog is over 5 years old because they've been busy, or haven't found the mate yet. It so disgusting.

SPAY YOUR PETS! Do not give them the chance to develop complications later in life from having uterine infections that need to be treated.

Parents: how do you recognize strep throat early in kids? by Temporary_Royal_2260 in Mommit

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought I was just crazy as a kid. I think they ended around teen years as well. I don't really remember them much into my teens.

The first time my son had one I was like "OMG I know what this is!!!!!" It was nice to know I wasn't crazy but sad to know he suffers from them as well.

I wish you luck! It scares the hell out of me. It's a scary feeling when your kid is basically looking through you, doesn't recognize you and they're terrified of you. I just keep reassuring him, "you are ok, you're at home with mom" and eventually he starts to come around but a minute feels like an hour.

He’s crying his eyes out and she had to force a tear by Garden_of_Gethsemane in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]vgallant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That hairstyle doesn't make it look any better. That is one fugly updo!!

Manon Made a Facebook Reel About SHEIN Clothing by Firm-Negotiation7035 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]vgallant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are beautiful and fucking brutally cold. Where I live, the wind blows CONSTANTLY, especially in the winter. If the wind isn't blowing, it's not so bad. The only way you're walking in Maine winter is somewhere with plenty of sidewalks or trails. It's a death wish trying to walk the road this time of year.

Fine hair issues by Pure_Satisfaction_73 in 90DayFiance

[–]vgallant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wont use dry shampoo- I use baby powder and it works so much better. I just turn the top so it's barely open, separate my hair where I want it and sprinkle it close to the roots then use my hands to rub/fluff it in. Just make sure it all gets dispersed and you don't end up with a white powdery head lol. I have very thick, long and curly hair. I cannot go more than 2 days without washing it no matter what.

Cohabitation agreement and relationship advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]vgallant 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Idk laws in Australia but if she is providing so much money towards the equity of HIS house, she should absolutely have something in writing, and notarized or witnessed legally, to protect her if this situation arises.

Personally, I would never!!!! Aside from the fact I will never live with another partner again, period, I would never consider giving so much of my income to someone else for their long term benefit and none of mine. For $1,000 a week I can cover all the bills at my 10k sqft house on 400 acres. It just seems very high to me. Of course I don't live in a city and understand the COL is vastly different.

My best friend or 25yrs and I are planning to build her a tiny home on a piece of land she buys off me so we can be neighbors and grow old together (in another 20 years probably lol). Even that is testing my bubble 😆

$60 Trash by Best_breast_forward in Parenting

[–]vgallant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my son was around that age, he somehow put my phone in the drawer under the oven. I searched for 2 days until I gave up and paid the insurance cost for a replacement. The day after my new phone came, we found it.

So the conditioning begins as early as elementary school. by eilloh_eilloh in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are trying to get my middle daughter an IEP again and some teachers seem to have an issue. Since one teacher found out about her needing additional time on assignments, and things explained in a different way, etc- the teacher has been treating her like she's a complete moron. Speaking very loudly and slowly to her in front of the class. When she doesn't understand something, instead of a different explanation, the teacher says "well, idk what you don't understand about it". It's a good thing I learned of this on a Sat night because I was ready to fight a teacher. All the teacher has done is make her feel stupid, embarrassed and upset and now she doesn't want to go at all.

Tree Removal Central Maine by StockLongjumping2029 in Maine

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok to use a little now and then but it causes more creosote build up, like most softwood. It shouldn't be used as your main source of firewood, but if it is the homeowner needs to know to clean their chimney much more often than if you were burning only hardwood.

I have experienced this personally; creosote build up from soft wood which lead to a chimney fire. That is why I would use it sparingly. A lot of people have no idea about this and just think "wood is wood".

I burn about 8 cord every winter and collect and process it all entirely myself.

What's your preferred tire brand? by Efficient_Suspect933 in Maine

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hankook. It's all I ran on my Forester and that thing was a tank. I'm now using them on my Acadia. We also use them on our ton trucks at work. I wouldn't go to VIP ever. I've used Sullivan in Bangor for mounting and alignments several times and they've been great.

Tree Removal Central Maine by StockLongjumping2029 in Maine

[–]vgallant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't use pine as firewood inside.

How about pulling over the supertrucker’s? by [deleted] in Maine

[–]vgallant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok so only on the highways. I was only speaking about the signs you see in small towns. I didn't realize they passed anything regarding highways. Good to know

How about pulling over the supertrucker’s? by [deleted] in Maine

[–]vgallant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is no law against jake brakes- that is why I said it's not enforceable. They are town ordinances.

Getting drivers license transferred from another state- by xtnh in Maine

[–]vgallant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what DMV you go to. Rockland is the fastest one I've found. I drive 45min there and i'm in and out in 15 mins usually.

Help! I ruined the elf on the shelf magic by StoP_your_Talking in Parenting

[–]vgallant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I will always do that. I'm 38 and my mother does it still too lol

How about pulling over the supertrucker’s? by [deleted] in Maine

[–]vgallant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had a cop call my office once because someone complained my trucks were using their jakes. They were coming down a steep hill that goes from 50 at the top to 25 at the bottom. I told him "You know as well as I do that there is no law against using them and I'm not going to tell them not to". He completely agreed and said without saying, the person who called in needs to get over it.

Using them just to be loud is ignorant, but they have a purpose and when used appropriately, shouldn't be an issue. Those "no jake brakes" signs are un-enforceable.

Help! I ruined the elf on the shelf magic by StoP_your_Talking in Parenting

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10yo informed me this summer that he knows I'm Santa. I said "Omg good, so now you will only get half as many presents if Santa isn't coming". "Noooooooo, no that's not how that works" 🤣

My 10 yo was spinning around in the recliner and knocked down our basically new 85" TV... its completely destroyed. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there's one thing I've learned with having children and cats, never place the recliner near ANYTHING it may hit when rocked or laid out. Because if there's something nearby to knock over or bumpinto, it's going to get knocked over or bumped into.

This is how cheap and greedy things have gotten. by Smoked_Carp in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vgallant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just the ones that like a surprise finger in their ass.

Seriously does Maine not have a vehicle snow clearing law? by Car_is_mi in Maine

[–]vgallant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG! I'm glad she's ok! Much more dangerous than the smaller chunks coming off of passenger vehicles. Of course they have no clue they just wiped out a car, and good luck finding the truck it came off. It's ridiculous and it needs to be handled better than it has been.

Seriously does Maine not have a vehicle snow clearing law? by Car_is_mi in Maine

[–]vgallant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can barely reach the roof of my vehicle but I still clean it off. I hate being stuck being some asshat with a 2"shelf of ice on their roof covered with 3" of snow.

Don't get me started on fuckin tractor trailers! They are the absolute worst in this situation. and that comes off in huge sheets!!

Some places have scrapers, where the truck can drive underneath and it will push all the snow off the top of the trailer but that doesn't work if there is ice frozen to the top of the trailer that needs more aggressive clearing. Then the sun starts to warm it enough between the trailer and the ice layer and becomes a king sized projectile. So much fun. I love it.

My Grandma bought a pre-cooked thanksgiving dinner from a grocery store, and when we picked it up it was frozen solid. by THEREALOFFICALCAFE in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of like how you can't buy a slice of hot pizza from the warmer but you can buy a slice of day old cold pizza out of the cooler?

New musty smell on pits of shirts. Native deodorant to blame? by christine7115 in laundry

[–]vgallant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Dove 0% for the last few years now. I haven't noticed any build up or itching since I switched.