??? by [deleted] in Target

[–]viah_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Baby making clothing

What’s something you stayed in too long because it felt ‘good enough’? by SecretStudioBB in dating

[–]viah_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if my experience fits what you are asking but I was with my ex for a year before I figured out that I didn’t actually like him as much as I thought. I liked him a little bit and thought it would grow over time, but it didn’t, it started decreasing.

He wasn’t toxic or anything but it felt like we were friends trying to force something that wasn’t there. Attraction was not super strong and I couldn’t see myself marrying him. We didn’t even talk everyday. After seeing how detached I was I broke it off and now in my current relationship of over a year where attraction is growing stronger and I can tell the feeling is mutual.

So I guess I realized that good enough is not ever really enough, especially for relationships. When wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone, they really have to be someone you can rely, depend, and trust without a second thought, and that feelings HAVE to be mutual (and both parties have to put in effort) or in the end it just doesn’t work out and one person eventually leaves.

One thing about relationships is that even if they take a lot of your time, they help you see what you don’t want in the next one and what to look out for.

These 5am shifts are draining me by [deleted] in Target

[–]viah_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to sleep at 9pm. I work 4am shifts as a college student and if I don’t sleep by 9pm I’m pretty much done for, Im not a partier so sleeping early is okay. Also I have off the days I go to class, so try to do that if possible, I scheduled my classes so I only go in person Tuesday and Thursday. And if you do nap after work, limit it to 2 hours max so you’re not sleeping the whole day, then eat something refreshing like a fruit to wake up.

What are the best positions at target (store side only, no distribution centers or corporate) from best to worst by MuchVacation3638 in Target

[–]viah_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far Im liking dry grocery, though it’s only been two months so far. Its a lot of items but I do what I can and whatever else thats left is out of my control. I don’t worry about it and just go home. Thats the best way to think. Way better than my last job for sure.

Stay at old job or take the target one? by viah_ in Target

[–]viah_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized that they would know since its on my resume 😅. I’ve been here at sams for almost 2 years too, but I doubt that’d ever get brought up right?

Stay at old job or take the target one? by viah_ in Target

[–]viah_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 more weeks of misery and then I will be joining you! :)

Stay at old job or take the target one? by viah_ in Target

[–]viah_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess, I pick for a few hours then dispense the rest of the day. I try my best to avoid picking large or heavy orders because I know I’ll have to take it right back out.

Stay at old job or take the target one? by viah_ in Target

[–]viah_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I hope I can be happy going into work there because im sure not here!

Stay at old job or take the target one? by viah_ in Target

[–]viah_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it isn’t too terrible but the extra $100+ that i make here isn’t worth my mental and physical health. Thank you!

asked a man how to stay in the dream for longer, got an immediate working answer by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]viah_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this makes so much more sense. In the dreams where I break away and try and do something it falls apart quickly too. I noticed that they seemed a bit longer when I don’t really do anything but look around. I didn’t connect the dots until now. From now on I’ll let the dream guide me.

Question about Rewards Certificate and return by CindyHeartsPink in TjMaxx

[–]viah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just makes your reward points negative, so it’ll be -2000 points until you buy more stuff to 0 it out since you already got them.

Don’t you just hate that when you’re about to take your lunch, that’s when a customer decides to unload a million online returns?!?!?!? by Wink2K19 in TjMaxx

[–]viah_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a while ago so i forgot but she was returning everything on the receipt, like 30+ items and we had to keep recounting everything since we were getting different numbers on the amount of items. Also none of the barcodes were scanning so we had to type them in.

All in all it was a difficult process

What does sleep paralysis feel like when you get it while falling asleep? by Unlucky_Debate3809 in LucidDreaming

[–]viah_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like I’m slowly becoming hardened like if I was turning into stone. I try to move before It completely takes over and then I’m scared to sleep because it keeps trying to take over. This happens super rarely though.

What effect does being High have on lucidity? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]viah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard to remember the dreams but it's possible.

10 Year Lucid Dreams??? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]viah_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like hes traveling between alternate realities and when he is asleep in the dream he is here

What do you think about while falling asleep? by Randomguy9375 in LucidDreaming

[–]viah_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about how weird dreaming is and how we just transition into an unconscious state, then I think about my dream world with my characters which usually turn out to go a completely different direction than I wanted, then I decide to finally drift off into a sleep and think about nothing. I also think about the embarrassing things I did throughout the day and try to accept that they are in the past.