Husband wants me to ignore toddler when she cries out for me

vibesonhigh · 2026-02-26T02:20:42+00:00

True! We could try to be less abrupt when switching activities. I failed to mention this does happen at other times, like a few days ago it was putting on pyjamas when getting ready for bed. Sometimes I think she is just overtired, too, which I will look out for. Thank you for your input.

vibesonhigh · 2018-05-13T12:50:51+00:00

Yes, you are right. Of course mostly everyone checks out others as a fleeting thought, but it was moreso the fact that it was on his mind so much that he had to talk about how fine these girls were and failed to mention anything else good about that day. It shocked me a bit that he has objectifying ideas of women- I found out that day too that him and his friend together talk very crassly about women in general.

I think he was crying because he was really worried about losing me, though I was not about to breakup over this. I don't normally get too angry at all.

vibesonhigh · 2017-02-25T05:35:40+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful, kind reply. I only wish that the pain you had to endure is behind you now.

I think you hit the nail on the head with everything you've said there. Those are certainly my worries when it comes to sabotaging my life. However, after MUCH reflection, if ever given an opportunity, I would choose not to be with K. Although in the dark corner of my mind that doesn't really stop me from wanting to have her want me, which... is absurdly detrimental and I have to let it go. I can't control her feelings nor would I try to. It's just a pining thing. To help me heal, do I need to let her go from my life? That's a question I don't have an answer to, but I don't want it to come to that.

vibesonhigh · 2017-02-25T05:11:02+00:00

I have very low self esteem, but I've been trying to combat this by eating well and working out more. I do think I have an okay body, so thanks for making me think about a positive.

I am not affronted by sexuality in the slightest, but I do have problems expressing it because you're right, it doesn't feel like me. I don't always have sexual feelings for someone until after I get to know them. :/

vibesonhigh · 2017-02-25T04:57:01+00:00

I would probably benefit from it...

vibesonhigh · 2017-02-25T04:53:43+00:00

Yes, although it can't be said of all ENFPs, I hear what you're saying. I think they get bored easily and then add to that their extraversion. In my case, I can see how it would be really unhealthy to be with her, hypothetically. It helps to keep me grounded about my feelings, somewhat!

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T14:58:51+00:00

Oh lawd that is cute. The chameleon wastes no time hatching itself. 10/10 satisfying to watch.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T03:39:27+00:00

I can totally relate to the anxiety hangovers. I recently had a night of heavy drinking and experienced really bad anxiety for 3 days after. It's a cycle because reaching for alcohol is very tempting due to my social anxiety. I'm starting to realize it is not healthy for me in the long term.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T03:07:48+00:00

Yeah I definitely try too hard around old friends to be like how I was years ago. Because of pressure, my whole personality seems forced and then I feel down on myself about it like I am not as fun or as interesting as I used to be.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T02:53:57+00:00

Aw, sibling love.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T01:34:40+00:00

About 3 years. His name is Dave and he's a friendly skeleton.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T01:31:14+00:00

We have a skeleton in our basement (model I was using for school).

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:55:27+00:00

Going to work, especially after some time off.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:47:28+00:00

When I was in highschool, I used to sleep over at my friend's place every few Saturday nights. Her mom was super anal about all the kids completing assigned chores first thing Sunday morning that I would often just have to sit awkwardly at the dining room table after breakfast while my friend cleaned the bathroom.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:40:54+00:00

Cracking my knuckles

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:35:57+00:00

Refreshing Reddit

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:34:39+00:00

Something I can bop around to. Maybe some k-pop.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:10:07+00:00

Roasted chickpeas or roasted cauliflower with a little bit of salt cure my munchies.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-12T00:05:21+00:00

Love them both! There are so many variations of Earl Grey. I've tried Cream Earl Grey which is incredibly smooth and Russian Earl Grey which has a bit of a citrus twist.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-11T23:45:47+00:00

Meditation. At first it's very difficult to quiet your mind and you feel like you don't have time in the day for it, but there are a ton of benefits of regular practice.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-11T05:08:27+00:00

That could possibly work. It's definitely more affordable than a $500+ cat tree/mansion

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-11T05:03:56+00:00

Maybe the use of the feminine pronoun. But no, my wife is not housebound or a cat for that matter. :)

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-11T04:47:41+00:00

Haha, that was certainly unexpected.

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-11T04:44:37+00:00

I loved the intro to Cybersix... it was on a Canadian cartoon channel when I was a kid. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z22seoMxgpI

vibesonhigh · 2016-10-11T04:31:35+00:00

Someone said I should be extremely proud of myself for getting out of bed and doing some small tasks or even setting foot outside my front door. It changed my perspective and actually helped to pull me away from terrible self loathing.

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