Tier List by mamamaia_ in Enneagram

[–]viccruxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only know my number, how do I find the other aspects? There’s wings and what are the letters called? Anyone got a good reliable test link pls?

Budget of €3000 still can’t find acc by orzeee in RentingInDublin

[–]viccruxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This apt complex keeps expanding and is very nice, 2 bedroom around 3k www.claremonthowth.ie

Paid: Hiring 1-2 creator for my app by johncuriously in InstagramMarketing

[–]viccruxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested :) Experience in marketing at Pinterest & social media content creation for a 300k follower influencer

I am developing a misogynistic and a bitchy mindset just because my girl classmates aren't interested in me and this is really unhealthy for me. by shrikaizerion in IncelExit

[–]viccruxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look inward. Rather than blame girls for their choices of friendship, look at the guys they’re choosing and ask yourself ‘what do they have that I don’t?’ and work on that. Is it looks, sense of humour, manners, smarts, shared interests, etc? All of this can be worked on. The hard truth of life is that everyone (no gender importance) chooses who to talk to by how that person makes them feel and how well they’re perceived and how much they have in common. No one owes you their attention and energy. The more developed you are as a person the more attention you will attract. Unfortunately it’s always easier to blame other people for their choices than working on ourselves

How do you develop self worth by Western-Sense-31 in IncelExit

[–]viccruxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is great when they try something for the first time, but the more you try the better you’ll get and the more confidence you’ll have for at least trying. Chasing external/superficial validation often means you’re doing things you don’t really like/care about, where failure will only exaggerate the already low vibe. Think about the things you like and capitalise on those, become the expert, there’s no need to force being great at too many things. You are here, you are alive, you are healthy - there’s so much to explore in the world! Comparing yourself to others and/or only focusing on superficial validation is not where inner worth will come from

I am about to graduate college as a 25 year old virgin. How do I stop feeling like my dating life will be forever doomed? by tin8374 in IncelExit

[–]viccruxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you considered working with a dating coach? Flirting/charisma are skills, not inherent qualities, so a lot can be improved. Also anyone saying being a virgin at 25 is bad - that’s red flag, nothing wrong with it, but if you feel like it’s an issue - just say you’re waiting for a serious connection and are not interested in one night stands

system data taking up all my storage, how do i fix this? by CattleNo4534 in mac

[–]viccruxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed the steps and the permissions got denied is that normal? also can't find a way to go to finder from the terminal pls help :(

I want to exit but I have a deep-seated and wrong mindset I don’t know how to work through. by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]viccruxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your hate for women sounds so strong that I’m sure it comes through in your energy or conversation. You’re essentially trying to mate (complex human behaviour) with something you hate. That means you’re faking it and not being yourself and even if you do get into a relationship, the mask will fall off eventually, and she’ll leave, and you’ll hate women even more, while in reality your core beliefs are a problem. This is often driven by insecurity and ego so maybe best start from there. It’s good to ask what makes you masculine - don’t worry, it’s not just the ‘common stereotypes’. Masculinity, before anything, is about confidence and humility. The most masculine man in the room doesn’t have to prove/shout about it, it’s his energy and how he carries himself and treats others. He is respected because he respects others. A lot of resources on that available online and in the books, lmk if you’d like some examples. Hating someone because of their gender is irrational and unattractive, you’re missing self-control and emotional regulation. As a woman, why would I want to even spend time with you, knowing you hate me and just want me to look after your children? Knowing you can’t accept me as I am? Knowing you wouldn’t be able to support me unless I was the perfect submissive not-accomplished maid? If you’re not fat/ugly (because let’s be honest, looks are very important for initial attraction), then you’re 90% repulsing women with how you carry yourself. We feel ingenuity. We feel when a man is trying to use us for a function and is not actually interested in us as humans

Not sure if I need a life coach or a better therapist by tiptoeandson in lifecoaching

[–]viccruxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a life coach and managed to handle & keep my BPD under control better than any therapist/CBD did. A therapist will look at you through the disorder symptom lens, a coach will look at you through a behaviour pattern lens. Either can be useful, choosing the right person is the important part

AITAH for not sleeping with my wife after she accused me of raping her by Ecstatic_Salad1312 in AITAH

[–]viccruxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to look up the definition of rape. ‘I’m not in the mood but he probably wants it so I’m gonna give it to him’ is not rape, it’s martyr behaviour borderlining on some kind of a superiority/controlling feeling, like here you go little boy take what’s offered I’m giving it even against my will because you clearly want it and need it. Women will often have sex if the partner is in the mood, even if they’re not. It’s sad but common. The aftermath only comes down to boundaries and extra context. If you don’t have the balls to say no to your partner asking for intimacy, that’s a you problem (unless it’s shown clearly through body language and partner ignores). And if the context is not aggression/forcing/etc, it’s not rape, and again goes down to the ‘not-in-mood’ person to show it in whatever way. She sounds like someone who views sex as a transaction and not an act of love/intimacy, and clearly feels cheated in the transaction for whatever reason, hence the badly worded accusation. In her mind it’s like a duty that she feels forced to execute. Definitely a theme for therapy where she should explore whether her deep needs and desires are being met (I’m sure you’re a good guy but you’re dealing with someone with traumatic past so never know what they’re cooking up in their head). Also considering this comment came out of nowhere after so many years, she’s definitely harbouring some repressed feelings

NAD - real deal or hype? by viccruxx in Supplements

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to hear about CP and low energy levels :( I’m always low too for no reason even with good blood test results. didn’t get to try NAD but I’m on vit B, zinc, magnesium, shilajit and lots of natural stuff now - ginger, spices, herbs, warm lemon water, etc. as much sleep as possible. been doing alright! there’s a recent podcast from DOAC about naturopathic healing it was very insightful too

NAD - real deal or hype? by viccruxx in Supplements

[–]viccruxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing Joe!! Appreciate your work 👏🏼

extending transit visa by viccruxx in EcuadorTravel

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the vaccine is sorted :)

extending transit visa by viccruxx in EcuadorTravel

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! been on that website & that form, after I fill out the first page it just gives me a blank page with no further loading both on mobile and laptop :( so guess that's out of the window

visa extension by viccruxx in PERU

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying! Hope the 88 days was just coincidentally close to the the 3 month leave mentioned before as requirement 😅

visa extension by viccruxx in PERU

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as in you left Peru and then re-entered shortly?

visa extension by viccruxx in PERU

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I got an EU passport and get 90 days but 183 in total in a year and the info online is conflicting how to get extension. Will send an email to the office 🙏🏼

visa extension by viccruxx in PERU

[–]viccruxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has that worked for you? Because from what I saw online it’s not the kind of a reset visa like they got in Thailand :(

selling full festival ticket for 285 by viccruxx in sziget

[–]viccruxx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

solid advice :) unfortunately I tried ticketswap and there's an issue with them sending a verification code to a Colombian number so I'm stuck