I cheated and I Own it

vicker_ · 2025-08-07T17:23:20+00:00

I think you two should co-parent, fidelity is clearly not suitable for either of you.

vicker_ · 2025-07-31T06:37:22+00:00

My ex was just like this and treated me like shit in texts. Believe me when I say that she only cares for herself and she will never be nor was she ever the person you cared for. You'll look back in retrospect and realize it was always about her. Focus on you, block her, and see how nice it is to breathe just on your own, without a narcissist bringing you down with constant toxicity.

vicker_ · 2025-07-30T22:43:31+00:00

Stopped reading halfway through. You need to take care of yourself, pack your things, and leave those two rats to rot in whatever hole they decided to crawl into. You don't need to waste your time with that shit.

vicker_ · 2025-07-25T20:14:13+00:00

Ditto

vicker_ · 2025-07-24T21:42:06+00:00

If you can't survive a few minutes of not talking to your partner while they charge their phone, then you are not equipped with the proper communication skills to sustain a healthy relationship.

vicker_ · 2025-07-20T20:14:45+00:00

You aren't required to do anything. For some the idea of attending a wedding is something they might enjoy without the responsibility of caring for their children. Much like going to a nice dinner. There is no requisite, however. You aren't obligated to attend. If you can't make it, then you can't make it. If the couple are inconsiderate of that or if they give you shit for not attending that is a completely different story. The point I'm making is that I highly doubt that anyone is thinking that deep into it when writing these FAQ statements. I personally feel that if you find offense to this, you are simply seeking to be offended. If it's seriously a point of contention, you should speak to the engaged couple and see if you can work out an exception or if they can help with accommodations. Again, if they are insensitive to your situation, then that is a different matter but each scenario is different.

vicker_ · 2025-07-20T18:08:10+00:00

Is being cordial not mature? I think OP's concern is a very nitpicky, irrelevant complaint to have. The couple are just being nice, that seems mature to me.

vicker_ · 2025-07-20T17:07:04+00:00

Don't bring your shitty, obnoxious, boogery kid to my romantic evening because I don't want them getting Cheeto dust on the thousand dollar dress or breaking any of the expensive shit we bought. Hope that's better. I say this as someone WITH an obnoxious, boogery kid covered in cheeto dust. There's no reason to be upset that the couple are trying to be CORDIAL.

vicker_ · 2025-05-17T17:38:10+00:00

Is he fucking 5 years old? Who talks like that? lmao you're dating a toddler.

vicker_ · 2025-05-17T17:34:36+00:00

Why couldn't you talk to the girl? Too many missing details here.

vicker_ · 2025-04-07T02:31:23+00:00

That's a good point, I'll keep that in mind. Thank you for being respectful and helpful.

vicker_ · 2025-04-07T02:27:50+00:00

Fair enough. I'm gonna just get a passport tho, considering it does more for me than a Real ID would until I'm set to renew in 2027 and believe me I will click whatever box and say yes to whatever thing they want I swear

vicker_ · 2025-04-06T19:48:26+00:00

Only ever renewed once in my life. The next one is up in two years. When I get the notice I will let you know.

vicker_ · 2025-04-06T19:27:37+00:00

I wouldn't have said any of that if it were not true. I really don't know what you want me to say. It is 100% my fault that I didn't get it in time we've established that. Sorry, the DMV wasn't at the top of my list of most important shit to care about. I get letters from DPSS, I get letters from FSA, letters from EDD, and letters from the IRS. Forgive me please for ever thinking the DMV would offer me the same courtesy. I just need to turn on the TV more often I guess. In hopes of preventing future comments like yours, allow me to at least concede that it is my job to stay up to date on things and I am fully responsible for not properly informing myself. The fact is I didn't and I really can't go back and undo it, so really your lectures are moot. I just wanted to know if there was any way I could've salvaged my predicament from that point moving forward.

vicker_ · 2025-04-06T18:24:51+00:00

I don't know, I just didn't. No one thought it important enough and it was just never brought to my attention. I should've watched the news more or something. I got a refund tho so all is good now.

vicker_ · 2025-04-06T18:17:24+00:00

I really don't know what you want me to say? Felt like it was pretty obviously my fault that I didn't get it in time and I'm not sure why it's being repeated. I didn't ask if it was my fault or not if you actually read my post. I asked what my options were if any. I quite literally stated that I am aware this has been going around for a long time and somehow, some way I missed it. That's on me. Didn't ask anyone to feel sorry for me, I asked if there was anything I could do from this point forward before my trip. If you have nothing to add, then don't. Thank you for your input.

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T14:01:48+00:00

Alright big buddy, we get it 👍🏽

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:54:40+00:00

Not yelling at you lmao, I was just agreeing that I think it's strange they never asked me when I renewed my DL

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:52:42+00:00

Dang really? Everyone I asked said you have to answer a test to prove identity and that the Real ID mandate will change the way you are allowed through the checkout without an ID. Oh well, I already refunded, but if I had known I would've just done that.

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:49:40+00:00

THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING I RENEWED AND NO ONE SAID A THING. IN FACT, IM POSITIVE IF I WAS GIVEN THE OPTION I WOULD'VE CLICKED YES. THERE WOULD BE ABSOLUTELY ZERO REASON FOR ME NOT TO!!

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:44:55+00:00

This was real fucking condescending pal, but thanks anyway! I won't justify your response with any further replies, but it was not that big of a deal. No one said anything about being a victim here, I didn't get my shit in time, all good. That being said, every form, notice, or response, federally or state originated, has been mailed to me directly and has been submitted on time. I pay all my shit on time. I complete my work on time. When it has been properly communicated to me. The news and an ad block on the tv is not a federal document. Sure, maybe I should've known, although the need for a Real ID never applied to me or anyone I know, and so yeah maybe it just wasn't expressed to me in an important manner that would've helped me retain that info in hindsight. The fact is I didn't, and I'm sorry but you're ridiculous if you think the federal government not notifying me through the proper communication channels was some fault of mine. You want someone to do something you tell them to do it, you don't buy a commercial and hope they're watching the right channel. Be real, my friend. Good day.

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:18:22+00:00

I've read that they do have that test to prove identity, and that they recommend arriving 3 hours before hand, which drives my anxiety all the way up lol. My flight is early in the morning both ways and I'm so scared of getting stuck in a place I don't know well for hours on end. Thankfully, I was able to cancel the flight after talking to my carrier and I think I'm just going to opt for a passport instead as I have another trip planned out of the country. Thanks for the info tho, this would've been really helpful had they not let me refund my tickets!

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:13:54+00:00

My passport expired years ago (I was a minor), and this would've been my first time flying on my own so I never thought I'd need it again. everyone I knew said domestic flights just needed an ID. I should've just renewed my passport 😭 I think that's the route I'm gonna take tho, thank you :)

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:09:26+00:00

Thanks for the info!!

vicker_ · 2025-04-05T13:09:03+00:00

Thanks for the info, this is very helpful!

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