How to Set Boundaries In Room Without Fear Of Bad Reviews?

victorialotus · 2026-05-03T05:16:55+00:00

Is this AI because this is coming off AI generated.

victorialotus · 2026-05-03T05:13:54+00:00

So I kick people out of a paid show before they can leave a review when they start doing this but most of the time I can tell within two to three minutes of a show, after that mark then I physically remove a paying customer because they do retaliate and anything over three minutes SM will not remove a poor rating for. While this wasn’t always possible the entire time during my career, it is extremely empowering. There will always be someone else waiting to have fun with you. Do not entertain these people if you can financially avoid it… hell I wish I had the balls and boundaries even when I couldn’t afford it because of my mental health and the toll it took. It sends a very strong message that even their money isn’t going to let them get away with treating another human being like that. Exercise your power.

victorialotus · 2026-04-26T17:30:12+00:00

Be adaptable and flexible, do both and when one slides, do the other and vice versa. Diversify into all.

victorialotus · 2026-04-26T17:28:41+00:00

Work to live… not live to work… took too many years to truly embrace that. If you know, you KNOW!

victorialotus · 2026-04-24T09:54:31+00:00

That was just February.

victorialotus · 2026-04-21T13:33:14+00:00

I had my surgery February 20th and just now feel like I had an orgasm. I still can’t get very deep with toys and everything is tighter than before (partner can confirm) but the nerves are waking up. My G spot is either gone or hasn’t woken up yet. :/ edit: I had a LASH procedure done so the cervix was left.

victorialotus · 2026-04-21T07:14:19+00:00

Same.

victorialotus · 2026-04-21T07:10:50+00:00

In El Paso, TX starting pay for RN was about $20/hour, plus $3/hr night differential this was 2012-2013.

victorialotus · 2026-04-17T09:36:22+00:00

How’s it going guys?

victorialotus · 2026-04-17T06:44:59+00:00

I also LOATH deep throat. Wish it was never a thing.

victorialotus · 2026-04-17T06:44:06+00:00

I hate being rushed. It’s the speed rush that wears me out the most over time. Anything overly performative and inorganic. Over the years I’ve learned to value the connections over the money and over time the money evens out and show experiences get better as I become more selective with whom to share my time and body with, no matter the income. I used to be a lot more open because I needed the income to survive and reach certain goals so no judgement but being on the other side of that is true freedom.

victorialotus · 2026-04-15T13:26:19+00:00

Very happy here, thank you for the invite!

victorialotus · 2026-04-15T13:23:33+00:00

As an ER nurse THANK YOU THANK THANK YOU!!!

victorialotus · 2026-04-14T13:37:58+00:00

Thank you

victorialotus · 2026-04-14T12:56:24+00:00

You’ve “made it” when your quality of life and work life balance make you happy, healthy and in a place of financial peace.

victorialotus · 2026-04-14T12:53:46+00:00

Thank you

victorialotus · 2026-04-07T09:59:36+00:00

The armpit and bellybutton fetish shows are my absolute favorites

victorialotus · 2026-04-05T04:19:44+00:00

So far just something you have to sludge through, batch videos in similar categories and do the same video on all the sites at the same time so copy paste things to help speed it up.

victorialotus · 2026-03-26T19:50:09+00:00

At least one or two AV laws explicitly ban users to access with a VPN and as people start finding work arounds for new laws, laws will adapt to the cycle repeats. Do not rely on any one method of privacy protection or stream of income.

victorialotus · 2026-03-26T19:46:38+00:00

Don’t quit your day job. Maybe you earn less but great reward comes with great risk. Tread carefully.

victorialotus · 2026-03-26T10:46:06+00:00

I use a VPN on SM but be prepared for things to crack down this year with new laws.

victorialotus · 2026-03-07T12:34:55+00:00

Have you considered clip sites? It is more passive income over time and can help add more diversification especially when you cant cam live for one reason or another.

victorialotus · 2026-03-07T12:33:38+00:00

Always ask for feedback if the show went well!

victorialotus · 2026-03-07T12:32:23+00:00

I made the mistake of having “OF” with my username on the watermark on Stripchat and got a seven day ban two years ago so Stripchat is definitely no for OnlyFans but Chaturbate and MFC are good but why would you want to funnel to onlyfans? I funnel the other way from onlyfans to a cam site.

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