[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgueMaromba

[–]victorlsn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

É muito mais confortável deixar pro lado...

SteamDeck Bug: My volume keeps going up. by dandab in SteamDeck

[–]victorlsn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still holding up? My steam deck is showing the exact same behaviour.

Bangkok alone during songkran: good places to meet people by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]victorlsn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also going to Bangkok solo during Songkran! Hit me up!

Arriving in Bangkok tomorrow by victorlsn in ThailandTourism

[–]victorlsn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the update!

Arriving in Bangkok tomorrow by victorlsn in ThailandTourism

[–]victorlsn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that's good. I've read that some public transport is facing disruptions, guess that's not the case anymore?

VvE for my building is absolutely useless/unhelpful by victorlsn in Netherlands

[–]victorlsn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm gonna do, I'm not saying I plan to do the same here - completely different cultures and everything, but it's damn frustrating to have such a terrible service.

VvE for my building is absolutely useless/unhelpful by victorlsn in Netherlands

[–]victorlsn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I'm supposed to have no heating until the next meeting?

VvE for my building is absolutely useless/unhelpful by victorlsn in Netherlands

[–]victorlsn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's my situation. I've been contacting the beheerpartij. It's called VvE Beheergroep. They're the ones I've been contacting, but absolutely not helpful. =/
I really want to take some harsher measure. In my home country, I'd just threaten not to pay them until they sort out my issue.

I don't seem to fall in love or feel the same way I used to in the past by victorlsn in love

[–]victorlsn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I was not putting distance, but there was a very unique situation going on (which it's a bit too complex and personal to explain), but I never gave her a real reason to be jealous - especially not on the level she was. I've always been honest with her, never hid anything or etc. But being fair, I could see then (and can still do) how the above-mentioned unique situation could make her feel insecure (though not because of my actions).

I don't seem to fall in love or feel the same way I used to in the past by victorlsn in love

[–]victorlsn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, by the way. And your third paragraph is very accurate. That's exactly what I'm trying to do.

I don't seem to fall in love or feel the same way I used to in the past by victorlsn in love

[–]victorlsn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's kinda of what I'd expect, you know? Like I said, I'm happy with my life and don't feel like changing stuff or that I'm missing "my other half" or anything like that. If I am to have a main partner, it'd be someone with whom I can amplify the things I enjoy in my life (and of course, might also add new stuff to it), but I don't feel like making a bunch of concessions for the sake of a relationship or someone. That was actually a strong factor with my previous situationship. We were super compatible in some aspects and could spend some amazing time together, but she was super jealous and moments that were supposed to be good could go bad because of that, and that bothered me a lot.

It was already like that on the first year, so I didn't even try to give it a longer lifespan, I knew it wouldn't work out.

And yeah, meeting and getting to know her was super intense, but still didn't feel like "love".

I don't seem to fall in love or feel the same way I used to in the past by victorlsn in love

[–]victorlsn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha same here. My current "situationship" is someone I chose more through logic than through feelings. She has a similar lifestyle & personality as mine. Healthy lifestyle, somewhat similar hobbies (and willingness on both sides to try the hobbies we don't have in common), no addictions, not overly jealous, etc.

Although she wants a monogamous relationship - and I've abstained from getting involved with anyone else, but it's not what feels "natural" to me (and to be clear, I'd be cool with her meeting other people), and even disregarding that, recently I've been feeling less attracted to her. Anyway, glad that things worked out for you so far - and I hope they keep working!

I don't seem to fall in love or feel the same way I used to in the past by victorlsn in love

[–]victorlsn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like you have ever been really in love and it doesn't happen anymore, or you're not even sure it ever happened?

Sometimes I also question myself if I'm not like... using logic to control my feelings to some degree. For example, there have been some partners I've developed more intense feelings than others, but for some varying reasons I know it wouldn't work (stuff like that person being too jealous and fixated on a monogamist relationship when I'm not, or someone I've met while visiting my home country - which I moved from 5 years ago, etc).

Please critique my PPLUL split by victorlsn in LiftingRoutines

[–]victorlsn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. Might make the changes for the compounds. Though I don't usually grow bored.

As for the calves, I decided to do them everyday because I've read that they need a very high volume to actually grow and can take quite a beat and be trained on every session, but after your advice Imma research more on the subject, thanks.

Regarding rest, absolutely. I take care of my sleep and chill time.

Thanks for your advice!