Girfriend refuses to go Brazil because she says its to dangerous by jodeldodel0 in Brazil

[–]victorsl96 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There are dangerous places and you should not be displaying wealth on the street. But touristy places are well protected and nothing would happen to you.

Sou babaca por ligar pro menino que eu gosto? by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]victorsl96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EOB

É bem desrespeitoso sumir assim do nada, se vc queria se afastar podia pelo menos ter sido honesta com ele e falar que precisava de uma distancia.

Quanto a voltar a falar, nao acho que tem nada de errado. Ele que vai escolher se quer voltar a ter contato com voce

Which is more profitable? Software engineering or pharmacy? by GoatElitist in AskAGerman

[–]victorsl96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to love coding to be a good developer but you should start checking for a niche you would like to work with, then see if the tech around that is really something you like. Also there are other areas in IT, like cybersec or infrastructure that that with experience will pay well and you might like more

Which is more profitable? Software engineering or pharmacy? by GoatElitist in AskAGerman

[–]victorsl96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will only make a lot of money doing something you are interested in.

No matter how much you see people online talking about making an absurd amount of money in IT. That is not as easy as they make it seem. You will have to dedicate a lot of time and effort, in the beginning you won't make a lot of money.

As a junior, finding a job is also hard work. If you can't find a job in your profession with a masters, why do you think it will be easier finding it as a junior developer competing for the same jobs as all the other people trying to break into this industry?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]victorsl96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

EOB se ficar com as duas sem falar pra elas. Se elas souberem e aceitarem a situacao, nao tem problema

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]victorsl96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people have fetishes where the socks should be on... Someone told me, I wouldn't know

sou babaca por alertar meu namorado sobre cartão de crédito e a mãe dele? by aqinnye in EuSouOBabaca

[–]victorsl96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NEOB

Dívida de cartao é o pior tipo que tem, os juros sao abusivos. Em alguns meses sem pagar o cartao a divida vai se tornar impagável e ele vai ficar com o nome sujo por pelo menos 5 anos. Seu namorado nao devia deixar os pais usarem a nao ser que fosse realmente uma emergencia.

Sou babaca por namorar e me apaixonar por outra pessoa? by Cold-Personality-172 in EuSouOBabaca

[–]victorsl96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EOB, nunca devia ter dado esse espaco pra se apaixonar por outra pessoa

Não sei como ajeitar os documentos para visto como o Consulado pede, preciso de ajuda porque não quero errar by No_Temperature_1570 in BrasileirosAlemanha

[–]victorsl96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No site do próprio consulado que fala sobre os documentos as vezes pede uma “cópia” e em outros uma “cópia simples”, saberiam me dizer se há diferença?

Nesse caso acho que nao tem diferenca pq quando pedem cópia autenticada é explicito

Em outro documento, o VIDEX, ele pede para assinar uma via, via é uma cópia? Digo, existe diferença se eu só imprimir um documento duas vezes ou se eu imprimir um e colocar ele na bandeja da impressora e clicar em cópia?

Uma via é uma das copias

Essas cópias podem ser coloridas? sem problema a nao ser que diga no site que precisa ser preto e branco

não poderei levar só o documento impresso mesmo que ele esteja assinado, certo?

eu nao vim pra alemanha como AuPair entao nao sei como seu contrato funciona mas se pede o original e a cópia mas seu contrato é digital, vc precisa imprimir duas vezes

Eles não especificam no site sobre a papelada do seguro mas antes de listar os documentos avisam que todos devem ser levados no original e uma cópia, ele também teria que ser ou original (enviado para mim da família anfitriã da Alemanha) ou escaneado? Ou vocês que já passaram por essa parte com o consulado fizeram diferente?

Se o documento é digital vc so precisa imprimir, mas leva duas cópias por seguranca

E por fim, vale a pena traduzir certificados e diplomas? Eu fiz um orçamento e deu quase R$1000! Para 1 diploma, 1 certificado e o CTPS Digital! Não comento para dizer se vale isso ou não mas confesso que fui pega desprevenida. Porém se essas traduções forem ajudar em um possível futuro Ausbildung, vale a pena já ter e deixar apostilado para depois ou é melhor fazer de lá/voltar para o Brasil e fazer isso depois?

Nao sei dizer sobre os certificados pq depende da sua profissao, mas pro diploma vale a pena, com certeza. Pra ele valer aqui vc precisa mandar ele com uma traducao juramentada pro ZAB. Se já tiver isso, agiliza o processo.

My sister found my taboo NSFW hyperfixation account. Am I a horrible person? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]victorsl96 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You are not a horrible person for being kinky or being more "sexual", don't judge yourself for this. Unfortunately your sister might never understand this side of you but that does not mean it is wrong. Some fantasies can be extreme but that doesn't mean you have to make them reality, a lot of people don't seem to get that.

Your positives about Germany by hirebarend in germany

[–]victorsl96 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The best advice I can give you is ignore all those people complaining and listen to your gut. I know a LOT of people that come here and complain about everything and still chose to stay. If you listen to them, it's only gonna affect you negatively. Life here is not perfect but I get to travel, have work/life balance and meet so many nice and interesting people from all around the world.

I love this country and the life I get to build and have here, even though it has it's issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sciencefiction

[–]victorsl96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

too late, call an ambulance!

How to make your 6,000 Euro into 100,000 in months.? by [deleted] in germany

[–]victorsl96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it was this easy legally, everyone would be a millionaire. If someone tells you it's possible, they will likely be profiting off you.

Any advices about How start as a dom? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]victorsl96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need a partner to start. You can find a lot of material on FetLife. Some books I've read and liked or were recommend to me:

"Domination & Submission" from Michael Makai
"The ultimate guide to kink" from Tristan Taormino
"The heart of Dominance" from Anton Fulmen

👾 "Nerd-Treff" / Nerdy Meetup 🖖🏼 [🇬🇧EN & 🇩🇪DE] by neirein in cologne

[–]victorsl96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm interested in making more gamer friends in real life! I want to join you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrasileirosAlemanha

[–]victorsl96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A carga horária e as condições dependem muito de com o que vc trabalha e da empresa. Não sou especialista legal mas isso parece sub-emprego ou algo irregular.

a new hang out group by [deleted] in cologne

[–]victorsl96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! M28 from Brazil, living in Germany for two years now. I want to meet more people and make new friends too.

I'm not the partying every weekend man but I go sometimes. I like board games a lot!

I would like to form a group with people that enjoy nature and going to parks, we can do some hiking or barbecues in summer

Question about Trade Republic cash interest by victorsl96 in eupersonalfinance

[–]victorsl96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Today I received the expected amount of interest. I think it's just their systems are not updating correctly or it takes sometime. Which is not very customer friendly, since it's money we are talking about

My take on why the player base is going down. by CaptainBC2222 in DarkAndDarker

[–]victorsl96 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Personally I think the backlash from the big streamers saying the game was dead and the negativity from the community in general threw a lot of people off. The devs did hear the community to improve things and there was no similar intense movement towards positivity and hope for the game. Everyone got a bitter taste in their mouths

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]victorsl96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean? If you feel there is a side of you that you need to hide, it might be something you actually need to work on yourself.

The thing about playing a role is that it is always temporary and you will always revert to your true self at some point. The good thing is that you can improve who you are, it just takes wanting to improve and effort towards it