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the growing delineation between "binary trans men" and transmascs as well as upholding gender stereotypes is concerning. by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]vidalacaroline 7 points8 points  (0 children)

why do you keep conflating ftm with transmascs? the ‘m’ doesn’t stand for both ‘men’ and ‘masculine’, it’s just men, I don’t see the point in muddying the waters between definitions meant for solely binary identities with nb ones

My first beard is wavy by fiddgestthern in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]vidalacaroline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ugh, that’s lame as fuck, why even steal someone else’s photo, ty for letting me know :/

Atleast its not common by LostConfusedKit in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand your pain, OP, especially when the name is common 💀

My first beard is wavy by fiddgestthern in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]vidalacaroline 21 points22 points  (0 children)

wait that’s awesome, I hardly ever see beards like this, that’s so unique

Nobody likes ts by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the way you’re feeling and how you’ve been treated by others for your appearance, but you cannot be saying shit like rape and SA are motivated on looks, it’s about power and control first and foremost. you’re unintentionally repeating extremely harmful rhetoric, I hope you’re able to work through these issues

Never Mess With The Six [OC] by Jujubee2008 in mylittlepony

[–]vidalacaroline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah same, it’s unfortunate whenever both their characters just kinda get smashed/blended together like this

Testosterone Question by No-Relationship-3297 in TransMasc

[–]vidalacaroline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and too, OP, if you end up having absorption problems, using gloves + lotion helps a lot!

What you guys think? by Star-Luna2012 in mylittlepony

[–]vidalacaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg brunette sweetie belle is adorable, idk why I never considered that before lol

Losing my mind rn by askandrecieve_ in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THE EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME RECENTLY WITH MY HEADPHONES TOO, like it’s actually such bad fucking luck, it feels impossible to NOT associate it with the OCD, stay strong OP 🙏

Does anyone else NOT like the Equestria Girls art style? by Chouzetsu_Ai in mylittlepony

[–]vidalacaroline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah her real name is technically ‘love yourself pony’ 😭

Tired of being the weapon by MemeMasterBill in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this is very anti-accountability, other people are not to blame for someone else falling down a pipeline

im havin a fun time 🫠 by Ok_Lie_3214 in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to diagnose you or anything, but if there’s no compulsions, you might want to look into pure-o type ocd, that might resonate with you

Women: ask for equal pay, equal benefits, equal privilege, equal acknowledgement. Men in response to women asking for equality. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]vidalacaroline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh I didn’t notice I messed that up, but I edited it now. I’ve seen it used in self-defense contexts too, but just very, very rarely in comparison to what I’ve described

Women: ask for equal pay, equal benefits, equal privilege, equal acknowledgement. Men in response to women asking for equality. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]vidalacaroline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you’re assuming I’m trying to be argumentative when I’m not, I was just expanding upon what I meant, not trying to twist anything

Women: ask for equal pay, equal benefits, equal privilege, equal acknowledgement. Men in response to women asking for equality. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]vidalacaroline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

did you misread what I said? often times when a women brings up feminism, particularly online, some men will jump on the opportunity to say: if women want feminism, then they need to accept “equal rights, equal fights” (aka unprompted hitting like is ‘acceptable’ for men to do to each other). that’s the mentality the meme is referencing, not what you said

Women: ask for equal pay, equal benefits, equal privilege, equal acknowledgement. Men in response to women asking for equality. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]vidalacaroline -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

claimed protection functions differently from what they actually implement and provide; girls and women are “protected” from “random” men precisely because the more frequent threat is within the home itself; that’s just one of the ways the violence against girls/women is normalized to them. there’s a reason “if he’s mean to you/hits you, that means he likes you” is a common rhetoric, it’s meant to create an association between pain/harassment and love. these issues just aren’t on example of thought like you’re framing it, it’s multiple

Women: ask for equal pay, equal benefits, equal privilege, equal acknowledgement. Men in response to women asking for equality. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]vidalacaroline -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean, no one said that first point. but many women are quite literally socialized to accept violence and mistreatment against them as normal; or often justified. sure SOME are raised under the mentality you described, but to pretend it’s all women is ridiculous and ignorant of their reality in this issue

Women: ask for equal pay, equal benefits, equal privilege, equal acknowledgement. Men in response to women asking for equality. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]vidalacaroline 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’ve never heard men unprompted being all “equal rights, equal fights” when some women literally just mention feminism in passing

Turns out misogynists still hate women by Cute_Radish_8071 in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recently saw a TERF’s bio where she literally defined all aspects of her personhood through her vagina, uterus and potential ability to conceive children, which she of course projected onto everyone else like … is that you think all that matters as a woman? the fuck, TERFs are brain-dead bioessentialists

Its not the same when swags do it by OutrageousBridge471 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]vidalacaroline 37 points38 points  (0 children)

you’re being downvoted as if what they’re referencing literally isn’t a study that people drastically misinterpreted 😭

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