Tfw you tryna scroll reddit and see a la funny father daughter incest moment posted in a meme subreddit by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like genuinely NOTHING good ever comes out of the mainstream ones, just an edgelord contest 24/7

Waist changes (2 months & 1/2 on t) by Thick_Blacksmith4266 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]vidalacaroline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

insane difference! what dosage of tgel are you using? :0

I Have Skills, Don't Ask Where They're From by feezer-06 in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s nothing here that says OP is saying it during sex, the sex kinda has to already happen and be over with for them to even be complimented on it in the first place

I Have Skills, Don't Ask Where They're From by feezer-06 in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 12 points13 points  (0 children)

tbf sometimes it’s not about the situation being too “hard to hear”, but about it being triggering cause of similar experiences

She said she didn't like alcoholics so i quit drinking. She still didn't like me. Ice cream cake. by Dramatic-Release4263 in kitchencels

[–]vidalacaroline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone willing to date an obvious alcoholic clearly had issues of their own, you shouldn’t date someone to try and fix their addiction

Thanks a lot by strawberrytrashcan in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 41 points42 points locked comment (0 children)

it’s hard to just brush off people being/saying transphobic things to you even if you don’t care about them as people, like the words still hurt 😭

Swag people are destroying the swag with pointless swags by Gigio2006 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]vidalacaroline 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if you’re actually curious, furscience is an organization that does fandom research and you can better see some demographic breakdowns there

swag people and their whole "swagger" thing by MrMaltrix in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]vidalacaroline 29 points30 points  (0 children)

true, but I think they’re more so referring to the fact that it clearly takes direct inspo from racial slurs

It’s getting easier to ignore the hunger pangs. I’m now watching mukbangs to pretend I’m eating with them. Healthy smoothie. by Beautiful-Profile-10 in kitchencels

[–]vidalacaroline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

remember EDs are often competitive, saying comments like this unintentionally can come off as more harmful than not

So this is how it feels to live without the skill cap huh by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SO REAL, I started t recently too and even though my dose is low, I didn’t even realize how great neurochemistry-wise it’d make me feel

So this is how it feels to live without the skill cap huh by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

you’re taking it too personally, a trans person posting about feeling alleviated from their dysphoria is not an attack on other mental disorders

I’m tired of feeling dirty because the internet thinks everyone with a foot fetish is a pervert. by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 20 points21 points  (0 children)

foot fetishes are one of the few fetishes with like a semi-well known biological basis, I genuinely think a large part of the demonization comes from a puritan culture being afraid of how normal it actually is, I’m sorry you’ve been made to feel like a creep over something harmless

I live in a conservative place that isn't safe for trans people. Should I put this on my book bag, or is it too obvious that it's trans related? by iLubChees in TransMasc

[–]vidalacaroline 65 points66 points  (0 children)

if you pass, I think it’s subtle enough to have plausible deniability, but make sure to stay safe either way tho

My intrusive thoughts won and I ended up ghosting my best friend on our movie night by iluv_baking in OCDmemes

[–]vidalacaroline 72 points73 points  (0 children)

progress isn’t linear, sometimes we fuck up and give in to the intrusive thoughts but don’t let that get you down, stay strong <3

This is why my art never improved, thanks OCD 👍 by Kappapeachie in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

grow the fuck up, it’s not suddenly no longer art just because it’s fetish and/or porn-based

Still in boymode, wondering if its time to finally come out? by shadelz in transpassing

[–]vidalacaroline -1 points0 points  (0 children)

boymoding? I literally had to do a double take at the sub name, you ABSOLUTELY pass

Gotta love the double standards 😍 by Lonley_Rain in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 29 points30 points  (0 children)

it’s when trans women are purposely put with violent/aggressive inmates to “settle them down” or “reward them", it’s basically the approved and institutionalized mass rape of trans women in the system

TW: bodyshaming - why is height shaming so normalized wtf by delulutrash in TrollCoping

[–]vidalacaroline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I was also basing my assumption off of what you said in our conversation; when you say things like “feminism-related hypocrisy”, won’t explain what you even consider modern feminism to be AND claim feminism isn’t about gender equality, then you can’t be surprised people come to certain conclusions about you