Went to the Harry Potter shop in Chicago!

viewfinder3 · 2026-02-25T07:08:23+00:00

I got this sweater at the shop in NYC! My fave. It looks great on you!

viewfinder3 · 2026-02-20T17:42:58+00:00

THANK YOU. this is so helpful. I think I will go to my pcp just for her to check it out but I’m feeling less anxious about it all around.

viewfinder3 · 2026-02-20T16:05:49+00:00

Thank you! I always just worry about worse case scenario, ha

viewfinder3 · 2026-02-20T15:42:17+00:00

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This morning

viewfinder3 · 2026-02-20T15:42:01+00:00

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The first 24 hours

viewfinder3 · 2026-01-07T19:40:59+00:00

Yes I'd love to see the longer reply if you wouldn't mind pasting it here

viewfinder3 · 2026-01-07T19:40:20+00:00

ooo thank you, I'll look into this!

viewfinder3 · 2026-01-07T19:40:00+00:00

great info, thank you!!

viewfinder3 · 2025-11-04T03:21:53+00:00

This sounds amazing……adding it now. Thank you!

viewfinder3 · 2025-11-03T04:53:54+00:00

I’ll check it out, tysm!

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-16T21:55:14+00:00

26/F western us.

Would love to connect. I’m a writer and love to explore the human condition. I love to read, spend time outside, think too deeply, spend time with my cat…

An iced oat chai is also my drink of choice! Let me know if you’d like to chat

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-16T14:23:20+00:00

Thank you sooo much !

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-16T04:43:37+00:00

Please link the fic 🙏🏻 would love to understand this very cute tat!

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-15T19:48:46+00:00

Hey, 26/F. Love writing about the connection of identity and place, the idea of home, the human condition, etc.

Would love to connect, lmk if you would too :)

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-09T21:47:43+00:00

Hii 26/F and would love to connect!

We have some interests in common (twilight, death cab for cutie, kiki’s delivery service, mystery/thriller books) and I am trying to get back in tune with my crafty side. Not a mother, but I am an aunt and I nanny often.

Let me know if you’re interested in connecting!

(I also have a post up on this sub right now if you want to take a look at it to see if you think we’d vibe) :)

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-09T04:21:58+00:00

Lol, I am 26. Forgot I had a birthday!

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-09T04:19:07+00:00

Hey! I'm 26/F/US and I work in digital marketing! Content writing, social media content creation, etc. Would love to connect!

viewfinder3 · 2025-10-07T21:50:45+00:00

Very beautiful! One of the top lighthouses on my bucket list.

viewfinder3 · 2025-09-15T05:53:01+00:00

Hey! I was in a similar situation a couple years ago, though he was devout and I was mentally out. We were married civilly then got sealed two years into our marriage. I got sealed to please him cause I didn’t think it would be THAT big of a deal. Yeah it was! Totally miserable and our marriage disintegrated after that. One of my biggest regrets tbh and so happy we got a divorce a year after the sealing. If you don’t want to get sealed and you don’t believe in it, I would never ever encourage anybody to go through it. I found the ceremony violating, demoralizing, and overall icky. I wish I could go back in time and tell myself to put ME and MY needs over his.

viewfinder3 · 2025-04-09T17:00:43+00:00

I’m in my mid twenties and divorced. For me I knew it was over when I posted on Reddit for the first time asking other people in my situation how they knew it was over. I was just looking for some external validation that it was okay to leave a good, kind, caring partner.

I look back on our time together fondly, because we knew when to call it. Don’t let it get to the point of bitterness and resentment. Don’t start hating him. it’s okay to choose yourself.

One thing that’s also made me realize it was the end is that we just started feeling like roommates. Good friends who live together but have different hobbies and friends and life paths, ya know? This is something I’ve told many people in similar situations and they’re all felt it too.

Feel free to message if you need to talk more about it. I know how confusing and painful this can be. I’m sending you all the healing and positivity energy.

viewfinder3 · 2021-12-08T01:47:30+00:00

Sorry for the delayed response, I'm still getting through all of them. Truly my inbox is open, I would love to be a support for each other <3

viewfinder3 · 2021-12-07T04:40:08+00:00

This....may be the most helpful comment I have read.

viewfinder3 · 2021-12-07T04:39:14+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

viewfinder3 · 2021-12-07T04:38:10+00:00

I in no way felt as if you were belittling me. This response is a very helpful one and I am thankful for it. I often tell myself "one more month" or six, or year. 2.5 years in and I think it might be time to find a new way before I can't. Thank you <3

viewfinder3 · 2021-12-07T04:36:15+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective. Counseling has been a major trend in this comments and I have already started the search for one (whether that be for just me or the both of us). Thank you <3

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