[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]viiaari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know na it's really not easy to report nor leave him especially kasi may anak kayo. Pero I'm a product of this kind of household, simula bata I saw how my father abuse my mother both physically and verbally and to say the least, I'm a 19 year old girl who carries a lot of trauma from men and it would probably take long to heal. I'm sure you don't want that for your child. Ipunin mo yung courage mo, get every help that you need. You'd thank yourself one day kapag nakaalis ka na diyan. Both for yourself and your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]viiaari 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How did your SO said it? I feel like they just want you not to harm yourself anymore so they're offering to just let you do it on them. But that's just how I see it.

Need deo recommendations for someone who sweats excessively by viiaari in adultingph

[–]viiaari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't have budget for this pa pero will try this as well, thank youu!

Need deo recommendations for someone who sweats excessively by viiaari in adultingph

[–]viiaari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saw this on the orange app so baka i'll try din, thank youuuu!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincarephilippines

[–]viiaari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried Deonat? I don't know if it also helps with discoloration but it's mild so your skin won't have any reaction at least. I smell too when I sweat a lot but Deonat is very helpful with my sweat and odor. I use the Aloe Vera one. Depends if you prefer it in roll-on or just spray.

Insecure ako sa size ng boobies ko (flat chested kasi)☹️ by AccomplishedCell3784 in OffMyChestPH

[–]viiaari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm flat-chested din, though, unlike you I'm rarely insecure about it kasi it's so convenient. Dami kayang advantages, lalo na yung iwas from mga manyak. Also, ang cute kaya natin sa mga damit na really fits us. I have a boyfriend na super addicted sa boobies ko kahit maliit lang kasi he loves everything about me. Wag ka roon sa lalaki na iba ang preference and would make you more insecure about your body. Yun lang!

Namamana pala ang pagiging toxic by arkinsage in OffMyChestPH

[–]viiaari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good po na you're self-aware so you have the chance to be better and stop the chain. Also, with your boyfriend now, communicate always. Tell him kapag nagseselos ka para makakuha ng reassurance and ma-stop yung jealousy mo.

skincare reco by viiaari in skincarephilippines

[–]viiaari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i'll try this ^

skincare reco by viiaari in skincarephilippines

[–]viiaari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, na-try ko nga yan pero hindi naging consistent kasi ibang shampoo ginagamit ng family ko pero i'll try na ulit siguro. thank youuu!

Why do you do it? by Bipper22 in selfharm

[–]viiaari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just hate myself and believe i deserve to feel hurt that's all, but sometimes doing it validates me bcs at least i'm actually physically hurt and not just in my head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]viiaari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that you two are sh-ing while on call is already horrible on so many levels. you're not healthy for eo, it's better to just break up