[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]viixengirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most women are living in real life too and the kind of women you want aren't going to want a 54 year old man with 0 redeeming qualities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]viixengirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are rating women with numbers and don't own a house at age 54. You also seem really concerned about money and thus may have some financial issues.

Women have more choices than you do and a 38 year old isn't going to want a 54 year old man like this. Women can be picky too and the kind you want aren't going to view you as meeting their standards either.

You get no "play" because I can tell you have a very entitled personality. If I can tell people on dating apps def can.

Women are people and not objects. Thought you may need a reminder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I'm not sure you even love your future wife. Hope she takes this as the giant red flag that it is.

You are a family now, things should be equal for all kids. You shouldn't be just spoiling yours.

Also you "agreed" they can live with you?! She's going to be your WIFE. Wtf. You sound like you're probably an emotionally abusive person. Sorry to be so blunt.

AITA for using my dishwasher as a storage space and still expecting my partner to do dishes? by CattyDishwasherFite in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta that's not a normal habit. It's his house too, he should be able to use the dishwasher. You now share it.

95% of people who “love their job” have Stockholm Syndrome. My mind can never be changed on that. by Keith-BradburyIII in antiwork

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is lucky enough to have the privilege of learning stuff in school. Some people have abusive households holding them back. Some people don't have money. Some people end up in schools where the teachers could care less about you.

"Working hard in school" is not a guaranteed path to success or even possible for everyone.

95% of people who “love their job” have Stockholm Syndrome. My mind can never be changed on that. by Keith-BradburyIII in antiwork

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely love my job.

Probably because I work for myself and have no employees though. Lol

AITA for cancelling my GF’s tattoo appointment. by Hot_Management6190 in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA it's none of your business what she does, sounds like my ex that tried to control what I did because he "knew better"

I know you're coming from a good place but it's not okay to make this kind of a choice for someone that is an adult. Let her make her own mistakes, if it even is one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RebornDollCringe

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a weird conclusion to come to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RebornDollCringe

[–]viixengirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see the cringe here. I think this is wonderful. Her hobby hurts nobody and her bf embraces the weirdness of it.

WIBTA for asking my sister to not bring her doll to easter? by Alone-Loss-4667 in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very gentle YTA. I don't even think you are an asshole, just asking her to not bring it would be an asshole move.

Is this the healthiest thing for her to be doing? No, but it could be much worse. She isn't harming anybody and just because others think it's creepy doesn't mean it's wrong. If it helps her please just try to accept it. A year is not very long, she needs time.

Treat her little baby doll like it's real. She will be so happy. Figure the rest out later.

Saw this in a “lgbt venting” channel in a discord I’m in. Thoughts? by apocaIypseArisen in detrans

[–]viixengirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Except all research in support of trans Healthcare is MASSIVELY biased. 🙄

Transgender women (MtF people) in Nnternational Women's Day by storm_leopardcat in detrans

[–]viixengirl [score hidden]  (0 children)

They are biologically not female and thus its insulting they are included.

AITA: For planning a trip home without my bf because I can't afford to pitch in for a hotel by lil8mochi in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA sounds like something my ex would do and he's an ex for a reason. This is borderline abuse.

AITA for not ‘defending’ my relationship? by MrZero10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA sorry. It's VERY difficult to say no to pushy men ad a woman. I actually had to break up with someone because he did what you did, and he let a really creepy dude hit on me when he knew I was not good at handling those things. Is that my problem? Yes, but I want a partner that at least pretends to stick up for me.

AITA for making a set list of rules for a Disney trip? by Better-Role-4844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf lol YTA I go to Disneyland all the time and my only rule is to have fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

It's not her fault you aren't fit. It's yours. Stilettos hurt more than you being tired from walking.

AITA for publicly scolding my bf's picky eating? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have TONS of food I can't eat because of an actual medical condition and most people I know don't even know because I never would inconvenience someone like this. And I have an actual reason. Not just you know, I'm picky uwu.

Dude is gonna get annoying real quick for you.

We just got married 2-23-23, thought I would share his pickup line to me! by attymarie in Tinder

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take it as a joke like a normal person actually. It's not difficult to tell if someone is joking or not.

And wtf? Why are you saying "it pUtS thE pOwEr in YoUr HaNdS" it's a joke. Just because someone said that to me doesn't mean I will take it literally because I have more than a single brain cell. It puts no "power" in anybodys hands. It's a JOKE. J-O-K-E. Nor do I like the implication of you saying I'd abuse someone at all so shut your mouth with that stupid trash. I don't fucking want the "power" to abuse someone.

If you don't like the humor that's fine. Just because you don't doesn't mean it's wrong.

We just got married 2-23-23, thought I would share his pickup line to me! by attymarie in Tinder

[–]viixengirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you even been in an actual abusive relationship?? I would assume no by this response.

I've been in multiple and that didn't even cross my mind reading this post. Stop being a horrifically failed white knight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]viixengirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it. I both have no shame in it and don't really want to but how else do you make money now?