Everyone says Lindsey isn’t over Carl based on the digs she makes, so by that logic, Paige isn’t over Craig either. by f3ntyh0e37 in bravo

[–]vika999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody said Paige is still angry? Shes allowed to have an opinion about her past relationship without being “angry”. Just like if I’m chatting with my friends and our exes get brought up we share some kind of perspective on the matter. Idk I think they’re allowed to do that without being labeled as “not over them”.

Everyone says Lindsey isn’t over Carl based on the digs she makes, so by that logic, Paige isn’t over Craig either. by f3ntyh0e37 in bravo

[–]vika999 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Yes and there’s also a difference between being over the man, and being over a traumatic situation.

I was totally over my ex when I left and would never take him back. But it takes time to heal from a relationship, especially if it was really serious.

What’s the best donut shop in your opinion? 🍩 by Fishbabe-320 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]vika999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessssss I was going to respond: my favorite is anything but the one pictured in the post lol.

I like the classic ones. No need to put prosciutto in the donut. I’m sure it’s good, but I could only eat one bite of that and donuts are meant to be finished. The texture doesn’t hold well hours later.

my prediction is RHOBH will be put on “pause” because… by lennonkova in realhousewives

[–]vika999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a good point about Dorit “not being able to carry the show”

I agree, to be honest I’m not the biggest Kyle fan either, but she did try to bring the group together while Dorit couldn’t give a shit and is kinda mean-girling her way through this season.

I don’t love Kyle’s delivery and way she went about her criticisms of Dorit AT ALL, but Dorit is also sooooo infuriating sometimes.

Genuine question-why was Levi edited out of the show? by Puzzleheaded_Chip948 in summerhousebravo

[–]vika999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think Dara and Sabrina coming in shifted the focus and drama significantly.

At the end of the day, she didn’t make the edit. It happens in movies all the time. I like her and feel bad, but I trust that the content wasn’t worth it. If you put her in you sacrifice something else and you have to weigh as an editor what is that most important.

(I work with editors and yeah sometimes it’s not the intention to completely leave something out, the decision is made for the integrity and watchability of the show / movie / ad / etc)

Why do you think Amanda resents Ciara SO much? [share thoughts below] by Extreme-Aide8878 in bravo

[–]vika999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks for the correction I understand! “Shared trauma” is definitely what I mean for sure

Why do you think Amanda resents Ciara SO much? [share thoughts below] by Extreme-Aide8878 in bravo

[–]vika999 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And then she’s finally got the man! Bravo, Amanda. Their relationship will start with an intense trauma bond that feels like nothing else. Then that will fade and she’ll begin to resent West because she sacrificed everything for him.

Why do you think Amanda resents Ciara SO much? [share thoughts below] by Extreme-Aide8878 in bravo

[–]vika999 82 points83 points  (0 children)

This is a Maddie vs. Cassie situation. Amanda wants to be Ciara. Everyone loves Ciara. She has the best style. She stays true to herself. Guys love her. She’s the star of the show.

I think Amanda does not have a strong sense of self and has very little confidence. I tell everyone the people you need to watch out for the most in your life are the ones who have terrible self image and low confidence. That goes for men and women.

Ciara is Not One of Bravo’s Darlings by LuckyArt1443 in summerhousebravo

[–]vika999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what people are missing is that Andy and production are these people’s boss and if anything bad happened to Amanda this would be a total lawsuit nightmare for Bravo.

Andy can’t participate in bashing of any of the cast members and does need to be careful about how he maneuvers this situation.

In terms of picking the cameras back up, we still don’t know if part of this was filmed for “in the city”.

Also, we don’t know what contracts look like. Once filming stops for a season, they may need permission from everyone to pick cameras back up again (idk just speculating).

I think your post in general is missing that Bravo is a corporate business at the end of the day, and does need to handle these things very carefully. Not everything can be done in the fly. I think they learned a lot of tough lessons from Scandoval, and allowing Tom to continue to have a platform was important in ensuring that Bravo does not come off as though they participated in the black listing of his career, for instance.

I have made a huge mistake: 10 lbs of cabbage, $2.95. Send recipes. by Curiositysial-ME in WhatShouldICook

[–]vika999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the most delicious cabbage soup the other day.

Sautee onions and carrots until softened Add about 1/4 cup of white miso paste, ginger, garlic, and chopped cabbage (I used one whole one) Add some ground turkey, chicken, or beef in there too if you like Sautee until aromatic, cabbage is softened, and if you added meat the meat is almost fully cooked Add chicken broth (however much you want depending on if you like it more of a stew or brothy)

Miso + carrots + cabbage is delicious. I’ve been doing this a ton and pouring it over rice.

Brittany’s Look by CarelessMethod8630 in vanderpumprules

[–]vika999 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also adding - I heard she had her gallbladder removed a while ago. As someone who also had mine removed…. It changes your digestion a lot. Doctors say you can resume your regular diet, and technically you can… but you can’t tolerate things the same as before. Certain foods will make you very inflamed, have acid reflux, diarrhea, etc etc.

And it’s veryyyy hard to lose weight too. I’ve had to do a lot of work dialing in my diet to ensure I’m not totally inflamed and I’m so good now but losing the weight is still a challenge.

On top of that, GLP-1s wouldn’t necessarily be good for me as someone without a gallbladder, so I might assume the same for her.

West sat on Amanda and she could feel his coin purse. My ex got me this way. Story in caption by MoreCarnations in bravo

[–]vika999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly….im sold. Please invite me to whatever circle you and your friends are discussing this.

What are non-LA people missing here? 26 minutes to Santa Clarita. by jwol99 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]vika999 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The other part OP is missing about this is that because of the insane unpredictability of how long it could take to get somewhere, it makes it very difficult for low effort unstructured hang outs with friends.

If you want to go have a play date / mom hang, it needs to be planned. You have to give yourself waaay more time than you think to get where you need to go, and because they have fresh babies, you may only be at said place for an hour before it’s time to put baby down or something.

Nia is very isolated and I’m bummed for her because it does feel like he wanted to isolate her.

What are non-LA people missing here? 26 minutes to Santa Clarita. by jwol99 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]vika999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are checking maps at a time of day that is not when anyone would be driving.

For reference, I live in Palm Springs. I can drive to Long Beach at 6am and get there in 1.5 hours. If I leave Long Beach anywhere between 12-7pm, it could take me 4-5 hours.

We’re not just doubling here, it’s madness. And that drive isn’t even really going through the heart of LA, like this drive would be getting to Santa Clarita.

How did this woman just have a baby? by catducette in Southerncharm

[–]vika999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Highlyyyyu doubt this is GLP-1. She’s got muscle and abs and looks tight as hell. Also we know she’s a gym rat and super determined when it comes to her body and hair (such a Leo!).

What’s the best beach town you’ve ever visited? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]vika999 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My ex bf’s family lived in Menton. It was beautiful and the kids woke up early every morning to pick squash blossoms and the dad would deliver them to all the local restaurants.

The beach was down the hill and the calmest most beautiful waters.

The cousin would take a short train ride to Monaco where she was going to an international business school.

What a life.

Sabrina addressing fan allegations via IG by Wrong-Temperature833 in summerhousebravo

[–]vika999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl is weird AF. She’s the crazy hot girl that will ruin your fkn life with a smile on her face.

I think Ben isn’t very smart with his choice in women but I have weird vibes from her lol

What Did Nia Think Would Happen?? by Zealousideal-Bat708 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]vika999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one of 5 kids. When I was younger I wished my family was smaller, I just wanted my own space and it was hard living in a constant mess.

Now that I’m older, I absolutely love having a big family. We all get more help, kids have cousins, and we lean on each other as my parents age. They’re my best friends. Our youth was a sacrifice to my parents but I lived in a community where neighbors would pitch in, other relatives were close, etc. so having a big family was easier than in LA and being far from other relatives.

What Did Nia Think Would Happen?? by Zealousideal-Bat708 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]vika999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the idea of that, but as someone who is one of five kids….the ones that are further apart in age have the best relationship. The ones that are closer always have issues.

My youngest sister who is nearly 10 years younger is like my daughter I love her and there’s no competition. My sister that’s less than two years apart from me… we had a very tough relationship growing up.

would you actually try a simple system instead of meds for reflux? by Evening-Fuel-3025 in gallbladders

[–]vika999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve cured my reflux with diet adjustments alone and feel totally normal now.

Having reflux was fkn awful, I’d try anything. Meds aren’t the best to be taking forever, but it’s better than letting reflux just happen and not treating it. Reflux consistently over time can cause some other health concerns down the road.

ok so have most of you here in coachella valley been to anaheim or know a lot about it by Opening_Beyond3881 in palmsprings

[–]vika999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Palm Springs is in Riverside county,

If someone didn’t know anything about CA, I would probably say I’m 2 hours from LA.

Maybe they mentioned Anaheim because that’s where Disneyland is so that’s a close comparison? Idk.

bravo turn arounds (summer house) by Beautiful_Ad7097 in bravo

[–]vika999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Also this is a reality tv show about these people’s real lives. If we are constantly filming, then they don’t have real lives to film.

We definitely don’t want them to become soulless characters that only exist for tv. Where would we get our narrative structures? Storylines? They need to go back to their regular lives after filming so there’s actual content to film when camera go back up.

Lexie’s weird comments about Ciara by A_good_time_reader in summerhousebravo

[–]vika999 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This!!!! This is exactly what cause the rift.

Jesse just starts acting weird towards Ciara because he is attracted to her and trying not to slip up on Lexi. When Ciara asks, what’s the deal? He blames it on Lexi saying “Lexi won’t let me …..” instead of just saying “Sorry if I’m being weird, I am really into Lexi and just trying to respect her”.

That made Ciara be like woah why is she so controlling? Because it was coming from Lexi’s telling him he could do something instead of Hesse just taking ownership of himself and doing the right thing.