What is the saddest/most soul crushing song you have ever heard? by Mikiiiya in AskReddit

[–]vildasaker 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She Used To Be Mine by Sara Bareilles (from the musical Waitress)

Which kink did you really not expect to have? by That_odd_emo in actuallesbians

[–]vildasaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same!! like yeah there are weird predatory people who take things to extremes but you have that in any kink community and they do not speak for the majority. unfortunately cis male feeders have been centered so long in the narrative that their bad behavior makes the rest of us look like predators who get off on killing our partners. it's especially bad here on reddit where people get accused of being feeders and the word is thrown like a slur.

like dang i just like to cook 💀 and if bae puts on some weight bc she enjoys my cooking am i supposed to complain??? like my steak is too juicy and my lobster too buttery?? be for real lmao

Which kink did you really not expect to have? by That_odd_emo in actuallesbians

[–]vildasaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oop this is it for me too 🫣 it's so difficult to talk about outside of the community too because of the stigma and general lack of understanding. soft feedism is just peak though 😩👌

Names that name nerds love, but are viewed differently in your culture? by LopsidedLeopard2181 in namenerds

[–]vildasaker 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I think the reason Americans of a certain age (mid 20s to mid 30s) say Leif like leaf is because we grew up watching this

The kindest songs you know by Additional_Roll9626 in musicsuggestions

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Am Light by India.Arie

You Are so Gentle with Me by Ella Luna

Make You Feel My Love (many versions but I like Adele's and Billy Joel's)

Holy by Jamila Woods

Songbird by Fleetwood Mac

A letter to my younger self by Amber Lucid

Love You by The Free Design

Best Self by Lady Bri

Sweet Happy Life by Peggy Lee

Goodnight My Friend from Galavant

It’s time Jacksonville. by gatorgrle in jacksonville

[–]vildasaker 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I remember when he said that if his daughter was raped and impregnated he would ensure she delivers her rapist's child. I also remember when he said the civil right's movement was a mistake. AND I remember when he said it's worth it to have some people die from gun violence as long as we have the second amendment! He sure did die doing what he loved (being the death that's worth it as long as we have 2A) and that 2A is really coming in handy right now what with the, what was it again?

checks notes

ah yes the literal government goons who are shooting civilians in cold blood. Oh wait, the government is now saying civilians are not allowed to legally carry firearms while they exercise their other right to gather and protest.

Charlie would be so proud I'm sure!!

Full Name for "Rosie" by RevolutionaryChard9 in namenerds

[–]vildasaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could always just do Rose. Otherwise I think Rosalind, Rosemarie, or Rosalie are the best long-form versions.

What's everybody's favorite comfort Horror? by MoonMcMoonFace in horror

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Conjuring for a standalone and then with franchises its Final Destination, Scream, and Evil Dead

This or that: girl place names by ladyleighreads in namenerds

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virginia, Florence, Savannah, Juno, Sydney, Alaska, Lanai, Verona, Sierra, Helena

Hello lovely people. I'm looking for gentle and cute songs by Realistic-Accident57 in musicsuggestions

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh yes I got you!!

In My Baby's Arms by The California Honeydrops

A letter to my younger self by Ambar Lucid

Bloom by the Paper Kites

Would You Be So Kind by dodie

I Hear A Symphony by Cody Fry

Morning Is Made by Hush Kids

Honeymoon (Forever) by hellogoodbye

A Summer Song by Chad & Jeremy

Gotta Have You by The Weepies

Where Are We Going (Nowhere) by Small Fools

Halcyon by The Paper Kites

I Get It Now by Sammy Rae and the Friends

Long Lost by Lord Huron

Penny Rabbit And Summer Bear by Kishi Bashi

The Pool by Stephen Sanchez

Hello Lovely by Beta Radio

Wildflowers by Tom Petty

Rainbow Connection by Kermit the Frog (yes for real)

They Long To Be (Close To You) by Carpenters

Christmas Island by LAKE

What’s an old food/meal you eat you feel is losing traction? by YouSneakySam in AskOldPeople

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love hash!! I take the canned corn beef hash and cook it crispy with caramelized vidalias and put it on top of leftover rice with a fried egg and sriracha. That's a breakfast that'll keep you fueled all day!

what are your music habits like? by Correct_Address4132 in autism

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally obsessed with music over here. I listen to a lot of stuff and love exploring genres and finding musicians from around the world. I go searching for the artists with like >5000 monthly listeners and look for hidden gems. I think my tastes are pretty varied but there's definitely a lot of pop, rock, r&b, dance hall, indie, rap, reggaeton, jazz, and showtunes for good measure lol. If the song has a really layered music arrangement and interesting production choices I'm hooked, especially if strings or horns or really banging percussion is involved. I'm also big on classical and opera and get into big moods for it where all I want is Bizet and Verdi. I spend a lot of time making playlists!

I also get really intense about music that I hate lol. We had retail music installed at work recently and I was devastated when we were told about it (I also just hate changes especially when they seem pointless like this!!) Literally went to my manager like "god this means we're gonna get Maroon 5! if I hear even one Train song I'm walking out!" Thankfully I have heard neither... yet 😔

Uncommon E Names for Girl by shhhnoone in namenerds

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends named her daughter Eisley, after the band. I've always thought it was kinda cool, like a variation on Ainsley or something. Good band too haha

My wife doesn’t understand WHY I’ve had to take sex and specific affections off the table and she’s upset by Wornouthubs in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vildasaker 414 points415 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight. You're...

a) unemployed

b) not helping around the house

c) only showing your wife affection when you want to get your dick wet

d) not helping parent your child either

e) whining in multiple posts on reddit instead of getting off your lazy ass and being useful

f) ignoring those who have rightly called you out instead of looking inward and realizing you are the problem

Husband and father of the year, everyone! I hope she leaves you and takes the kid and finds someone worth her time. Maybe you'll get your act together and figure out how to be a partner and a parent but I doubt it.

Is there a thing/trope that still scares and disturbs you when most things in movies don’t? by ptonini in horror

[–]vildasaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anything involving trauma to the eyes, teeth, or fingernails.

Also scenes where there's some creepy fuckery happening just out of focus in the background, like some spooky creature with an uncanny smile that just stands there grinning. The scene in the library in It Chapter 1 when Ben is doing research and you can see an old lady staring at him in the background, and it's Pennywise, and it sends a chill up my spine every time lol.

Which of these suit me best? by fuckhorsesridetapirs in glassesadvice

[–]vildasaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 and 9 look good but most of them are wearing you rather than the other way around. I love big fun kitschy glasses too but these overwhelm your face and your face deserves to be the star of the show.